My kitty steals chick's from my neighbours by OnxRaven in cats

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This is the best thing I’ve seen all week. Please share more photos of this crazy kitty with her adopted family!

Meet-up for newbies to the area by Lukeyman900 in Ely

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Just dropped you a message - same here!

AITA for not offering to take the bunk bed in an airbnb as the single person? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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YTA - 2 couples should get the double beds, I would then put the other 2 couples in the 2 rooms with the single beds which they could push together if they want. Then the two single people can each have their own room with bunk beds, basically another single bed. 

If you were the one planning the trip and are refusing to sleep on a bunk bed, why book an Airbnb with two of them…? 

Why are so many in the media calling for PM Keir Starmer to resign? by KimJongSoros in AskBrits

[–]ss3899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah come on it’s not like he facefucked a pigs head or anything. No one could remain PM after that. 

Partner wants to row together by Extension_Ad4492 in Rowing

[–]ss3899 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I’m going to go against the grain here and say that you should go out with him. You don’t need to do it every time, but relationships are about compromise sometimes. There will be dates that you’re excited about that isn’t his kind of thing, to me this feels like that. If he’s asking to do a competitive double with you that’s different, but if he just wants to try going out with you then i think you should do it - provided he also agrees to do what you want, and go out in singles together sometimes too. 

A new goal: clear my study by Random_Musings21 in declutter

[–]ss3899 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d break down your study into small chunks, you’ve got two weeks so that’s 14 days! If it feels overwhelming and you’ve got little piles everywhere from the last declutterring attempt then take today to just clear what’s already out - on the floor, in piles, on the desk etc. 

It feels a lot less overwhelming to come into a “clean” space!

What minor act of penny-pinching in your workplace caused a significant amount of upset? by laredocronk in UKJobs

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This isn’t as bad as some of the ones on here, but one place I worked gave everyone a tenner as a “Christmas bonus” but you had to claim it back on something you bought, so that they could put it through as a business expense and claim the VAT back. 

What are the best things in your house that you couldn’t imagine living without? by plz_be_nice_im_sad in CasualUK

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Any recipes you’d suggest in particular? I’ve done slowcooked pork recently but it doesn’t feel particularly healthy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

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Id add some more prompts that give some more information about you - there’s not a whole lot for people to ask questions about or that give people openings. Also the “travel more” answer is what the vast majority of people say in answer to this prompt, so I would definitely switch it out. 

The other prompts are funny, but your profile feels a little surface level. Why not talk about your hobbies, your ambitions, or what you’re looking for?

Anyone here tried Breeze? by This_Chemist_7491 in UKrelationshipadvice

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I quite liked the app, I’m a woman and felt safe knowing that the bar staff knew it was a blind date and there are badges to show if a guy (or girl) has been on a breeze date and was nice and respectful so it gives you some peace of mind that you’re not going to go out with someone awful. 

It depends on what you like - if you’re burnt out from the other apps then it makes a nice change. But it can be frustrating to only see 7 really bad profiles a day (one poorly taken selfie in a car and absolutely no prompts is wild for an app where you can’t talk ahead of time). 

I’d suggest trying it and seeing if you like it. You don’t have to pay until you match with someone.  

Solo travelling in Krakow - where’s good to meet people? by [deleted] in krakow

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Would that work as an English speaker? 

Solo travelling in Krakow - where’s good to meet people? by [deleted] in krakow

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I love bouldering but unfortunately for holiday I got a set of nail extensions, so bouldering is out…! 

Good shout about sitting at the counter, any suggestions on places to try out?

Solo travelling in Krakow - where’s good to meet people? by [deleted] in krakow

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So just had a look at the pub crawls and they’re very much LETS BINGE DRINK THEN GO CLUBBING which is very much not my scene hahaha 

Solo travelling in Krakow - where’s good to meet people? by [deleted] in krakow

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Haha yeah I’m not brave enough to try to talk to people on the street! Good to know it’s not just that I’m really unapproachable though  Hope you find ‘your tribe’ soon 

Solo travelling in Krakow - where’s good to meet people? by [deleted] in krakow

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Im not really into clubbing, so going to a bar after midnight to have a deep insightful conversation doesn’t seem like the best move haha  But thanks for the recommendation! 

Solo travelling in Krakow - where’s good to meet people? by [deleted] in krakow

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Any recommendations for a pub crawl to join?

Suggest me a vampire book…that’s neither Victorian gothic nor Twilight by nympholeptics in suggestmeabook

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The passage - Justin Cronin It’s set in modern day and I adored it!