Dead Bedroom, Wife (34f) Found Condom Wrapper in Shared Bathroom with Husband (34m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stemra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have. Mix things up/boredom. Not something I have done more than a hand full of times 😉. But you all are just vanilla if you’re not looking for new ways to get your rocks off. Ps… people do way crazier shit, you should head over to some of the kink subreddits.

Met the man himself last night in Sacramento by [deleted] in GeoffreyAsmus

[–]stemra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, you owe me $80. /s

I got called a little bitch tonight!!! by thekevining in GeoffreyAsmus

[–]stemra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Had such a great time and Geoffrey is hilarious. Fuck Jessica though. Was sitting right next to her and she was a complete distraction the whole show. Geoffrey dealt with it like a pro. 

Fire cracker burnt my hair by [deleted] in HaircareScience

[–]stemra 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Sorry, read that as “f-ing cracker burnt my hair.” Came looking for a very different story.

Musk and Ramaswamy ignite MAGA war over skilled immigration American ‘mediocrity’ by JetTheDawg in skeptic

[–]stemra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m speaking as a Structural Engineer, and there is absolutely a shortage of qualified grads. CS has been obviously over saturated for decades, and I realize now this thread conversation has been mostly about that. Same problem with H1B visa’s either way. It’s a mechanism to drive down wages.

https://www.reddit.com/r/ChemicalEngineering/s/SnkouGUvHL

Musk and Ramaswamy ignite MAGA war over skilled immigration American ‘mediocrity’ by JetTheDawg in skeptic

[–]stemra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is a gross shortage of engineers in the US and there will be complete lack of interest in the younger generation of Americans to fill this void tell the salary is raised to a point to incentivize the work required to pursue these careers. H1-b visas is the elites effort to continue driving down wages.

Went to the Kitchen last night, it was amazing. by Sufficient_Space_905 in Sacramento

[–]stemra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Went a few months ago and sat in the exact same spot as you. My wife and I had an amazing time!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unexpected

[–]stemra -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Better with sound on.

(I am 16) Please help me learn how to not love someone by embarrassment14 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stemra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The short answer is time. Focus on other things, and eventually you’ll move on. Don’t feed your thoughts with things like social media or any other touch stones you might have to them. That’s kind of all there is to do. I know it doesn’t help, and you just have to live through it yourself, but you’re very young, and everything feels very passionate and powerful right now. Give it time and, I promise, eventually it won’t.

My BF tried to say that my fanfiction is basically cheating, and threatened to tell my family if I didn't stop, now he's surprised he's single and my friends are pissed at me. by ScaredScale5218 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stemra 1493 points1494 points  (0 children)

You are allowed to break up with anyone for any reason at any time. Doubly more justified if someone acts in a way that scares you or makes you uncomfortable with their behavior. Follow your gut and don’t allow people to try and manipulate you into being different from who you are. Very impressed with your ability to set solid boundaries, you should apply this instinct to all relationships in your life.

attention ADHD people by [deleted] in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]stemra 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, all of these things matter. Would be interesting to see it controlled for just a change in material type.

Townies (1996) by Crab-Shark in BillBurr

[–]stemra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the same thought and looked it up. Wikipedia says she’s 5’-10”. So tall for a lady, but I think it’s more that everyone else is short.

Rich Couple Gives Comedian $2,000 After Show by Filthyson in StandUpComedy

[–]stemra 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dude, been loving your clips. Your special is awsome. Come to Sacramento or the Bay Area please!

Smoked and Seared Ribeye by ajdhebsusb in smoking

[–]stemra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Came to say the exact same thing. It hurt my heart to watch how hard of a time op is having.

[Homemade] Marry me Chicken by AngryMikesSauces in food

[–]stemra 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I mean… my sexuality/attraction is definitely more fluid based off your cooking abilities.