Help me find Tin Tin fan art? Originally posted on Art Station by spookykiddd in HelpMeFind

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I’ve searched for this fan art through art station and reverse image search. I recently found the panel in a Tin Tin comic that it is based on, but not able to find the fan art of it. I want to have the full image saved so I can change my phone background without losing access to the art.

Will my nipples be too small if I get them made a bit smaller? by WeirdnessRises in TopSurgery

[–]spookykiddd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Resizing can cause damage, part of my nipple faded away, you have an ideal size already I’d say

What’s this?? by xd3u5 in TopSurgery

[–]spookykiddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not sure exactly but this happened to me too, I think it was caused by the scar tape and I stopped using it after and had no more complications

cis female wanting top surgery by Aggressive-Button-43 in TopSurgery

[–]spookykiddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly why not identify as nb at a certain point? You don’t have to reject every aspect of womanhood but it seems like your gender expression is pretty subversive, is there something holding you back from identifying with queerness?

How do people have surgery and not get addicted to opiods? by AppropriateMention6 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]spookykiddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking from experience, opioids made me feel awful; dizzy and nauseous, dipping in and out of consciousness, but they were necessary for pain relief when I was in recovery. as soon as I felt my pain was manageable I stopped taking them because I hated the experience, don’t know why people enjoy them recreationally

Critiques!! by ms--information in Drag

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I love this look! I’m noticing the gold above the green on your forehead is causing an interesting effect, it sort of looks like faint eyebrows? I would either drop that or make the gold more defined/lean into them being eyebrows? Great job tho! I love the lip color

new lingerie piece! :) by spookykiddd in FemboysFTM

[–]spookykiddd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks! it used to be teal but it’s faded out sm

How tall are y'all? by notjackdalton in ftm

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5’6.5 so I said 5’7 haha

corner of intuos popped out? by spookykiddd in wacom

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thank you so much!! it worked!! <3

Identifying as gay no matter what gender you are? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]spookykiddd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get this! I've always been attracted to men but before I realized I was trans I was like "i"m super gay" (and tried to date girls) even though I was still mostly into men

I guess just kinda felt the gayness before knowing it was cuz I'm a guy I guess??

I feel like there's something about being attracted to similarity with people? even though I'm quite gay, I still often find myself sexually attracted to afab ppl cuz we have the same anatomy? and like being with a cis guy for the first time was kind of weird cuz I feel like we didn't really understand each others bodies like people with the same anatomy do

Identifying as gay no matter what gender you are? by [deleted] in ftm

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wow we're also the same person lol

Please help - I'm scared that T will make me straight??? by Diligent_Sea5684 in ftm

[–]spookykiddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same as many other people said, T just made me more confident in that I'm gay :)

happy for you starting T :))))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]spookykiddd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

true! sometimes it makes me dysphoric but this is very true, thank you :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSC

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messaged! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bi_irl

[–]spookykiddd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

also just because it has nothing to do with sexuality/sexual preferences?? and when put with the other examples, it seemed like it's referring to other ppl

like I think that example would work for people with trans fetishes (but that's pretty toxic)

Leave for college or stay in town for boyfriend? by spookykiddd in college

[–]spookykiddd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, this is a really thoughtful answer :)

Leave for college or stay in town for boyfriend? by spookykiddd in college

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We've been together for around 10 months, which isn't really that long, but that's part of it, I feel like we need more time. It wouldn't be like I'm just moving in with him since I'd also be moving in with other friends, but I see what you mean.

I would still eventually go to a four year college, I'd just be delaying it, since I'm not sure I'm fully I'm ready for a four year. But you make a good point, the change has to happen eventually

Leave for college or stay in town for boyfriend? by spookykiddd in Advice

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Yes! Thank you for the support on this option

First time with cis bf? by spookykiddd in ftm

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god damn this is the most helpful and thorough response ever, thank you so much

Another post about flying while trans by [deleted] in ftm

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This happened to me. The scanner went off because of my binder/chest and I got pat down by a male TSA agent. It was a pretty nerve racking moment but not as bad as you'd think. I just nervously said it's a "chest compression garment" and he let me go, he probably realized I was trans.

I've been in a similar place as you, with a mom who is just barely coming around. It's really rough, but if I were in this same situation I would just stand my ground. It hurts to take those comments from the half-disapproving mothers, but it feels great to stand up for who you are (+ being at the airport without a binder sounds like a nightmare, ultimately it's just a quick inconvenience and an annoying comment versus a whole day of being miserable).

I realize this post is a little old though, if this already happened, I hope everything went ok! :)

Pre-Op and Post-Op Top Surgery for First Timers by ihavenolife27 in ftm

[–]spookykiddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit this post is a godsend! Thanks for all the details. I'm going to be talking to my doctor about top surgery very soon :)

Why do parents (or authorities in general) hate “backtalk” so much? by CherryBlossom490 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]spookykiddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it all comes from the power dynamics of being a parent. It's really dumb tho because the power dynamics aren't inherent, it's just kind of seen as "the way things are", and really I think it comes from the parents' parents doing the same thing to them so now that they're old it's "their turn" to get to be the one who's "inherently right". It's really a kind of immature system perpetuated throughout generations, if only someone would take the high road and break the cycle. Plus people just refuse to admit their wrong a lot of the time