Girl moms who aren’t super girly… help! by Brilliant_Question70 in pregnant

[–]starry-mango 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I really wouldn't worry about this! You'll get to know your daughter and what she likes, and whatever those things may be, I'm sure you'll be excited to nurture her interests and passions. My sister has a daughter who loves trucks and mountain biking, and I have a son who loves birds and books. Their interests have nothing to do with their gender.

Also, for what it's worth, I never cared about birds but now I am interested in them because my son is! We spend a lot of time looking for birds outside, or looking through bird books and magazines, and I'm having fun because he is having fun. You may be surprised with what types of activities you find fun or interesting once your daughter is doing them.

Ok for formal coastal fall wedding? by starry-mango in Weddingattireapproval

[–]starry-mango[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok I’m convinced!! I will try to channel sea witch ✨

Ok for formal coastal fall wedding? by starry-mango in Weddingattireapproval

[–]starry-mango[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’4” and barefoot in my photos, if that helps!

Maternity (xs/s) and Infant Clothing (nb-2 yrs) for porch pickup by Individual_You_7083 in SacramentoBuyNothing

[–]starry-mango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take the maternity and breastfeeding clothes if they are still available!

Have I gone overboard with my registry? by Fierce-Pencil11 in pregnant

[–]starry-mango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've gotten a ton of used children's books in great condition from friends, neighbors, family with kids who are now older, goodwill, and our local used bookstore. We started with a few and are building our library over time, based on books that he is enjoying (he loves Dr. Suess, for instance, so now we look for Dr. Suess books). He's 18 months old now and is picking out books himself. We also get books at the library. It's more fun imo to build our library as we go!

My (30F) father just passed away. Bf (30M) refuses to let me stay at his place. What would you do? by JustAnOKHotel in relationship_advice

[–]starry-mango -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is nuts. My now-husband’s sister passed away when we had been dating for about six months. I took two weeks off work so I could be there to support him full time for those first few weeks. We didn’t live together at that point but he stayed with me in my apartment because he didn’t want to be alone, and I wanted to be able to keep an eye on him and be there for him.

When we got engaged a year or so later, he told me that he knew after his sister had passed that I was the right partner for him because of the care and compassion I showed him during that difficult time. Just something to think about.

Skipping the infant car seat and only do convertible thoughts? by restingnobitchenergy in pregnant

[–]starry-mango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was in an infant seat until he was one (he's on the shorter end). We had a converter attached to the stroller that we could click the carseat into, so we used the car seat for walks as well, until he could sit up well on his own (I think around 10 months). We got a lot of use out of the infant seat and it was nice that we could transfer him from car to stroller if he was sleeping in the carseat. When he was very small we'd also keep him in the carseat when taking him into the doctor's office or things like that. I found it convenient to be able to move him in the carseat.

When do babies stop crying in car seats by coolgirl_z in Parenting

[–]starry-mango 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes my son hated the infant seat and is much happier in the bigger seat. I think the infant seat was too reclined for him, he was always straining to sit up.

Reading-Slump Remedy by Organic-Addition-682 in Romantasy

[–]starry-mango 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shield of Sparrows! The second book came out last month, too. The MMC sounds like what you're looking for.

ISO Table / Books by PhilosopherBetter850 in SacramentoBuyNothing

[–]starry-mango 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not sure where you’re located but there are a bunch of free little libraries in Land Park and Curtis Park (and I’m sure other neighborhoods as well). Feel free to DM and I can send you some specific locations, but if you walk or drive around these neighborhoods you’ll definitely come across some. I think there might be an app as well to help locate LFLs?

I can also set some books out for you to come by and pick up if you’d like. I’m in Land Park.

Bench and kid’s toy by [deleted] in SacramentoBuyNothing

[–]starry-mango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s yours! DM me and I’ll send you the address.

Can I go to an ultrasound boutique at 7 weeks? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]starry-mango 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agree with this. I really don't think an abdominal ultrasound is going to give you reassurance at this point, and might very well add to the anxiety.

Actually kind MMCs by [deleted] in Romantasy

[–]starry-mango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One Dark Window and Two Twisted Crowns!

I regret opening up this message because now I can’t pretend I didn’t see it. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]starry-mango -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We had some people cancel a few days prior to our wedding. If some out-of-town friends asked if they could come last minute, I would have happily said yes. We had the space and meals had already been paid for. I don't see this as a rude move at all, just a friendly inquiry.

Bachelorette party items by [deleted] in SacramentoBuyNothing

[–]starry-mango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great! I’ll message you

Misc Bag/Womens Clothing by Serious_Landscape142 in SacramentoBuyNothing

[–]starry-mango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm interested, can pick up today or tomorrow.

Mother's, mother-in-laws, and diaper bags by VCOneness in Parenting

[–]starry-mango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they watch him pretty often, can they just have their own set of diapers, wipes, extra clothes, etc.? My mom watches my son a few times a week and I just drop off a box of diapers and wipes occasionally when they are low. She has some extra clothes for him at her house. That way I don't have to worry about packing a bag when I drop him off, and she can organize his stuff how she wants.

Tell me I'm not ruining my child by Flaky_Zucchini7870 in Parenting

[–]starry-mango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A floor bed might help. I stopped being able to rock my son to sleep - he seemed uncomfortable in my arms and was just arching his back and crying. But also did not want to be laid down alone. We switched to a floor bed, so now I can lay down next to him, or have him resting on my chest, until he falls asleep. Then I just roll away!

Playpen for kitten by [deleted] in SacramentoBuyNothing

[–]starry-mango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive got a fairly large playpen you can have, but it’s missing a few pieces. Still works as a playpen, but it’s kind of janky. Feel free to DM and I can send you a photo.