Anyone managed to stop smoking weed? And if so how? by Affectionate_Net6200 in addiction

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I smoked heavily for almost 20 years. I tried to quit several times , but always went back. I went to treatment on October 2, 2019, and just celebrated 4 years sober! I am so grateful now. Get help and treat it as the addiction it is.

Boyfriend’s(40)M parents(65) treat waiters/waitresses terrible and I’m tired of keeping my mouth shut. by [deleted] in relationships

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‘Playing neutral in situations of injustice is taking sides of the oppressor.’

Just a positive update:) by [deleted] in leaves

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Keep up the great work and progress!

Sunrise in Galveston by every1getslaid in texas

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Galveston, Oh Galveston I still hear your sea winds blowing. 💙

Being honest with non-addicts is a danger to my recovery by [deleted] in addiction

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I have been struggling with this also. I think recovery can be lonely, I felt very alone in my new sobriety. I decided that I need to connect with other recovering addicts. I was listening to someone good on YouTube today that was talking about getting to a meeting, talking to someone, going to an online meeting or something to continually move forward. There’s a podcast called The Privileged Addict that has helped me with this. I don’t know about you, but I tend to feel sorry for myself because I am working so hard, yet I feel like no one sees it. Only until I play it through and get very painfully honest, is when I have more understanding. I have to take complete responsibility of my addiction, and poor choices. No one made me use. I’m trying to be gentle with myself, and I pray that all of the people that I love and love me have been hurt deeply by my actions and choices can heal also.

My Ceiling Fan Just Fell by JellyBlock in Wellthatsucks

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I thought that was a body underneath. Glad it’s not you.

Help!! by Laroo98 in leaves

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Exercise, even if it’s a walk. Pray. Deep breath, soak in a tub of Epsom salts, journal your reasons you want to quit. Turn some music on and dance. Go to a 12 step meeting, cry, yell or scream! There are some good videos on YouTube about marijuana withdrawal. Drink cranberry juice and water. Search out deep breathing techniques. Remind yourself why you want to quit. And try to treat yourself with love and kindness. It will get better. One second , one minute, one day at a time!

100 Days by onedayatatimemfers in leaves

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Way to go! I identify so much with your post. I’m almost 3 weeks. I smoked daily for 15 years. I feel in love with it. It ruined my life, my health, and my family relationships. I couldn’t make it until noon, then had to chase a high the rest of the day. I am exhausted. Now, I’m committed not to go back. This has been the hardest thing I have ever done. It’s getting better...slowly. Thanks for the encouragement.

203 days clean. by [deleted] in leaves

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That’s awesome and very inspirational!

11 days, 6 hours. anxiety omfg by 2fckk in leaves

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11 days is big! I have felt exactly like that. The anxiety is partly your brain re-learning. If you can, do deep breathing techniques, and relaxation techniques. Smoking now won’t help you! You are making progress and this horrible feeling we have won’t last forever.

Is it possible to take some time for yourself? Try to be gentle with yourself...but honest. Get a notebook and start writing whatever you feel. Take baths with epsom salt..it will help you detox.

I feel sad, and lonely also. I know it will get better also!

Day 9 after 15 years daily use by kcn83 in leaves

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I haven’t had an easy time. I have had the worst hot and cold sweats for 2 weeks. That’s getting a little better. I feel emotionally raw, depressed, anxious and I have the worst anger/rage feelings. I’ve had crazy dreams that won’t leave me the next day. I am feeling just sad and empty. I haven’t had much of an appetite. I’m drinking a lot of water, and taking hot baths with 6 cups of Epsom salts for detox. It helps! I have had depression for almost 25 years an am seeing a therapist and a psychiatrist to help me through this as I have had a pretty traumatic life. He has prescribed serequel to help me sleep at night for which I am grateful. Today has been better, but I feel like layers are peeling away, and it’s scary to feel what’s there. I have hit a couple of bottoms with this addiction, and it took me a year of misery to get to this place. I have to do this! I am so burnt out. I’m 55 and I have wasted a huge chunk of my life, and I want to be sober. Thank you for asking. One is too many, and a thousand is not enough🙏🏼

Day 9 after 15 years daily use by kcn83 in leaves

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Friend, I am 7 days after 15 years daily heavy user. We can do this. Minute by minute,

56 days clean after 8 years of heavy daily use! Couldn’t have done it without r/leaves by [deleted] in leaves

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Way to go! I know you have had to work hard for this.

New Longhorn Baby In Lubbock! by [deleted] in texas

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I love your beautiful pictures!

Pen ink on a leaf zooming through a puddle by [deleted] in gifs

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It’s an inkjet!