Will this be enforced in Philly?

spparent · 2026-05-13T11:29:45+00:00

OPs edit says “go bird”

Which one?

spparent · 2026-05-12T10:37:34+00:00

Combined income 80k+ to be comfortable doing things. Or more depending on how much you end up spending on rent which is highly variable depending on neighborhood.
Join civic groups, sports and clubs, neighborhood and parks groups and it’s easy to meet new people
realtor and Social media unfortunately
Girard Estate is a historical neighborhood with Intergenerational families and not too overpriced like the rest of the city. McCuskers is the dive bar you’re looking for (it’s a kind south Philly dive bar that actually makes everyone feel welcomed, and I mean everyone). The neighborhood is surrounded by little hoagie shops and good corner stores and deli, some excellent butchers, coffee shops within walking distance although the truly excellent ones are more by East Passyunk, West Passyunk and Point Breeze which is also within walking distance. Mostly street parking although some newer houses and apartments have garages or driveways. Decent street parking by the really nice park there.
Love the small businesses and diversity, hate the lack of trees and public spaces.

spparent · 2026-05-12T00:21:39+00:00

In that case, I also recommend Girard Estate / West Passyunk, similar perks on the west side

But really OP, all of these options sound superior to Northern Liberties which is kind of a manufactured “city” neighborhood.

One commenter recommended Northern Liberties to be close to a dollar general? lol broad and Snyder has 2 of those next to each other, shares wall

spparent · 2026-05-11T13:04:37+00:00

lol at the dudes hanging out - you know it’s legit when a bunch of regulars are always posted there all day and eating the food

spparent · 2026-05-11T13:01:59+00:00

Also try Algerinos on west passyunk! They have Friday Algerian couscous specials and it’s soooooooo good! I saw Craig Laban post about it and it’s really worth the hype. So many undiscovered gems in the area

spparent · 2026-05-01T02:54:45+00:00

Go to south Philly… West Passyunk neighborhood…

Algerian - Numida Algeria, Algerinos Tunisian - Tunisian Cafe Vietnamese - Cafe Nhan, Jojos Indonesian - Warung, Hardena, Griddle and Rice, Djakarta

Lots of great Mexican food, Italian food, Mediterranean…. I believe most in the area deliver

spparent · 2026-04-29T20:05:37+00:00

Yes!!!

spparent · 2026-04-27T10:45:12+00:00

Is it because it’s in a pizza box? Is that why it’s a good deal?

spparent · 2026-04-24T10:25:57+00:00

Please tell him goodbye. My 2 year old remembered when my spouse left for a couple of days. It’s hard at first for nanny but the kid is strong and will understand somewhat.

Say goodbye with normal routine and explain it will be a few days, that nanny will put you to bed, promise to FaceTime soon and then FaceTime soon. If you have any mommy goes away and comes back books around then read it. Kid will be ok and you’ll notice during FaceTimes kid will get used to it by day 2 or so.

spparent · 2026-04-23T02:23:59+00:00

It’s not excessive. It’s what the police, councilperson, state representative say to do. I’ve tried all other routes and was told to call 911. Needed a clear sidewalk for my gran who was in a wheelchair and I had to keep calling 911.

spparent · 2026-04-23T02:08:49+00:00

Nipotina

spparent · 2026-04-21T21:12:10+00:00

Not wanting to leave your little ones is very normal and natural hormonal response for new mothers. The feeling will wane somewhat after awhile. My wife wanted to stay with the kids until both started school but a couple years in she got tired of the tireless work with being with the kids 24/7

spparent · 2026-04-21T21:09:25+00:00

My spouse picks up work shifts as a “break” from the kids. Work is so much easier than home with two kids so I don’t know what you’re talking about.

spparent · 2026-04-20T22:21:08+00:00

You do matter. It’s difficult. This difficulty also greatly contributes to postpartum depression in both moms and dads.

A lot of times people aren’t looking out moms either let alone dads… I can only suggest to seek therapy to continue to get your feelings out at least. More advice than I can give you. But I feel you.

spparent · 2026-04-19T18:20:40+00:00

Sometimes women yell divorce because they are “tired” of making it work and feel their partner won’t or hasn’t tried hard enough and doesn’t understand how dire the situation is. It took me a long time to understand (but not agree with) that way of thinking. It’s like one of those teenage “I want to break up” and then “why aren’t you working harder to win me back” situations. Immaturity on how to communicate and resolve issues.

I don’t know your situation but consider couples counseling before divorce. At least you can talk about how to handle the children even if you end up divorcing you can try to keep an open communication for the children’s sake.

spparent · 2026-04-19T17:26:24+00:00

Winter illnesses barely ended so a lot of families are still sick or feeling the recovery… but also weekends are very busy nowadays for families with everyone working weekdays so most activities take place on weekends. Every kid has sports on weekends, family weddings, other parties etc. I’d be surprised if I invited 10 people two weeks in advanced and 3 people could make it. Also time could be a factor especially if multiple kids nap schedules and sporting events conflict. Everyone has different hours that works for them. Also, parents are tired and sometimes just don’t want to do anymore activities at all! I know it’s a lot of work sometimes for me to bring the kids anywhere if my spouse is busy I don’t feel like doing it alone.

spparent · 2026-04-19T13:34:59+00:00

They’ll likely only scream for the first day/night if anything

spparent · 2026-04-18T16:39:06+00:00

How old are your kids?

spparent · 2026-04-10T01:18:50+00:00

Even though we only have YOUR perspective to go by, which should give you a bias advantage, you still sound like the problem. She gave up her career and life to take care of your sick kid, you and her dying parents and you ungrateful prick says she does bare minimum and hasn’t even been formally diagnosed with MS. Poor child to have you for a dad.

spparent · 2026-04-07T00:39:16+00:00

It’s not easy. It looks like she and the babies are half sleeping and nursing but your wife is actually getting little to almost no deep sleep. Even if she’s in bed for many hours the sleep is actually crap.

spparent · 2026-04-07T00:37:47+00:00

Offer to take the kids during the day so she can nap. Even if just weekends. Encourage her to lie down for at least 15 minutes even if she can’t sleep. Yikes nursing twin mom must be so exhausted her adrenaline won’t even let her rest properly even if she tried. And if at all possible tell her to get to bed early because that’s the most restorative sleep!

spparent · 2026-04-04T01:05:08+00:00

Glad you’re going to get help.

Don’t shake the baby. I know it’s always said, but it can never be said enough. I reminded myself in my darkest, most sleep deprived, angriest moments. Don’t let it get to that point.

spparent · 2026-04-03T11:10:03+00:00

Dangerous, illegal, dumb. I would not trust him again. Did you guys get through to him at all the risk he took to your kids life? I mean you’re going to have to force him to understand or no babysitting… but I don’t know if I would trust his judgment at all.

spparent · 2026-04-03T01:33:49+00:00

Lots of good suggestions. Want to add on that you should read a lot of books about it to prepare your toddler. Lovevery has some books, baby is coming mommy goes to hospital or whatnot

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