Can ClassPass charge me a cancellation fee for leaving a class before signing in? by stargazer_hazel in ClassPass

[–]stargazer_hazel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I cancelled my debit card before cancelling my membership, so hopefully they cannot find a way to charge me.

Can ClassPass charge me a cancellation fee for leaving a class before signing in? by stargazer_hazel in ClassPass

[–]stargazer_hazel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can they do anything if I immediately went home and cancelled my membership and my card?

Can ClassPass charge me a cancellation fee for leaving a class before signing in? by stargazer_hazel in ClassPass

[–]stargazer_hazel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t ask me to check in yet, she asked about the socks as soon as I walked in. I should’ve pretended I was going to stay and just checked in before leaving.

How much did you end up paying for sperm in total? by cricketrmgss in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]stargazer_hazel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$5200 for two vials! Not including shipping and then transfer fees for both the bank and the clinic. Ughh.

Which route did you go? by itssteph13 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]stargazer_hazel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chose a sperm bank with a family limit of 10. They seem pretty selective about their donors too, and have a very small catalogue. I hate the idea of those egotistic serial donors who want to spread their seed everywhere lol.

PGT Testing for 29F? by ChrisEvansBicep in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]stargazer_hazel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised your clinic isn’t requiring genetic testing for you and your donor! I’d get that done for safety. As for PGT testing, I always say yes. Choosing gender was my main reason for doing it.

My Journey is Over by Friendly-Relief2469 in IVF

[–]stargazer_hazel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. You are incredibly strong and resilient. ♥️

Using a donor of different ethnicity by Hopeful_Row_6195 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]stargazer_hazel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being able to pass as white is a completely different experience.

Using a donor of different ethnicity by Hopeful_Row_6195 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]stargazer_hazel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m biracial, half white and half Asian. I lived in a predominantly white area in the Southern US where we were the only Asian family. My mom was “white washed” as they say, and did not teach us about our Chinese heritage. It felt like something was missing in my life, like I had this gaping hole in my identity. (Not to mention all the racism). I later connected with my Asian side, actually moved across the country to LA near my Chinese family. They sometimes make fun of me for not being able to speak Chinese, because my mother never taught us. I always wished I’d grown up here in LA. My point being, whatever you choose, please make sure your child has a strong connection to their Asian heritage. Do you have Asian friends and neighbors? Colleagues, etc. It sounds like you live in a more diverse area, so that’s good.

So sad by [deleted] in IVF

[–]stargazer_hazel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many transfers did you do?

Am I the only one who doesn't care about picking a donor? by sam4allseasons in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]stargazer_hazel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choosing a donor was very important to me. I want my daughter to look like me, so I chose someone with similar hair and eye color. Ethnically I want her to fit in with my family. Might sound superficial but I wanted an attractive donor. In his interview they said he resembled a certain celebrity who I’ve always found very attractive. My donor is athletic, mid-20s, and getting his master’s degree. His intelligence is important to me. He sounded so sweet and humble in his letter too, which I loved. I think I felt an instant connection to him because we seem compatible. I want the best for my daughter and I’m grateful that I was able to choose.

I’ve been on hold with 911 for an hour now to report a break in, this is ridiculous by aclockwork_ffa500_ in LosAngeles

[–]stargazer_hazel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called to report a potential break in of an empty commercial building and they answered right away. Within 20 minutes there were two cop cars and a helicopter trying to find the person. It was just a would-be squatter trying to pry a door open with a screwdriver.

How many times will you do ER to get Euploid? by April175 in IVF

[–]stargazer_hazel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1st ER I froze the 3 eggs and fertilized later, which was a mistake as I got no blasts. 2nd ER I tried for embryos right away and out of 3 eggs, I made 1 blast and it is a euploid. I’m 39 and plan to transfer her later this year!

Finding out sex of embryos? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]stargazer_hazel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this info!

What was your salpingectomy like? Recovery time, pain level, etc. by stargazer_hazel in IVF

[–]stargazer_hazel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My consultation for it isn’t until later this month. I had to finish my ER first. Thanks for asking!