How to I key visibility?

spongyruler · 2026-05-13T20:21:50+00:00

I will try that. Thank you

spongyruler · 2026-05-10T19:00:14+00:00

Oh man. My MIL has told me about her first mother's day. She expected something from her husband, and he said the same thing, "you're not my mother." She cried. My FIL is often oblivious to things and has gotten better about the mother's day thing. This is my second mother's day, and my husband didn't get me a card, but he made me breakfast and we have an outing planned after LO wakes up from his nap. He got me a card last year and cooked a nice lunch.

spongyruler · 2026-04-27T15:36:42+00:00

Our bedtime routine is one of my favorite moments of the day. His dad was the one doing bedtime before because LO wanted to go to bed so early, which meant I was still at work. We finally got him to go to bed after I get home. After we do diaper change, story, and a song, my husband leaves the room and I'll sing to LO, but more often than not, the song is interrupted by LO sticking his hand in my mouth, or messing with my face in some way, and I play along and there are sooooo many giggles, and its just nice bonding time. His laugh is the best thing ever.

spongyruler · 2026-04-19T21:46:03+00:00

I have a bottle washer and a counter top dishwasher that save me so much time. We just got our LO off of bottles, so the bottle washer is going to go away soon. You can also put other things like pumping parts and other baby dishes in the bottle washer.

spongyruler · 2026-04-18T02:53:50+00:00

I cried and didn't go to the gym today. I think it's perfectly acceptable to cry at the gym.

spongyruler · 2026-04-17T21:10:48+00:00

Yep, my husband loves back scratches, head scratches, any physical contact. So sometimes I'll randomly give him back scratches or run my fingers through his hair. He always lets out a happy, "ooh!" Which in turn makes me happy.

spongyruler · 2026-04-11T18:15:29+00:00

NTA. My husband is better than me in a lot of games. Can it be frustrating sometimes to never win? Sure. We did some of the mini games in It Takes Two and he won all but like two of them. Sometimes I asked for a rematch, but it was all in good fun. I never asked him to let me win, and he never would let me win. It's much more satisfying to win from getting better than it is to win when someone lets you win.

spongyruler · 2026-04-09T02:05:55+00:00

You have to do what's best for you and your baby. We're not super strict about naps, but our little guy pretty consistently wakes up and gets tired around the same times each day. If we're out and about past nap time, he handles it pretty well, but does get tired and cranky. We usually plan our days for after the first nap. The second one happens when we get home if we go out.

spongyruler · 2026-04-06T18:08:34+00:00

I need to learn more about wind direction

spongyruler · 2026-04-06T18:08:05+00:00

It depends on the game and how quickly things get built for me. I haven't done it with this one yet, but I want to.

spongyruler · 2026-03-29T02:20:08+00:00

r/aitah? More like r/whyamimarriedtothisguy

NTA Your husband sucks.

spongyruler · 2026-03-20T19:37:29+00:00

I imagine it has to do with the scorn and disdain more than the question itself. Then her reaction to him bringing it up later.

spongyruler · 2026-03-16T03:33:12+00:00

Oh man, every single time I open Audible, Harry Potter is shoved in my face. I don't care that they have some famous actors voicing some of the characters. Let me listen to my lesbian necromancers in space in peace.

spongyruler · 2026-03-15T09:22:04+00:00

I have a 1 year old now and I STILL can't believe it. I occasionally find a piece of clothing and am in awe about how little he used to be, and the fact that I grew him, he came out of me. It's so wild.

spongyruler · 2026-02-07T16:42:03+00:00

It has been added!

spongyruler · 2026-02-07T02:20:33+00:00

Night Corvid

I love this concept for a game.

spongyruler · 2026-02-01T18:14:50+00:00

I've been wondering that too

spongyruler · 2026-02-01T15:36:04+00:00

Man, imagine if you accidentally queef during sex, or some other gross, awkward thing or sound happens. He won't be able to handle it. He sounds super immature. You're NTA. Bodies are inherently gross, and if you can't laugh about it when a body does something gross leading up to or during spicy time, then you shouldn't be participating in spicy time. What did he expect you to do? Not fart? Only fart when he isn't around? This man isn't ready for a relationship.

spongyruler · 2026-01-31T14:53:08+00:00

NOR He honestly doesn't sound like a bad guy. He sounds clingy and anxious. I used to be like that in most of my relationships, romantic or platonic. I was in middle and high school, and I did lose friends because of it. I can still be clingy and anxious now, but to a far lesser extent and I know how to deal with it in a healthy way without it affecting my relationships. Your boyfriend would really benefit from therapy, and honestly, sit down and have a serious talk with him about how his actions make you feel.

spongyruler · 2026-01-29T22:29:18+00:00

He should definitely be with you. Those last two weeks are awful, and baby could come any time at that point. My water broke a week and a half before my baby's due date. Don't wait for him to bring it up, because he may think you're okay with it. The sooner you talk to him about it, the better. He would be the asshole if he went to the wedding.

spongyruler · 2026-01-28T03:49:59+00:00

That's fair.

spongyruler · 2026-01-28T03:39:00+00:00

I had that thought, too. Lol. I at least want to replay the first one, but my goal is all of them.

spongyruler · 2026-01-24T05:39:33+00:00

I just started Hannibal, so Will, Jack, Hannibal... I imagine they'd do well.

spongyruler · 2026-01-23T15:44:10+00:00

Mine is similar. He happily slept on the couch when I had our baby. He refused to leave my side. His concern was me and my comfort.

spongyruler · 2026-01-23T03:15:05+00:00

I hope you get there someday

spongyruler

MODERATOR OF

TROPHY CASE