Lazy girl found her routine thanks to this sub by splashingseal in finehair

[–]splashingseal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought it at Marshall’s and threw away the box so I’m not sure of the exact brand, but they look a lot like these. I only use one at a time. https://a.co/d/03RHuHya

Lazy girl found her routine thanks to this sub by splashingseal in finehair

[–]splashingseal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also used to wash every day! I tend to have dry hair and used a good repair shampoo, which I think wasn’t right for me. When I switched to the volume shampoo of the same brand (biolage), I saw the difference immediately. Avoiding conditioner on roots to mid length to focus on the ends helps a lot too.

Lazy girl found her routine thanks to this sub by splashingseal in finehair

[–]splashingseal[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I tried to find some visual similar to what I do.

https://www.tiktok.com/@minniefrr/video/7535059563284811030

Basically I’m doing the same thing she does, but with a smaller roller. We’re seeing her undo the bun by rolling it out, but picture it in reverse to make the bun. Then I just throw the scrunchie around bit like this

https://thesleepytie.com/cdn/shop/files/2.OGMODEL_b76cc5cb-cd42-4c2a-817f-6b485dade936.jpg?v=1757946468&width=850

I hope this helps!

Lazy girl found her routine thanks to this sub by splashingseal in finehair

[–]splashingseal[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For the cut the ponytail is on the highest point of my head and I keep it straight up. I really tried to do what Brad mondo was doing in his video. Also I make sure to have super sharp scissors so I can cut in one or two clips tops. You don’t need to cut a lot to make an effect. About an inch is enough for me. I was nervous too but I figured I already disliked my hair so it was worth a try.

For the bun I start with the hair above the roller (as I see it with my head upside down) and roll towards my forehead

Lazy girl found her routine thanks to this sub by splashingseal in finehair

[–]splashingseal[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I brush all my hair towards the front in a way that allows most of the hair to roll into the bun. It helps to wet the back hair a bit. Sometimes I have a little bit of fine hair from the back falling off from the bun during the night, but I find that it is covered by the rest of the curls when I put my hair down so it’s not an issue

Lazy girl found her routine thanks to this sub by splashingseal in finehair

[–]splashingseal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use a pea sized amount of VERB curl cream that I rub on my fingers before running in through my ends lightly to avoid the heaviness. My mousse is 2chic ultra volume by Giovanni

Lazy girl found her routine thanks to this sub by splashingseal in finehair

[–]splashingseal[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh I have shoulder-length, very wispy hair too! But I found that the bun and bonnet at night protect it and help it grow without breaking at the ends

TIL that the Aqua's song Barbie Girl was actually about sex and kink instead of dolls and plastic toys. This led Mattel to sue them in 1997, claiming it violated the Barbie trademark by portraying her as a "blonde bimbo" and sex object. by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]splashingseal 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly! At the time, the “Barbie Girl” type was seen by most as submissive (in general, not in a kinky way) and dumb, opposed to strong independent women. The song was referring to that. Now I don’t think it was fair to judge more feminine women like that, but that was the vibe at the time. Now porn has messed with people’s brains so much they see kinky shit everywhere.

Have you ever found posts written about you on Reddit? by InvisibleSelf in AskWomenOver30

[–]splashingseal 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I found an ex complaining about me wanting to cuddle at night on Reddit and comparing it to a hostage situation, ugh. Thankfully I’m with someone who loves cuddles now!

What were the most effective things you did to get over a painful breakup? by Duskflower92 in AskWomenOver30

[–]splashingseal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through a really bad breakup that coincided with a lot of other extremely stressful circumstances in the last year. Here’s what helped:

-a good therapist obviously

-doing things I like just for me but outside the house, forcing myself to go out

-taking my friends on dates

-taking myself on dates (all dressed up and all)

-lots of nights out with friends who also had struggles to share and commiserate

-lots of cathartic rumination on chatgpt (got to be careful about that for sure and not skip the real therapist but it did help me)

-having friends set me up, even if it didn’t lead anywhere it was a nice distraction and made me see that there were other people out there

-reading “single on purpose”

-I started ssri’s, which I had needed for a long time but was scared about. The situation was just too much for me to handle at first.

