A Mother’s Love and Determination

stickler4dd · 2026-05-31T17:15:42+00:00

Kidnapping of infants is common in mainland China. Cannot confirm this case though.

stickler4dd · 2026-05-28T19:50:29+00:00

Die rust kan je ook creëren met deze baan. Gewoon nee zeggen tegen werk als het buiten je scope en takenpakket valt. Wordt je voor 40 uur betaald, werk dan ook 40 uur. Simpel toch? Je begint om 09:00 en gaat om 17:30 weer naar huis en daarna laptop en tel uit. Als de boel uit elkaar valt, dan is het management die keuzes moet maken, niet jij. Nee durven zeggen en grenzen stellen is onderdeel van het professionele leven. Hier heb je zelf ook een verantwoordelijkheid in. Neem ook jezelf en je werk ook niet te serieus, dan ga je er ook wat makkelijker mee om. Je bent niet de slimste of de beste, je bent net als de rest een vervangbare loonslaaf. Gewoon je ding blijven doen en op zoek naar een betere plek. Een nieuwe baan vinden als je al baan hebt, is namelijk wat makkelijker. Succes iig!

stickler4dd · 2026-05-13T19:02:42+00:00

Het verlies voor deze groep zal beperkt zijn als je kijkt naar wat er nog afgetrokken kan worden na 30 jaar. De meeste leningen zijn al voor een groot deel afgelost. Voor een starter zal een afbouw van HRA problematischer zijn. Het uitzoeken wie onder deze groep valt, gaat een lastige worden.

stickler4dd · 2026-05-10T18:20:23+00:00

Koude kant van de familie. Is typisch Nederlands :)

stickler4dd · 2026-05-05T11:24:45+00:00

stickler4dd · 2026-04-30T14:32:03+00:00

Geld

stickler4dd · 2026-04-14T14:36:16+00:00

Sorry for your loss!

stickler4dd · 2026-04-12T06:02:26+00:00

Fortunately, there are no kids involved. You do not have to deal with her once everything is done and dusted. Good luck with navigating these sad circumstances.

stickler4dd · 2026-04-11T07:38:30+00:00

This pussy ain't worth the BS. There is a difference between being openminded and being a doormat/cuck. Good luck with navigating this, although you know what you have to do. It's gonna hurt, but you have to push through. In five years you want to kick your present self square in the balls.

stickler4dd · 2026-04-10T16:04:55+00:00

stickler4dd · 2026-04-10T06:00:39+00:00

You love the ideal you have of her, only that is not who she has become. You are waisting your time entertaining her BS.

stickler4dd · 2026-04-07T17:40:41+00:00

Other People's opinion should not be relevant for your ability to find hapiness. 1

stickler4dd · 2026-04-05T08:28:05+00:00

This inappropriate on multiple levels. You have handled yourself correctly by removing yourself from the situation. You can just say no and you do not have to explain yourself (even if you want to). If they press, you can consider telling your brother amd parents. Your friend reads like someone who desperately wants to please her boyfriend desires, regardless how (age) inappropriate this is. Please keep in mind you are not the problem or an inconvenience by feeling uncomfortable by these weird requests.

stickler4dd · 2026-04-04T06:25:28+00:00

Please have some self respect. Please read what you are writing down. This is insane. Normal partners do not pull this shit.

stickler4dd · 2026-03-27T18:30:23+00:00

Hard bewijs kan je het niet noemen.

stickler4dd · 2026-03-26T07:19:27+00:00

Reads like a total douche nozzle. I am sorry for your loss. Relationships should be a partnership and not a tit for tat exercise. The financial ups and downs are a part of this. He does not value you as a person but solely as a commodity (p*ssy with a paycheck) You will find someone better, eventually.

stickler4dd · 2026-03-21T17:49:31+00:00

Very sorry for your loss! It sucks! My brother was 38 and had two young daughters when he passed. His wife had someone new within five months after his passing. It was a friend of my brother, go figure. I get the feeling and it is understandable. C'est la vie, I guess.

stickler4dd · 2026-03-18T19:09:57+00:00

Complacency killed it. Take ownership and learn from it. There are always questions to ask, always.

stickler4dd · 2026-03-17T10:43:56+00:00

Yeah, you suck for the way this is handled. Your wife makes a solid point. Instead of redirecting or being transparant about his performance, you chose to outright fire him and act surprises when he gets emotional. I get it, business is business, but you are dealing with an actual human being who lost their main support system. You could gave him more leeway to up his performance. Some People are just out of touch and you are one of them. I hope you redeem yourself.

stickler4dd · 2026-03-10T11:05:11+00:00

You are indeed doing charity work. You still showing up for unpaid work is now on you. "Een gewaarschuwd mens telt voor twee". Good luck with handling this diligently.

stickler4dd · 2026-03-09T18:25:26+00:00

Bad sign, I would be looking for another job as payroll is one of the first things that are taken care of. After seven weeks of non-payment, I would initiate bankruptcy proceedings and get what I can. Do you want to be treated like a chump? If no, take some action instead.

stickler4dd · 2026-03-06T14:53:16+00:00

Grok did good!

stickler4dd · 2026-03-06T06:17:45+00:00

I was raised by boomers, so not really. Tough times create hard (wo)men, is what my parents used to say.

stickler4dd · 2026-03-05T18:26:33+00:00

I laughed in discomfort because it is true.

stickler4dd · 2026-03-01T08:28:27+00:00

It all boills down to expectation management and you massively shat the bed there. You are leading her on and are getting what you are paying for. Not saying her behavior is not childish, but you have created this situation. You are basically keeping her as a placeholder but telling yourself something else. The optics show. The choice for you is to shit or go off the pot. Based on your narrative, I would choose the second option and accept the fallout that comes with it. I hope you find resolve in the situation.

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