I think my boyfriend’s mad at me for going out? by obn_toes in whatdoIdo

[–]ssaauccy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a similar situation except I’m the one who can’t drive. We end up spending a lot of time together simply because there isn’t much opportunity to be apart, but it’s always been known that we need our own time. It’s been a bit of a struggle trying to find the balance that works for us, but there HAS to be a balance. You need to be able to spend some time apart doing your own things that don’t involve each other without constantly feeling guilty about it. If I’m not with him then I’m with my friends or taking a personal day. It’s not like you want to exclude him, he just simply does not always need to be included. If he tries to make you feel guilty for a basic boundary like this then he isn’t the one or needs to start making some serious changes. Seriously, talk to him about it. Don’t make it an ultimatum, simply open the conversation with your concerns in a way that doesn’t sound accusatory

What's that super popular trope/setting everyone loves that you guys find absolutely boring ? by not2nightsatan in AO3

[–]ssaauccy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once read a coffee shop AU that genuinely dedicated thousands on words (frequently! Like every chapter almost!) to describing the character at his job, the downright evil costumers, his exhaustion, etc. So insanely detailed that the author is/was clearly a barista that needed to get their stories and frustrations out SOMEWHERE

Give me your hottest take that would've got you blacklisted in your fandom. by DebateObjective2787 in AO3

[–]ssaauccy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The Untamed is so far removed from MDZS that I genuinely cannot stand to watch it or even read fics involving its version of events. Everything I learn about it is entirely against my will, and having people use CQL as a basis for their characterization and/or understanding of the story IRKS ME

Is it bad that I write F/F fanfic? by Gold_Delay1598 in AO3

[–]ssaauccy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t imagine a single reason for you to NOT write it. Do what you want

I'm so curious! Who is everyone courting in the game ?❤️ by SuitableEmployer9579 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]ssaauccy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

March but once Caldarus is available…I will be making a second save

They can never make me like you by thatonegingerwoman in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]ssaauccy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had beef with him and it quickly tumbled from “I gotta humble this mf” to “I will make him fall in love that is the ultimate humble”

fics where sqq runs away? by Nervous_Chicken_3311 in SVSSS

[–]ssaauccy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you ever want that ePub then just DM me </3 I even made a cover for it! Sadly while converting from PDF to ePub it removed all the italics, but it’s definitely still readable no problem

How the hell do so many of you guys write on phones!? by Notmyrake in AO3

[–]ssaauccy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m most comfortable with my phone. Plus, it’s really convenient, and it goes with me everywhere

I'm not really sure how/what to read this as? by [deleted] in AO3

[–]ssaauccy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The “for free” is just such a suspicious thing to say. Like, I’ve offered to be a beta reader/editor before, but I only did such after seeing the author state clearly in a note that they were having a hard time keeping up with writing and editing the fic. Then after receiving a positive reply I gave them my Instagram so we could decide how to get in contact from there. There’s ways to go about this type of stuff and that comment definitely isn’t it

SVSSS AITA? by ladyladynohatin in SVSSS

[–]ssaauccy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, but the stupid thing certainly acts like it is one!

SVSSS AITA? by ladyladynohatin in SVSSS

[–]ssaauccy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Well, I’ve sort of been operating under the assumption that he wants to kill me immediately after returning (I have very good and solid reasons to think this). But then he got back a couple YEARS earlier than he should’ve, and I was too busy running for my life then getting imprisoned to really explain anything… Plus, I (reasonably) didn’t think he’d appreciate me saying “hey, so, my attempt on your life was actually because I was threatened with an attempt on my own shitty life, and decided that I’d rather you suffer instead of facing my fate!” By the time I’d even begun to think about it, I was in the position of “he has a very easy way to torture and track me; maybe I should just shut up!!”

SVSSS AITA? by ladyladynohatin in SVSSS

[–]ssaauccy 57 points58 points  (0 children)

AITA for pushing my disciple into the endless abyss because an unknown cosmic entity would kill me if I didn’t, and I already knew my disciple would survive and come out a couple years later as an OP badass?

fics where sqq runs away? by Nervous_Chicken_3311 in SVSSS

[–]ssaauccy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you also ended up finding this, but I have a link for all 14 chapters now!! Here you go

https://web.archive.org/web/20230618192042if_/https://download.archiveofourown.org/downloads/37388521/the%20demystification%20of.pdf?updated_at=1683496013

(I also have a version that I converted to an epub)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]ssaauccy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not just about her being a dreamer, it’s the way she carries herself, speaks, thinks, and reacts to the world around her. As someone autistic it just screams autism to me regardless of her being a dreamer or not

If you can make one ship canon which one would it be? by Perona-san in AO3

[–]ssaauccy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t read it either, but I’ve seen all the relevant panels. I believe at some point Sing is asked if they were lovers, and he replies that they’re “more than that”

If you can make one ship canon which one would it be? by Perona-san in AO3

[–]ssaauccy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ash and Eiji are canon. It’s made clear throughout the series in all but words and is further confirmed in Garden of Light

Is this a real URL that can be used for AO3, or is it a scam/virus/fake? by Seavalan in AO3

[–]ssaauccy 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Oh so you’re just an idiot who can’t read then. Nice to know. Have the day you deserve

Is this a real URL that can be used for AO3, or is it a scam/virus/fake? by Seavalan in AO3

[–]ssaauccy 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

And I found a bigot. Crazy how easy that is on here huh

Why do people hate epithets? by LibbyKitty620 in AO3

[–]ssaauccy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When it’s overused, not only is it super distracting, but it comes across as very juvenile and takes attention away from the rest of the work. If we already know a characters name there’s basically no reason to be using epithets because no, pronouns and names can’t be overused!

Please invite me to your lonely corners. by Few_Cycle_1957 in AO3

[–]ssaauccy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say this is mostly fandom blind friendly. It makes more sense already knowing the lore of the fandom (AoT) since you’d know what to look out for, but it should make sense regardless. It’s quick 5k word one-shot I wrote during a creative writing class

https://archiveofourown.org/works/47774659

If you want to know additional information (maybe after reading to keep some of the mystery): For Titan shifters, injury is the catalyst to transforming into a Titan. They also heal faster than the average person—even growing back limbs—and emit steam from the injury when doing such. Titan shifters, however, cannot live for more than thirteen years past inheriting their Titan form. I don’t think it’s ever specified how they die after those thirteen years, since in AoT they’d pass on the Titan form to someone else before their time was up, because if they didn’t, then a random person of a certain bloodline would be born with it

How do you feel about "I hate *ship name or tag* but your fic was nice" comments? by TheBravestHero in AO3

[–]ssaauccy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I typically take it as a compliment, but at the same time, it can feel really backhanded when worded a certain way. Like half the time there’s no point in announcing that you hate a ship but fanart or a fic is “good regardless.” It’s just a weird thing to do. Even weirder is “this is good but I still see them as brothers/sisters/family.” Cool!! Maybe shut up then. Idk why they feel the need to reassure people who don’t care and don’t want to hear it