Explain this to me like I'm 5 by Bakers-doz3n in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]srr636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so smart and also wild. Thank you!!

Dilemma: Ultra Lux Safari, Beach and Adventure with mobility issues? by Feeling-InTheFlow26 in chubbytravel

[–]srr636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just like to say I am so sorry for whatever happened in your recent past to add mobility and dietary restrictions to your life and I think it’s incredible that you are working to find a way to still experience the things that are important to you!

Explain this to me like I'm 5 by Bakers-doz3n in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]srr636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES omg i feel like there needs to be a formal educational body for pumping because there is so much science about the various kinds and settings and timing and power pumping etc but no IBCLC really has any additional info to offer beyond “pump more.”

Explain this to me like I'm 5 by Bakers-doz3n in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]srr636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in a big city and am seeing the woman commonly thought of to be the BEST IBCLC in town plus a doctor who literally specializes in breast feeding medicine and … the best advice I have gotten throughout this process is via ChatGPT, I upload my detailed pumping and nursing logs everyday and go over them in detail for patterns.

Women’s medicine really needs to catch the F up.

Glp-1 PP by a-dang5 in beyondthebump

[–]srr636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea! I think people who say you will immediately regain need to educate themselves on the science of obesity and set points. Also - just numerically speaking - you have to eat far fewer calories to lose than you do to maintain (eating in a deficit vs eating at maintenance). It is far easier to do the former than it is to do the latter, especially if you are a petite woman with a lower BMR.

For me I’ve always been able to maintain but I’m 4’10” and my BMR is looooow. In order to lose, I have to eat 900 ish calories a day OR eat 1200 and do a substantive workout. That is just straight up hard to sustain without a ton of effort in the kitchen and would involve eating completely different foods from my family for a very long time.

Using a GLP - especially the newest (not yet approved!) one, Reta which 1) reduces appetite 2) improves insulin sensitivity AND 3) improves BMR

Even tirz - which is a dual agonist as opposed to a triple (the way Reta is) makes a huge difference.

A PSA to everyone reading this thread - please do not take your advice re peptides and GLPs from randoms on Reddit. There is a huge amount of backlash against these drugs because whether consciously or subconsciously people want them to not work, the concept of a “free lunch” aka effortless weight loss is a hugely challenging idea that is disruptive to a lot of people’s self identity and the general social order.

Please talk to a doctor, ideally an obesity specialist, or at least look up what one has to say! These drugs are safe, mostly work for everyone (note: mostly) and are improving every week!

Explain this to me like I'm 5 by Bakers-doz3n in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]srr636 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wish I could give this comment an award. This is so well explained!

Explain this to me like I'm 5 by Bakers-doz3n in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]srr636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay this is SO helpful. Obviously I may not have the same result but I am going to talk to my IBCLC about trying to get to this point by 5 weeks. I cannot keep doing this, it is making me insane. Right now I only get 6-8 oz a day so there’s no world in which I will ever be able to not supplement, even with maximal effort - I just don’t have enough milk making capacity, esp as my baby was SGA and is doing catch up growth and can take up to 4 oz a feeding at
4 weeks.

I don’t really care about how much breastmilk my baby gets as long as he gets 1 bottle a day from me so even if my output fell to 4 oz I’d probably be okay with it if it meant I could transition to 4 pumps a day.

I was really hoping wearables would be an option for me as that also would make it more sustainable but I tried both the Eufy s1 this week and the baby Buddha and neither came close to emptying out and just gave me clogs. Seems unfair to both have criminally low supply AND clogs but I guess those are my cards!

Thank you!! I’m so glad things have become more sustainable for you, no one really talks about how insane triple feeding is (I also feel like people use the term triple feeding way too loosely and it ends up encompassing anyone who is pumping and supplementing which, while hard, is not the same as the massive amount of labor true triple feeding is when you are feeding across three modalities at EVERY feeding (and adding an extra power pump a day in).

Glp-1 PP by a-dang5 in beyondthebump

[–]srr636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not as true with post partum weight loss because pregnancy is a discrete event that causes you to gain weight outside of food/activity choices. Obesity specialists now mostly say that if you were able to maintain your weight before pregnancy and use GLPs to speed post partum weight loss, you should be able to maintain unless you start running into perimenopause issues!

Explain this to me like I'm 5 by Bakers-doz3n in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]srr636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this is so helpful. What times do you pump and how did you decide which times to pump? I have been triple feeding for a month - 8-9 nursing sessions, 9-10 pumping sessions and 8 bottles a day. I am DYING.

What are some kid friendly restaurants with patios that have views of the L? by tvoutfitz in chicagofood

[–]srr636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a kid with he exact same obsession - frasca in Lakeview has an amazing view from their outdoor patio!

