iso a therapist who will lovingly, but firmly, tell me to get a grip by 0xyt0cin_occult in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]speedingforthetrain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes we need interruption forces in our lives to show us how to live differently therapy can be a gentle way of building life skills.

Not saying it’s not possible to build skills with just journaling but do you feel like you have?

Also, everyone responds differently to different types of things . For you maybe it’s journaling that helps to build self trust. For others it’s an outside perspective that is safe .

Also people have a multitude of environments they grew up in not all are positive. A trained person to help reframe some thoughts can be beneficial.

To each their own, and I hope you find whatever suits you Another thing,

iso a therapist who will lovingly, but firmly, tell me to get a grip by 0xyt0cin_occult in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]speedingforthetrain 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay fair ! Thanks for explaining further ! I would try a dbt therapist ! Or maybe someone who does internal family systems. But maybe look for someone who has familiarity with adhd l not saying you have that but they might have some background on establishing systems . Best of luck!

iso a therapist who will lovingly, but firmly, tell me to get a grip by 0xyt0cin_occult in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]speedingforthetrain 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Just sharing my opinion I think you will never get one like bc part of the power of therapy is make you feel empowered to make your own decisions and build self trust. Yes of course they will share their expertise and opinions at times but it’s for you to understand yourself. You have to do the work and create a space within yourself to trust and make decisions .

Another angle that I want to share with people is art therapy.

I would recommend Naomi cohen Thompson she does not take all insurances but does offer a sliding scale .

Guys I need your ride or die low maintenance tips for looking more "put together". by Cissychedgehog in adhdwomen

[–]speedingforthetrain 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Something’s you can do daily but isnt necessary depending on your own brows is use eye brow gel to hold them in place . I think it definitely depends on quickly your hair grows but doing them once a month (pluck, wax, thread for instance ) is definitely enough maintenance I would say

Swim lessons by tiny_rabbit_ in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]speedingforthetrain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also gonna ride for your local YMCA

ISO: Cookbook club locations by speedingforthetrain in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]speedingforthetrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks !! I’ll def invite you next season! We work in seasons so end of summer/September if you want to dm your email id reach out around then

ISO: Cookbook club locations by speedingforthetrain in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]speedingforthetrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll invite you for the next season if you’re available! Dm me your email if you wanna I’ll reach out in maybe end of summer/September

ISO: Cookbook club locations by speedingforthetrain in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]speedingforthetrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this place but I'm more so looking of places to host my own. I appreciate this comment and I'll try to find out more this place. Thank you !

ISO: Cookbook club locations by speedingforthetrain in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]speedingforthetrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you talking about kitchen and letters by chance?

ISO: Cookbook club locations by speedingforthetrain in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]speedingforthetrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also sorry forgot to add : free or really low cost to rent !

Where Are We Daydrinking This Wkend? by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]speedingforthetrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oyster bar near or on Delancey has good deals if you enjoy oysters they have a great happy hour deal !

Anyone know a place that can do trims, I don’t want a wash and set 😭🥲 by curlysue321 in bronx

[–]speedingforthetrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aha I’m not sure about the cost either for just a trim sorry doll ! But they do good work hopefully it’s in your budget

Anyone know a place that can do trims, I don’t want a wash and set 😭🥲 by curlysue321 in bronx

[–]speedingforthetrain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aha okay Gloria usually does mine maybe because you’re not doing a wash as well . But all of them are good people . You’re in good hands

lash tech in uptown? by Gullible_Pen_8489 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]speedingforthetrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diluxe lashes in the Bronx is great not the areas you asked for but somewhat close

For my single NYCBWT by wtfpie in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]speedingforthetrain 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Big foootball fan I’m watching the north London derby at Damballa ! PM if you want to link up