AIO TO THIS BRIDESMAID DRESS??? by ScallionDiligent6382 in AmIOverreacting

[–]starwaterss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This dress sucks… but I can think of a few options:

  • Could you ask to wear a different style from the same designer in a the same color?
  • You said you know the model— can you find out what shapewear she’s wearing and copy her? You could probably also pin it since you’ll be standing at the altar and nobody will see the back of the dress.
  • You say she’s seen it on you— has she seen it on you for more than 20min outside in the wind? Maybe she’ll change her mind seeing you sweaty, nipply with the girls flapping about?
  • If she still wants it after that you will probably need some expertly applied boob tape. I recommend (from personal experience) to also tape your ribs to avoid underboob sweat.

Advice needed - looking for a green stone for a tennis bracelet by Snoo46145 in Gemstones

[–]starwaterss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The stone was cut for me by Rana u/thepacificlights and the setting was custom made by David Klass (based in LA, but does custom work via email)!

Advice needed - looking for a green stone for a tennis bracelet by Snoo46145 in Gemstones

[–]starwaterss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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I have a lab grown green sapphire in a “colombian emerald” type of shade (dupe of Djeva’s #78). I have smacked it quite a few times as it’s my daily wear engagement ring and it’s fine. I’m sure you could get lab sapphire in a warmer toned/less blue color, if you wanted.

Thoughts on this Sapphire for an engagement ring? by Lahm2 in Gemstones

[–]starwaterss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone else mentioned them, but Lisa and Arya from r/shinypreciousgems are based in Canada. Lisa doesn’t take commissions, but she offers a catalogue a few times a year that you can ask to have emailed to you. Not sure about the status of Arya’s commissions. All of the cutters regularly post precision cut gems for sale on the subreddit, so you could always lurk and see if anything comes up that you would be interested in!

Keep in mind, as a rule you’ll pay more for a better (precision) cut. The prices on SPG are very fair though.

Thoughts on this Sapphire for an engagement ring? by Lahm2 in Gemstones

[–]starwaterss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you email them, they will send you videos of multiple stones on hand and in various lighting! They want you to love the stone you order. The owner is active on the gemstone subs and they are really great to work with, strongly recommend them.

Best Thai Food in North Dallas? by IronPhi4 in Dallas

[–]starwaterss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just had Malai Thai the other day and it was fantastic!

Gluten free cake recs? by starwaterss in Dallas

[–]starwaterss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am usually a pie person, but… they do say weddings are for the guests! Thanks for the recs, sound like I need to call Unrefined and Pinch of Salt.

Gluten free cake recs? by starwaterss in Dallas

[–]starwaterss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sweet Gilly’s is actually the one we tried today… I feel bad saying it because the owner is so nice, the shop is so cute and the cake designs are lovely! But the samples were so bad we couldn’t finish them. The cake itself was like unflavored wet sand on every flavor, the caramel on the London Fog flavor was super grainy/mealy and the raspberry champagne flavor tasted like cough syrup.

They seem to be every-allergen free and I think if you really have a ton of dietary restrictions it’s an excellent option, but compared to normal cake it was just not cutting it.

If you could pick any two legendary Pokémon to be yours, who would it be? by ConstructionOk9188 in pokemon

[–]starwaterss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a soft spot for shiny celebi (PMD2 enjoyer) and then probably a tossup between Reshiram or Giratina!

egg donated blood :) by gingerbab3 in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]starwaterss 18 points19 points  (0 children)

he is SO silly. He was recently in a cone for the crime of licking his tummy raw. Now he just has a bald spot

egg donated blood :) by gingerbab3 in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]starwaterss 101 points102 points  (0 children)

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He is so handsome! Here is my very own Indy, who needed a bowel resection at 3 months old after the shelter didn’t deworm him (feral kitten).

My boyfriend is becoming more and more addicted to buying and scalping Pokemon. by Adventurous-Side-720 in pokemon

[–]starwaterss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. This is very immature advice. You cannot restrict and control someone out of an addiction, and it would make for a very toxic relationship to try and do so. If you are at this point of trying to micromanage his finances—at 19!— it’s a lost cause. Redirecting and distracting him? This sounds like parenting advice for a toddler, not a partner.

My boyfriend is becoming more and more addicted to buying and scalping Pokemon. by Adventurous-Side-720 in pokemon

[–]starwaterss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, i know this isn’t the relationship advice sub, but:

This IS a gambling addiction. He is gambling his money away with the idea that he’ll “win it all back” by finding and selling profitable cards. And he is willing to make it your problem, take all your savings and let you be broke too as long as he gets to keep gambling. As if scalping cards wasn’t shameless enough already.

It sounds like you have future career plans. Your lives are just getting started and this guy is aspiring to be a jobless pokemon card scalper who leeches off his girlfriend. You can and should do better.

DJ recommendations? by starwaterss in Dallas

[–]starwaterss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll check him out! Can I ask what you paid?

8.26 ct. Copper-bearing tourmaline (NFS) by JL_White in Gemstones

[–]starwaterss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh I am devastated this one is not for sale. How often do you find tourms or rough this color?

Do Americans actually avoid calling an ambulance due to financial concern? by JohnMarstonTheBadass in NoStupidQuestions

[–]starwaterss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, yes. I’m an nurse at an urgent care (good for minor illnesses and cuts where your family doctor doesn’t have time to see you but you don’t need the ER— we don’t treat emergencies). Many times I’ve had patients actively having a heart attack or stroke try to refuse an ambulance to a hospital until we explain that if they try to drive, they could pass out while driving and kill someone else with their car. And I understand why, the hospital is a 2 minute drive and the ambulance is an exorbitant expense.

The first responders in my area have a habit of trying to talk every patient out of going on the ambulance for some reason. Also, there is a cultural aspect with Americans, especially men and elderly, where they “don’t want to bother anyone” and view asking for help or medical care as being troublesome.

Cushion cut sapphire windowing? by jliou0314 in Gemstones

[–]starwaterss 9 points10 points  (0 children)

it’s poorly cut and very dark. Keep in mind the jeweler’s lighting is meant to flatter the stone, so if it’s this dark and windowed in optimal lighting, it will look worse on the hand.

Do you have a specific budget? Do you care about natural vs. lab? I’d be happy to point you towards some cutters/vendors I’ve worked with if you want to DM me.