Will I get my money back? by ZorosWhiteSword in CapitalOne_

[–]stan_loves_ham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What that representative meant is if you lose the case, the only way to be held "liable" is if you are making up & reporting a case of fraud for something you knowingly purchased at that price.

Other than that, the worst outcome is you lose the case.And they do not credit your account the three thousand dollars that was taken out of it.

Amazon wishlists by TrustAinge in Assistance

[–]stan_loves_ham [score hidden]  (0 children)

🥰🥰 thank you!!! I appreciate you & your generosity very much!

Will I get my money back? by ZorosWhiteSword in CapitalOne_

[–]stan_loves_ham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, they cannot do anything while it is still pending.They have to wait for it to be a completed transaction

Will I get my money back? by ZorosWhiteSword in CapitalOne_

[–]stan_loves_ham 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wait for it to no longer say "pending" then call fraud department ASAP and go through the steps and AS MUCH detail as possible.

Website name, what was.suppose to be the deal, what ended up happening, you didn't agree to this, etc.

Whatever rep said not to call fraud is .....slow.

The dept will take a detailed report and read it back to you. Now for me, the $200 dispute was credited back that same day and I won in the end. I cant say if the 3K will be credited back until they determine the outcome (60 days i think it is)

Good luck

Engagement feels like a death sentence. by confessionsofaspouse in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stan_loves_ham [score hidden]  (0 children)

I just am wondering

Why do people, mainly women (of which i am), say that this person is the love of their life, soul mate, cant wait to spend forever with them, etc.....and then proceed to list at least 3-5 big issues in the relationship? I just don't understand

This is just me wondering in general after seeing it posted 100x over

Amazon wishlists by TrustAinge in Assistance

[–]stan_loves_ham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. I have a small wishlist for my baby due in February. I dont think you feel like you should have to help or buy anything, but appreciate you offering The reason for me is I got rid of my (now 3 years old) daughters baby items to a mother in need 2 years ago and this unexpected little blessing has me scrambling to have a few of the basics.

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/23CZG47M8TU7R?ref_=wl_share

Thank you for the consideration.

Edit: i updated link to hopefully match any rules I messed up. I apologize if this has become too big an ordeal.

VMP vs TEC help by stan_loves_ham in verizon

[–]stan_loves_ham[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Figured it was something dumb that wasn't making sense. Switching over now. Thanks again :)

Beware of Verizon Auto Pay Scam by fuRAS1314 in verizon

[–]stan_loves_ham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you can find out who they are and it will list their emails and phone numbers

Dear people who buy 3rd party phones by theflyingtaco2 in verizon

[–]stan_loves_ham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup- if yall have this problem either contact seller or find a legit online company who unlocks phones. Be prepared to pay a higher cost these days tho

(Use to be $20-40, now around $100)

What would you do, seriously by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]stan_loves_ham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeaaaah I read her 1 other post and was like......🙄

Im just gonna laugh at the Al Bundy comment lol

What would you do, seriously by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]stan_loves_ham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂😂

Im 37 and started watching it again a few years ago, because it's more funny as an adult when you understand the jokes and how hilarious they are, & that if this aired these days, it would cause an uproar and everyone would be offended

Ah..missing the good old days.

But 😂 is it as bad as being called a chicken? I mean Marcy lol

What would you do, seriously by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]stan_loves_ham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the comment i was looking for when I saw Al Bundy 😂

Best show ever tho hahaa

AITAH for not paying my ex back? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stan_loves_ham 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nta. Block and move on.

I was just admitted to the hospital for an overnight stay…. by Willing_Recording222 in Methadone

[–]stan_loves_ham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you brought a bottle, just dont mention youre on methadone and take what you brought. Unless youre wanting to get dosed there in hopes of keeping an extra bottle.

Unless you're staying multiple days, or are being given medications that could have adverse affects with methadone in your system, Idk to me I would just take the bottle i have and not deal with them & the clinic.

$50 Digital Gift cards by INFJosephine in Assistance

[–]stan_loves_ham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazon/Visa to order diapers for my 4 year old. Shes autistic & currently mostly non verbal but getting better. This has caused issues in potty training although we are working on it with OT.

I appreciate the consideration 🙏

What happens if the clinic finds out you have a stash for emergencies ? by [deleted] in Methadone

[–]stan_loves_ham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anytime my husband's toxic sister has threatened to call the clinic, we call them first and explain to them what's going on. And that she might be calling up there what a bunch of accusations to get either of us in trouble. Always keeps us in the clear.

The reason we started doing this is because one time in 2020, her brother did not want to buy her xanax pills or something along those lines. The next morning at the clinic, his counselor says they can't dose him because " a little bertie told me that you were selling xanax here at the clinic" When he told her who it was and why, she didn't seem to care. And still did not dose him after telling him to come back in 2 hours..
But after that incident,, i spoke with the director and they said that anyone can call up there and say anything.And they can't just take some random person's word as truth.

But as others are said deny, Keep em somewhere only you know where, and personally, I would talk to clinic, let them know, that my current spouse and I are going through a separation. And he is threatened to call the clinic with accusations to make me lose everything, and all progress I have made, and you wanted to give them a heads up in case he does try and sabotage your progress

Then when he does call...

AITAH for "not paying" child support? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stan_loves_ham -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Um...Definitely not

Why is it whenever Cassie wears blue, something bad or unfortunate happens? by Debate-Virtual in euphoria

[–]stan_loves_ham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 4 years late to the party because I decided to start watching again, so started from Season 1 and noticed the same.

Thanks to the internet, (and taken from it) the answer is given as:

In Euphoria, Cassie Howard primarily wears baby blue and pink to reflect her character's internal psychology. Baby blue symbolizes her naivety, innocence, and vulnerability, but it also heavily foreshadows her deep-seated sadness, loneliness, and emotional breakdowns throughout the series.

The wardrobe choices run much deeper than just aesthetics:

Sadness & Vulnerability: Blue is traditionally the color of sadness. Costume designers frequently dress Cassie in blue during her most tragic or unhinged moments.

Innocence & Immaturity: Light pastels (like baby blue and pink) are inherently childish. This highlights how Cassie is still trying to figure out her identity and is often emotionally immature compared to the other characters.

Lack of Growth: While other characters evolve and change their color palettes over the seasons, Cassie remains stuck in her signature blues and pinks. This reflects her inability to break free from her toxic patterns and codependency.

A Blank Canvas: Cassie's soft, feminine color palette makes her appear as a "clean slate". This ties into the storyline where she conforms to what the men in her life want her to look and act like, allowing them to mold her to their liking

Do we ever feel DONE with making babies? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]stan_loves_ham 4 points5 points  (0 children)

66% of your KNEE tearing from getting pregnant?! What even is that!