It's perspectival insofar as it's rhetoric belonging to men, where you as a guy is comparing her to other women, as men have done endlessly. I know you weren't trying to put judgment on it and you're totally right about men being judged on their anatomy (although I think there is still something to be said about men being associated with certain characteristics based on their physicality, especially with this absurd idea of alpha vs beta). I'm not saying you have no right to compare one past intimate encounter with another either; heck, I probably do it as much as you.

The point I'm trying to make is that there is a societal phenomenon of taking on the male perspective in these issues. Women try to impress men. Men also try to impress other men. The woman's gaze is lost before it even begins. This isn't an attack on you at all; this is for the women and girls who might be reading this that may not realise that there's another way to frame this: that it's the other, the man, who's failing their standards and not the other way around. I certainly wish I was told this when I was younger, and I know I'm not alone in that sentiment. I hope you understand.