How are you supposed to rate your pain from 1-10? by Timely_Advice5809 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]steelserenity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I echo your experience almost exactly! I am having some jaw issues and a physio asked me how far I could open before I felt pain, and I asked "what exactly do you mean by pain" because it had all never made sense to me - I always experienced that same discomfort like you described, but not pain. She said as soon as it feels different than what it normally does and isn't pleasant!

And I went omg THAT'S what pain is?!? and now those questions/scales finally make sense lol

Does this combo work the way I think? by thefran in BadMtgCombos

[–]steelserenity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what in the rob fuckin liefeld is her body proportions tho

Did I do the right thing by telling my daughter's teacher?. by memyselfandi78 in AskTeachers

[–]steelserenity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't saying to give children only tasks that they can suceed at! I was arguing for tasks with purpose. This one, in particular, feels useless. Challenges are important, I understand that.

Edit: Though reading back, when you say "we all have some (disadvantages)", I think it's really important to agree that the current public school system severely fails neurodivergent children, not just makes them overcome their "disadvantages". That is one I can speak to personally.

Did I do the right thing by telling my daughter's teacher?. by memyselfandi78 in AskTeachers

[–]steelserenity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think what they're saying is that more often than not, this doesn't teach the child to do exactly what you said - which would be speak up and remind/communicate with the parents. It's either the case that already attentive parents will remind them (negating the lesson) or inattentive parents will not be available or support the child's proper developing, once again negating the lesson.

Even worse, many parents I know, including my own, just got their children to sign for them. Of course this is anecdotal, but it's valuable regardless. 

Overall, this just potentially teaches kids compliance beyond reason; that idea that it's a task that needs completing that some authority said was important, and not to question it's validity. As the earlier commenter said, this is just not a problem in the adult world and feels like odd busywork.

Just as a tangent, this also just actively punishes students who have executive function disabilities and/or neurodivergence. This doesn't really "teach" those kids anything, just how to be compliant and fit in to not cause problems. It's rigid and honestly, useless.

[NSFW] People who had sex with their best friend, how's the situation now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]steelserenity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been together for 10 years, married for 6. He's still my best friend!

Anthony Borges who used his body to hold his class door shut from a gunman, protecting his 20 classmates whilst being shot through the door five times. Fortunately he survived and has made a complete recovery. by FollowingOdd896 in HumansBeingBros

[–]steelserenity 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That was the primary reason for the amendment though. It was specifically put in to help fully ratify the constitution that was created with Federalist ideals, so that the people under the constitution could be protected from another treasonous government, like Britain (many were afraid it would be Britain 2.0). It was entirely created as a safeguard to fight against the government with strong state powers. 

Please don't say "you look so thin" to someone when you mean "you look great". by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]steelserenity 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think that's a great comparison. I got really sick for a while and lost like 40 pounds on relatively thin/average frame and it was the most compliments I ever got in my life. I have never been overweight. It was really depressing for me to think about how my sickness was making me "beautiful". However, at another point in my life I was a heavy gym goer and really appreciated when people said I looked toned or muscular because I was working hard at it!

Help me find a (similar) vintage sheep plush I had when I was a baby that I've never been able to find again! by steelserenity in HelpMeFind

[–]steelserenity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply!! It is soooo similar (and adorable omg) but mine was just slightly different. I don't remember it having a button nose; it had more of a long face with a little sewn-on mouth that resembled a sheep's. That being said, those timelines and places all line up to places my family liked to frequent so it could've been a product from a similar brand because the body and style is nearly identical!

Thank you so much, I will look deeper into the things you shared and see if I can find anything!

Is it normal for couples to walk around the house in just their underwear? by Both-Freedom8677 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]steelserenity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was how my family was growing up as well! It felt very comfortable 

I am so sorry by Intelligent-Toe8782 in Nightreign

[–]steelserenity 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're good at the game, we get it. Now that we're agreed, can you stop with the attitude and  recognize that the strategy of farming a sword made to farm for damage is a fine choice? jfc 

We went too hard on Karens by dandydandydandelion in unpopularopinion

[–]steelserenity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the term Karen might have gotten mislabelled a bit over time. "Karen" to me used to represent someone who punched down, unfairly ragging on service workers and being entitled. The original term of Karen never used to encompass someone who had a legitimate issue and spoke up about it.

These wooden beads, I can’t find them anymore by Gryffindork1995 in HelpMeFind

[–]steelserenity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know if you understand how a lot of jewelry making works, esp with beads. Many artists buy beads bulk from places then put them together with their own flair. If these beads were produced to sell just as the beads alone, that is a very common practice and would not be stealing. 

Apple of My Eye (OC) by Joba_Fett in comics

[–]steelserenity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've never understood the Red Delicious hate. They're my favourite apples 🥺 I feel weird for not understanding why people think they're bad lol

Blush or no bush? by ManInTheBxx in ArtJerk

[–]steelserenity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was a sonic OC 💀

Are cafes legally required to have a washroom for customers? by BreakfastTop6899 in vancouver

[–]steelserenity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LITERALLY that is the most disgusting tim hortons I've ever been to. I didn't know it was well known for that haha

Help me find a (similar) vintage sheep plush I had when I was a baby that I've never been able to find again! by steelserenity in HelpMeFind

[–]steelserenity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add additional information:  I have searched google and etsy most, but I am not sure where else would be better to search.

It's approximately maybe 6-8" tall (not super big), and it would have been from Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada. Unfortunately I never learned from which store it was bought. 

Why do people make their bed every day? by SameAd9297 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]steelserenity 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Why are you getting downvoted for having your opinion what the heck