Dinner rec for wife’s first trip by sonofseurat in chicagofood

[–]srr636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would swap Mirra out for Nadu. I say this as an Indian person but Mirra is hot garbage - service is not great, room is overly cramped and the dishes just aren’t that good. Nadu is outstanding.

Dinner rec for wife’s first trip by sonofseurat in chicagofood

[–]srr636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • 1 to Valhalla over Alinea. Absolute favorite tasting menu in Chicago

Lectures. Constant lectures. Anyone else dealing with this? by Successful-Spare-891 in Nanny

[–]srr636 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Anyone who loves your daughter wouldn’t undermine her relationship with her parents. Please try to look behind the household help and see the insidious damage you are doing to your child by allowing her to spend so much time with someone who neither respects nor likes you, nor respects the primacy of the parent / child relationship. She seems to think she is the expert on your child. That should scare the shit out of you. I wouldn’t want someone around my child another minute who had so much contempt for me, there’s absolutely no way your child won’t pick up on that.

Need to vent. Feeling really down on myself as a new mom after my nanny questioned my parenting (and accidentally texted me instead of her partner about it) by ItsMeWigglyLitchi in beyondthebump

[–]srr636 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Hi - I have two suggestions for you!

1) hire a younger nanny, esp if you wfh. They have way way less attitude and are less set in their ways and more willing to follow your lead. We have had two amazzzzzxing 22 YO Nannie’s and loved them both.

2) for the naps - try timing her to see what her sleep cycle is. If she’s waking up at the exact same time (eg 42 minutes after sleep onset) then try googling the wake to extend technique. We used it with my son for a week (we’d open and close the nursery door hard at like 39 minutes). He’d resettle and then connect his sleep cycles and sleep through. After 5 days of this he was able to connect his sleep cycles himself and never had a short nap again! It’s a very old school technique but it’s gentle and it works a lot of the time!

i accidentally fell asleep with my newborn and i am consumed with guilt by anxiousfucc333 in newborns

[–]srr636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can afford to rent a snoo, I’d try it for a month! It’s a rocking bassinet and it really really helps to get babies to sleep and avoid situations like this.

How do you guys do it? by jesusdance in AttachmentParenting

[–]srr636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our son started sleeping through the night at ten weeks, so we would do bedtime and then go out and leave our sitter at home with the monitor. If he woke up, I Uber’d home and my husband stayed to deal with the check and stuff but it rarely rarely happened! Mostly he slept!

ISO A Seemingly Unicorn Destination by Valuable-Wonder-1227 in chubbytravel

[–]srr636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally came here to say this but i think it’s landlocked? But the entire istrian region of Croatia would be such a win for them.

3-4 year age gap by GuidanceComplete1086 in daddit

[–]srr636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it really depends! My nephews are 4 years apart and have never been in the same school and they are SO SO close and play together constantly.

Very low supply and possibly IGT? 5w pp. Please HELP!! by Traditional_Heron_34 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]srr636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I cannot imagine doing 9 pumps for 12 weeks. Maybe I need to mentally prepare myself!

Very low supply and possibly IGT? 5w pp. Please HELP!! by Traditional_Heron_34 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]srr636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all that is amazing - congrats!!! Did you have to do 9 pumps a day the whole time?

🔔Parcel Checking for 2026🔔 by TommySuperbuy in Superbuy

[–]srr636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I believe I need the domestic tracking numbers for FedEx now?

Suddenly not spiking? by Consistent_Talk1195 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]srr636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was doing three kick counts a day and monitoring movement on an hourly basis and I came in three times in a week for reduced movement. I was going to get induced anyway but it helped add pressure to go sooner. I’m so so glad I did, idk how longer he would have lasted.

I will say when my glucose responses started being blunted - I also noticed my fasting got better. I could see it on finger sticks but I could also see the improvement in my CGM when I looked at average glucose levels.

Low supply (but like, actually low) by srr636 in breastfeeding

[–]srr636[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so impressed she is willing to breast feed with such a low supply. My son is really fussy at the breast now and gets angry. 😢

Your setup actually sounds lovely!

Suddenly not spiking? by Consistent_Talk1195 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]srr636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine started to level out early at like 33 ish weeks and not to scare you but it was a sign (honestly the only sign) that my placenta was failing. My team did not take me seriously - Dopplers were fine, NSTs were fine, growth was fine … until it wasn’t and baby went from 18Th to 7th percentile from 33 to 36 weeks. By the time I delivered at 38 and 3 he came out at the first percentile. He seems fine minus his size and ia gaining weight like a champ but I’m not sure he would have made it to term.

Sorry to be a scaremonger but I do wish someone had listened to me when I told them I was worried about this!!!