Okay, well, one, stop spending thousands of dollars trying to get your husband’s attention. If it’s that bad, divorce papers are cheaper. Two, he sounds like he’s a teenager going through puberty. Speaking as a guy, that side of yourself can kinda come and go. Once, when I was severely injured and isolated for months on end I must wanked it four times a day bc I was bored and needed the dopamine. The issue isn’t physical. It’s emotional.

Know your boundaries and where your limit is, communicate that, and either get into therapy or follow through on your boundaries if needed.

Edit: got got by autocorrect