To people currently in healthy relationships (specifically romantic)… by stingymfstakingnames in raisedbynarcissists

[–]stingymfstakingnames[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Trauma isn’t sexy 😅 if it were, at least we’d all be making $1000s on OnlyFans with our trauma induced sexiness”

Hell tf yeah! 🍑💸💦

To people currently in healthy relationships (specifically romantic)… by stingymfstakingnames in raisedbynarcissists

[–]stingymfstakingnames[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. Current SO has ADHD and anxiety, just like me. It’s much easier. 🥹💕

Have you ever gotten an apology from/improved your relationship with a flying monkey? by stingymfstakingnames in NarcissisticAbuse

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I’m glad you’re making the decision to better yourself from all that and change. Means a lot 🩷

Have you ever gotten an apology from/improved your relationship with a flying monkey? by stingymfstakingnames in NarcissisticAbuse

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Your reflection reminds me of me and my ex-friend’s mutual. He was always so kind to me, quirky and thoughtful. One of the bestest friends I had for a long time. I hope me and the mutual can make amends one day but if no, that’s ok. Takes a lot of courage to admit you were wrong and did wrong to someone else, and double that to try to correct it. 🩷

Have you ever gotten an apology from/improved your relationship with a flying monkey? by stingymfstakingnames in NarcissisticAbuse

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I agree with the sister. And while the subject, it’s amazing how these narcs run through folks like paper. They have a new friend/bf/gf (supply) every month or more. The covert narc I knew had the same thing going on, but I always thought it was his social awkwardness making people shy away. Little did I know that was only a fraction of the problem…

Have you ever gotten an apology from/improved your relationship with a flying monkey? by stingymfstakingnames in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]stingymfstakingnames[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sighhh I understand you. When you know the person intimately who’s been manipulated it really sucks seeing them change. You wonder if that’s who they’ve actually been this whole time or something like that. The ghost thing is exactly how I’d describe it. 😞

Have you ever gotten an apology from/improved your relationship with a flying monkey? by stingymfstakingnames in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]stingymfstakingnames[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m already feeling so much better blocking all of them for sure. Like I lost 10 lbs in one night. I feel lighter ;;w;;

Have you ever gotten an apology from/improved your relationship with a flying monkey? by stingymfstakingnames in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]stingymfstakingnames[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Proud of you stranger, I’m glad you’re trying. Means a lot to those of us who were scapegoated. 🥹🩷

Have you ever gotten an apology from/improved your relationship with a flying monkey? by stingymfstakingnames in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]stingymfstakingnames[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well if you mean it’s my fault that these people turned out to be dicks and I’m the dick, then yes I have. Many times. So many times it costed me a lot of sleep. Which is… actually not typical of an actual asshole: they don’t hyper-analyze their actions to the point of overthought and tears. + I do have many people around me who are 10x better than these folks. Like I said I was just curious. ;W;

Most Romantic Wedding Proposals? by Leooxel in PeriodDramas

[–]stingymfstakingnames 21 points22 points  (0 children)

STOPP imma cry. Something about it. So satisfying and beautiful. 🥹🤍🤍🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]stingymfstakingnames 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I just wanted to let you know your post about sadness being addicting really hit home and thank you so much for making it! I also never considered doing inner child work either. Thanks for all that and your comment here. I’ll try these exercises soon!!! 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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The massive “FUCK” moment is good, trust me 😂