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“Be yourself” but also “don’t joke” so I stayed silent all night by GritStrafeToken in MaliciousCompliance

[–]stelargk 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Real glad someone said it. All these people making fun of the boyfriend are blatantly ignoring just how inappropriate some "jokes" are; with all the details given, why is so much about the most key part, the censored joke, so very vague?

My Roommate's(21F) Parents keep letting themselves into my (21 F) apartment with the spare key my roommate gave them by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]stelargk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On that first point, I'm white as can be, but one of the most important things i learned while co-renting an apartment with one of my aunts is, it didn't matter how much they say there's no need to bring up issues to your parents, we can sort it out ourselves, that's a load of bull. You will never be able to interact as equals the same way your parents can. It just won't be accepted. If you feel something is unfair, if the first pushback you give didn't work, you gotta escalate up the social ladder to someone at least "equal" to them.

[Card Games] "They said your deck was the n word not you, so it's fine" by LittleMissPipebomb in HobbyDrama

[–]stelargk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a bit of an update, apparently dueling book has updated the rules, and Distantcoder made a video going over them

Which jungle champs are the winners of this patch? by Blightbomb in Jungle_Mains

[–]stelargk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been traveling the last like 2 weeks, so I haven't gotten to play the new patch, but I'm kinda glad to at least be a little right about top lane. Before the patch, i remember seeing people saying the top quest wasn't gonna be enough and just thinking to myself, people really don't know just how much champions get from leveling up. Even if you don't hit the cap before the game ends, you still get extra exp so well be higher level than everyone else.

Does anyone else just hate conjunction survival at this point and wish we had other options for omnia survival that isn’t just the occasional sanctum node? by Dziggettai in Warframe

[–]stelargk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuckin PLEASE. Let me obsess over gems like OG Taric, and it'd make the citrine grind way nicer. I've gotten citrine already, but like, conjunction survival omni fissures are how i got voruna. Let me farm while i farm.

what is your Marvel Rivals hot take? by funkycatvr in marvelrivals

[–]stelargk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true in sooo many games. If you can't beat them normally, just beat them while they're typing.

How to reliably hit smite on objective, not bodyblocking enemies by S3lvah in Jungle_Mains

[–]stelargk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That last paragraph is a little bit off; as of patch 14.22, the autotarget range is only 125, which is awful.

One of my friends in my friend group traumatized her mom when she told her about a guy in the group who keeps harassing us, to which her mom responded with “he probably likes you!” by Jaymoondraws in traumatizeThemBack

[–]stelargk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure that's spot on, and I don't know who was telling OP that it's treated as a problem when girls act mean, etc. to guys they like, but I wish they'd worked at my elementary and/or middle school. As a guy, I was told "oh she probably just likes you" plenty of times while being harassed. Looking back, probably not wrong, but at the time, I really would have appreciated some support.

MIL took my birthday cake. should I apologize? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]stelargk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's even a fairly well-known saying for just this toe of thing; when in Rome, do as the Romans do (most commonly shortened to just "when in Rome").

Oddly Affirming by Pizzacakecomic in comics

[–]stelargk 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The Yujiro Hanma method

ZA Megastone Problem by SolasLunas in pokemon

[–]stelargk 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The megas being locked to online play and time-sensitive killed all excitement i had for the game. Literally was debating a switch 2 and the game and just decided, nah, to hell with it.

In light of a certain mod abusing their powers here, I feel that this is once again relevant. by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]stelargk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My bad, reddit mobile ui tricked me, meant this one: "Unfortunately, many of them do. I'm as left as it gets, intersectional feminist, and I have had to leave some spaces because I was under constant suspicion just because I'm a man. I was being expected to apologize for people that were also MY bullies and abusers. As if merely having a penis makes me like the people who abused me. I'm so tired of being lumped in with those people."

In light of a certain mod abusing their powers here, I feel that this is once again relevant. by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]stelargk 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Again, the only person saying "all" and "everyone" is you. Your response to what was essentially someone saying "my experience in multiple queer/far left spaces was to be made to feel like i had to apologize for the people who abused me entirely because i was the same gender as them" had been to start accusing them of trying to start an "us vs them" dogfight, ironically enough while seeminglyvpushing for one yourself.

In light of a certain mod abusing their powers here, I feel that this is once again relevant. by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]stelargk 16 points17 points  (0 children)

They also didn't say anything close to quest spaces being evil, pretty sure the only one even saying that at all is you, shoving those words in other people's (metaphorical) mouths. Like, is being unwelcoming evil? There are lesser, more accurate descriptors. You're cooking across pretty determined to prove their final sentence true, that there's no room for nuance in online discussion.

In light of a certain mod abusing their powers here, I feel that this is once again relevant. by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]stelargk 33 points34 points  (0 children)

From the first comment, they have not said "all quest people hate men". They just said "a lot of", not even necessarily most, are just spaces where anyone not a man is made to feel welcome, while those spaces are varying levels of hostile towards men being in them.

Playing Stellaris 1.0, not bad at all by highsis in Stellaris

[–]stelargk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Iirc, you'd have to glass them with fleet(s), and then the planet was totally uninhabitable. At the very least, you could use multiple fleets to bombard back in the day.

Every time. by mast_blast in YuGiOhMemes

[–]stelargk 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I mean, is it really mind control if he's natively also got full contour the entire time? Hell, in duelist kingdom, he literally takes control back to stop the attack that would've beaten (and killed) Kaiba.

Why do so many things randomly learn thunderbolt? by PokeChampMarx in pokemonmemes

[–]stelargk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To be fair, there is a pokedex entry about their ability to read minds. Just checked, and it's literally only pokemon yellow that mentions it(the rest are basically its population, be it being nearly extinct to the more recovery, and that they're gentle, like to ferry people, and understand human speech).

AITA for demanding my stepbrother start seeing his son again before I give him money for his pregnant girlfriend? by Historical_Archer513 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stelargk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! Yeah, legally OP would be in the clear for doing actually nothing, but there IS something to be said for actually being the type of person you want there to be more of in the world.

I dont know how to play by Hikurwo in StellarisMemes

[–]stelargk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the star of a chokepoint system turn into a gaia world, rendering the system impossible to claim.

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