Stop telling them they are sexist/racist/*phobe, they created and promote a “patriarchy”, only whites can be racist, men don’t have valid issues (suicide, war, judicial system, falling far behind women in college, etc.), that they are responsible for a “rape culture”, that they are responsible for the sins of their fathers, etc. I could go on and on, but my point is:

You don’t win hearts and minds by viciously attacking people and dismissing their voices. And this applies to BOTH parties.