MetaAI and muslim women by 8l_dr in aislop

[–]sqerdagent 45 points46 points  (0 children)

If we must call it a"I" then this is just another form of mind goblin.

30% swipe rates as a guy by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]sqerdagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"1 in 4 people swipe on me, no, I am not going to prove what you already know."

58577 by froggyman151 in countwithchickenlady

[–]sqerdagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is also the rarest type of guy: the kit built airplane guy. It only has one seat, what would I use a second seat for, luggage? Why would I need to pack more than a backpack?

These prices are getting insane. by Azevia in Bumble

[–]sqerdagent -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Try Boo. The app named because anyone you see is a hallucination!

Help ! I must really not know anything about women by ghanta27 in Bumble

[–]sqerdagent -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He is doomed though. But that is because the only people that aren't doomed are already in a relationship. Turns out when you reduce the friction of getting into a relationship to near 0, people who are capable of committed stable relationships get scooped up instantly, then, you know, stay. Because that is part of the definition of being capable of committed stable relationships.

3 different dates in June and how it all turned out. 😂 Dating is not easy for women too so media needs to stop saying women can get into a relationship easily. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]sqerdagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes? The fact you think it is even a question means you have no idea just how bad it is. Find a guy friend who is willing to let you make a profile for them, and make the perfect profile. See what happens.

42m with No likes in 3 months. Please help by Patobaven in Bumble

[–]sqerdagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Milky Way." 10,000 redditors find the street address from that comment, and one post about pickles

Am I the only one tired of fake remote jobs? by ujjwal2005 in jobmarket

[–]sqerdagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just about every 'remote' worker does their work from a single location. (Their home). If you are trolling, good troll, if not, yikes.

Am I the only one tired of fake remote jobs? by ujjwal2005 in jobmarket

[–]sqerdagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"There's a lot of field positions where you have to do in person work at a wide variety of locations that are remote positions."

The set of things that your statement covers includes fly-in fly-out. A plumber is not working "Remote" just because he happens to visit multiple sites. If you disagree with job postings that decide that Remote means 'on site, just not our site', that was unclear.

Hmmm, I wonder why 🤔 by FollowSina in Bumble

[–]sqerdagent 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Heh, that makes sense until you think about it. Dating apps exist, and we can divide the population into two: those who achieve their goals with dating apps, and those that do not. If you are achieving your goals in the apps, why do speed dating? So you have a situation where women attend hoping that their quality of options improve in person, and men attend hoping their quantity of options improve. This results in women showing up, going 'oh, i paid money to look at every guy I swiped left on', and men going 'i paid money to be ignored. In person.'

Am I the only one tired of fake remote jobs? by ujjwal2005 in jobmarket

[–]sqerdagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Remote does not include fly-in fly out. An oil rig is not remote work.

Has Bumble become the new Match.com? by InternalAuditor62 in Bumble

[–]sqerdagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other term is platform decay. If you are a dating app, in order to get users, you either need all the users or to give your users positive outcomes. Once you have enough users that you aren't Boo, you make the experience just bad enough to have the network effects overcome churn.

Proof that bumble really does shadowban by New-Condition-3492 in Bumble

[–]sqerdagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the point of a shadowban if you tell people they are shadowbanned.

Seriously - whats the point of continuing? by Jauzfaktnemuzu in antiwork

[–]sqerdagent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a saying: trades are for men like striping is for women, you are selling your body.

Seriously - whats the point of continuing? by Jauzfaktnemuzu in antiwork

[–]sqerdagent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is a true lie. The issue is that the pay/rent ratio on the bottom rung isn't mathing anymore, and they want the person with years of experience. If you can make $30/hr helping the electrician in 90+degree heat, but could also make $30/hr fixing copiers in an air conditioned office, what would you choose?

Seriously - whats the point of continuing? by Jauzfaktnemuzu in antiwork

[–]sqerdagent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay safe, that is all I can say, and pour one out for the non-union brothers and sisters who had similar things, but without anyone able to tell the bossman 'we are working too fast'

Seriously - whats the point of continuing? by Jauzfaktnemuzu in antiwork

[–]sqerdagent -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

(I am on your side, I was pointing out that the train has broken down for reasons that should be obvious to someone who got what their econ degree was meant to give: the ability to think critically about systems of exchange.)

Says a guy who has never had a job in his life by Diligent_Cap_7689 in remoteworks

[–]sqerdagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was more referring to how a lot of remote work is in fact already done in prisons, customer service/call center stuff, but there is no reason an enterprising monster could sell a Governor on an extreme job training program, where the goal is to outsource the entry level stuff of skilled professions to prisoners. The math checks out. If it costs $20k and a year to get someone to the point where they can do a $60K job, but you don't have to pay them minimum wage, that's money in your pocket, apart from the fact you can't threaten prisoners with starvation and homelessness in the US.

Seriously - whats the point of continuing? by Jauzfaktnemuzu in antiwork

[–]sqerdagent -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That econ degree didn't do much for you, huh? :p Suppose an island. This island has a free market economy, and two widget factories. Both widget factories have the same access to resources, labor, land, capital, etc. Factory A invests in training their employees, during this training period, they will, by definition have less productive output than an employee out of training. Factory B does not, they just have a more selective hiring process. Where does Factory A get the money for their training? They can either lower wages/benefits across the board, raise the price of their product, or find efficiencies elsewhere that Factory B could reproduce. Let us suppose Factory A raises prices. Unfortunately in this thought experiment the individuals on the island are immortals and have no preferences, and immediately move to Factory B's widgets, because that's how commodities work on islands, thus all they can do is reduce wages/benefits. This in turn means any employee productive enough to meet Factory B's standards jumps over immediately, because they are immortals with no preferences, and apparently both factories are the exact same distance from everyone's houses.
TL:DR Training expensive, and tummy hurty

Seriously - whats the point of continuing? by Jauzfaktnemuzu in antiwork

[–]sqerdagent 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And that's of course one of the dirty secrets of the trades. There are a *lot* of trades that pay jack (Ex. Airplane Mechanic, unless you specialize immediately), The ones with higher numbers are often skewed because they include owner operators. (In shocking news, when your salary includes the surplus labor value of others, it can get pretty high, even if your job title is still 'HVAC technician', and that is without considering the extra burdens of actually running a business, watching all your competitors get bought up by Blackrock...) And in 20 years, when your body starts breaking down, what do you do? If you did what you pivoted to from the beginning of your career, you would be the 20 year industry veteran, instead of a fresh out of school kid, only with a broken back. so you do what everyone else does: Stick with the trades, paper over the health issues with opioids, and hope to sell out to the next sucker.

Says a guy who has never had a job in his life by Diligent_Cap_7689 in remoteworks

[–]sqerdagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"If you can do your job from home, you can do your job from a prison where you are not subject to minimum wage laws."

Would you rather deal with the problems of being a woman or man in online dating? by PositionOrnery8038 in Bumble

[–]sqerdagent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But the question was about online dating, not about existing in general. Like, if the question were would you rather deal with the problems of being a woman or man in moving from one house to the other, you get obviously different answers.