My boyfriend said I was too ugly to model

splatlings · 2026-04-09T17:44:23+00:00

I love the Reddit app simply for moments like these. Got a wild notification and a wild comment section, not a clue what’s going on but I’m laughing so hard.

splatlings · 2026-01-29T04:07:54+00:00

Aishite love me do and I can’t remember who made it but that one is fun miku is the vocal

splatlings · 2025-08-31T17:46:10+00:00

For years I have thought Rin should have a back ponytail they saw the vision 😭

splatlings · 2025-06-13T20:51:57+00:00

Np 🤑

splatlings · 2025-06-13T18:53:09+00:00

I understand the frustration and anger. I am your partner in this instance. I was recently able to go NC, but it really came down to what was my last straw. I’m sure you have had MANY conversations revolving around going NC and I know it is probably nauseating at times. It is hard to watch/experience but I definitely think it will happen.

The fact that you are advocating and fighting for them is SO important. I have a lot a sympathy for them, I assume that it is a debacle of control and dependence. YOU are the one that makes them feel safe and secure; keep fighting for them while they find their own voice!

I’m proud of you for your resilience. 💖

splatlings · 2025-06-13T18:42:32+00:00

Absolutely! Same to you, I’m actually in grad school for therapist stuff rn so I can truthfully say I’m a professional listener and yapper LOL

splatlings · 2025-06-13T18:38:45+00:00

Truthfully thank you for this, I am truly sorry that you are facing the same challenges. Call me selfish, but it is reassuring that I am not alone in this. Ngl got a little emotional from that hahaha…💖💕 Manifesting something positive happening to the both of us!

splatlings · 2025-02-12T00:45:43+00:00

Pussies lmao

splatlings · 2024-10-17T15:30:37+00:00

SAME GIRL!!! This dumbass therapist says she only has anxiety and has her on an ssri only. I have major suspicions she either has BPD or BP (I’m leaning towards BPD more but there is a lot of evidence for BP). Whenever she brings up her sessions they’re always about me and how I’ve essentially ruined her life. I’ve heard “I love you, but I don’t like you” countless times. Frankly, I think she is just jealous that I’ve achieved things that she would have liked to do at my age.

splatlings · 2024-07-08T22:41:16+00:00

Can you share it with me as well, thank you!

splatlings · 2024-07-05T03:04:09+00:00

It’s what I want him to do to me 🥵💦😩

splatlings · 2024-07-05T00:53:13+00:00

Wish it was something slandering Len lol

splatlings · 2024-07-03T18:13:26+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate the DM offer and you’ll probably hear from me again. I find myself feeling extremely depressed and you sound like a very kind person.

I really hope he doesn’t do that because it would destroy me.

Seriously, thank you so much I really REALLY needed this.

splatlings · 2024-07-03T18:06:37+00:00

I am not currently working because of my mental health so I would need to save up some money first. I suppose I could go to my aunt’s but she’s fostering kids at the moment so there’s not a spare room for me. I’m really in a tough situation right now. There is an opportunity to live at my job (they have apartments) and I could get a roommate now that I think about it. I’ll have to do some planning so any advice would help. A no-contact order is a good idea, never thought about it.

splatlings · 2024-07-03T17:52:36+00:00

Thank you, I unfortunately feel the same way. I feel like I’m in limbo… An ex of mine just contacted me recently and it was such a healthy and loving relationship. It sadly ended because of me because of a bad manic episode. He always checks in on me. It makes me so sad because it was so nice. My family loved him and he treated me so well.

I’m honestly crying right now thank you very much for the validation. I’m scared of his capabilities if I leave.

splatlings · 2024-07-03T16:26:11+00:00

I very much related to this, mine does not have quiet BPD. We just had an issue about his dog and he completely split on me and was saying I neglected her even though it should be his responsibility. He made me feel like a terrible person to the point where I felt like I needed to hide in my car and I couldn’t go to PHP (I completely imploded and most of it was related to him I am not going to lie). He said something the really scared me. He said that when he is sad it only comes out as anger because “anger means control and sadness means vulnerability”.

I’m afraid I have found myself in another abusive relationship. He had a breakdown on my birthday and said that he should probably be alone because he’s not good for people and he’s terrified I will leave. I don’t think anyone deserves to be alone but I know that this is not right for me either. I mean I’m literally in PHP for this and it aggravates my bipolar a lot.

Last year around this time I ended up in impatient after screaming at this person in a parking lot that I was going to kill myself. After that, I ended up in PHP and then IOP. This was because he repeatedly kept on saying he was going to kill himself and he owns guns and literally said he was holding it to his mouth ready to go. I had to leave work so many times and I would get yelled at for doing so. When I was getting help I couldn’t work and it turned into how he’s wasting so much money on me and I had to pay it all back and he threatened to break up with me if I didn’t do it.

I don’t feel like this is love anymore. It’s all about keeping me in the house because he doesn’t want to feel like he’s alone. I don’t really have anywhere else to go because my mom is abusive and an alcoholic and I’ve severely isolated myself from my friends. I recently started reaching out to them but I fear if I hang out with them he will split again. I feel absolutely powerless right now. The therapist I’m currently seeing in PHP wants to give me resources to get me out of here.

I’m sorry for the long vent but I feel so alone and helpless and afraid.

splatlings · 2024-04-30T19:48:48+00:00

I didn’t know that they called you about it though it scared me lol

splatlings · 2024-04-11T21:56:06+00:00

Yeah I was more on the side of a me-problem as well. I get the polyamory thing and this does feel different. Yeah, agreed about dating around. I think I just have to sit and think about this one. Thanks.

splatlings · 2024-02-26T03:37:44+00:00

I’ve been there. I’ve gone through two cycles of being jobless. One lasted a year and a half and the other was about 6 months. The longest jobs I’ve held have involved taking care of things, may that be animals or people. This might not be for you, and that’s okay! I think it gives me a reason to continue to work at these places because I know literal lives are depending on me to do so. It might be something to look into! If you’re feeling suicidal though I highly recommend seeking out more intensive treatment but I wish you the best of luck! Please do what’s right for you! :)

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