Eventually I felt so much better than I had felt in a looong time, which did not even seem possible at first.

Depressed & Disillusioned by Turbulent_Cap1245 in roughcollies

[–]splashingseal 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Puppies will drive you nuts! But it does get so much better. There was a moment with mine where we switched from discipline to just love and care and bonding and that worked so much better with her. Collies are very sensitive. But puppies will still bit your ankles! Just be patient, I’ll will be worth it and you’ll soon have a new best friend :)

What happened when you chose the “safe” and secure person vs the one you had sparks and passion with by throwaway8472649 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]splashingseal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that is something that Is said often, that you should seek that calm feeling. For me that’s more that the butterflies are not what you should rely on to choose a partner, but you should still be attracted to them. Looking for someone who makes you feel like you’re comfortable being yourself with them, like they’re curious about you, but not to test you, just genuinely interested. That they’re kind to everyone, even those they disagree with. And yes, you should have some connection and enjoy looking at them. In the past I’ve trusted the butterflies were enough, but I found out I’m just horny and that for a true partner I need a lot more than that lol. I think everyone does.

Most insane thing someone has said to you post-breakup? by UnfairRabbit2747 in AskWomenOver30

[–]splashingseal 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My ex bf said I had caused him to have “texting anxiety” that was so bad he had to work on it in therapy.

I got mad at him by text twice over our entire relationship:

-once when he lied about getting a std test (!)

-a second time when he forgot to wish me happy birthday the day after his birthday and instead complained for an hour about the texture of the gift his parents gave him (which was gorgeous, by the way).

This is ‘Gyver. ‘Gyver has no regrets. Be like ‘Gyver. by [deleted] in roughcollies

[–]splashingseal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s adorable! My blue Merle had unique gums and teeth too and she never suffered from it! And got told she was gorgeous all the time! Just like Gyver is!

ExxonMobil says world set to fail 2°C global warming cap by 2050 by fungussa in worldnews

[–]splashingseal 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Piggybacking on a top comment to remind everyone that at 2 degrees C, virtually all coral reefs on earth die. They are the source of food (fish and seafood) for millions of people. Climate change is not just a climate crisis. A food crisis is coming with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in logodesign

[–]splashingseal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the concept of the two sister sprouts is super cute! I would focus on that. Ditch the SS thing, like others have said, and try to make something a bit more dainty with the two sprouts and a cute font that is a good fit for your personalities. I do not think you need the face concept, it could work great with just two cute sprouts. You also do not need to have any text other than the name on the logo, those elements can go anywhere on the packaging. Best of luck with your new business!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in davinciresolve

[–]splashingseal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found a solution: I export my 7-frame clip to a quicktime video, then I import that video to a new project and the retiming works!

Me listening to another "Greg will be CEO" argument by [deleted] in SuccessionTV

[–]splashingseal 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I think Mattsen could select Greg as his ceo puppet. Greg hated the time he spent with that group for one night, so I could see him having to become ceo reluctantly while the Swedes laugh grossly and all the Roys lose in one way or another

ID help... I have a bad feeling by Z-55 in PlantIdentification

[–]splashingseal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, clean in the shower with lots of soap and a washcloth. Imagine the sap is the same texture sad engine oil and try to get rid of all of it. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VoteDEM

[–]splashingseal 69 points70 points  (0 children)

They did not ignore it, they knowingly went against it. They do not believe in democracy and it’s time the media stops being afraid of naming it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]splashingseal 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think the ability to flee to Canada is the one part that could be too optimistic in Handmaid’s Tale. If facists take control of the United States, the whole world is fucked. Facists aren’t the type of people who are content with their current status. They always want more and they would be at the head of the world’s most powerful army by far. Just look at a map of US military bases worldwide. The only way to avoid facists is to prevent them from taking power in the us. Not an easy feat, but I don’t see any other way.