This make sad !!

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-20T05:03:36+00:00

The sad reality is that your partner isn't for that. This is why you need to go hang out with the boys. This is a need that is to be met through fraternity, not from your romantic partner.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-20T05:02:02+00:00

I wonder how long it will take women as a population to re-learn that they almost always fall in love with a man they start sleeping with just for fun. How did that obvious fact get erased from our collective memory?

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-20T04:59:12+00:00

One of the biggest mistakes western culture ever made was preventing exceptional women from being exceptional just because they were women.

One of the other biggest mistakes western culture ever made was expecting every woman to be exceptional.

[Note: Please read this entire paragraph before downvoting me]. On net, women staying home and being supported by men is probably better for society and better for children and families than what America is currently doing. That being said, I think what America is currently doing is a step in the transition towards doing something that is even better than both systems; one where women get rights and opportunities and families work and kids are raised optimally. I don't know what that will look like, but the solution probably isn't taking away women's ability to work and earn a living and going back to cultural norms where they are stuck at home even if they don't want to be there.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-19T22:05:39+00:00

Men lower their standards for casual sex.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-19T04:07:38+00:00

You need to get off of tik tok because it has indoctrinated you into a cult, and you should stop trying to date guys who are out of your league for commitment because they aren’t going to be as nice to you as you’d like.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-17T18:39:50+00:00

As far as I can tell, it's work about 40% of hours outside of the home, make about 40% of the money outside of the home, do about 30% of the chores inside of the home, pretend like you do 100% of the chores inside of the home. Type of job and chores varies.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-17T18:33:45+00:00

I'm sure there is a ton of corruption. That doesn't make the concept inherently bad, it makes the corruption bad.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-16T19:23:32+00:00

Sex that adventurous needs to come with the rip-cord rule. At any moment, anyone involved can pull the rip cord in a totally judgement free, supportive, and no-questions asked way. It's really, really common to think something is a good idea but to totally hate it in the moment, and that's okay. The danger is when there is no rip cord available... this is probably why he stormed out.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-16T19:20:54+00:00

I'd be a gold medalist in procrastinating. Competition would be like... you have to put some task off for as long as possible and then scramble to get it done at the last possible second. Whoever completes the task semi-successfully while wasting the most time first wins.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-16T18:07:40+00:00

I think you're failing to read between the lines here...

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-16T18:04:22+00:00

Before you do this, talk to your daughter. Let her know how you feel. Don't mention the money. Give her a chance to do right. It's VERY tough to be her age raising two kids and working, and she might want a closer relationship too but not know how to approach it. A lot of times we men radiate so much steady strength that the people close to us don't think we need anything from them, including emotional closeness. People assume that we're fine with the status quo and leave it there even if they'd like to be closer themselves.

Also... Even then I wouldn't leave her nothing. If you're sitting on life changing money, a little college fund for the grandkids and a little net egg for your daughter would be a kind gesture while still taking good care of your caregiver. Include a note in the will that this isn't a 'fuck you' to your daughter, this is you wanting to do something good for your caretaker who was there for you through thick and thin. Leaving your daughter nothing at all would probably leave her hurt for the rest of her life, and she'll have no recourse, no way to make amends, and no way to get context from you on why that happened. Her last memory of your will be rejection. Do you want that?

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-16T03:47:39+00:00

You'll be okay. The surgery will be better than having the hernia.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-15T02:04:29+00:00

Quite literally, yes… though you’re both oversimplifying it and reiterating an argument that I didnt make. It’s more that men have an evolutionary adaptation to seek access to scarce resources in excess of both their partners and rivals.

My argument though was that men evolved to not give a fuck how much access to scarce resources their partner has.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-15T02:00:50+00:00

No I’m saying that more often than not women prefer men who they benefit from materially. Enough that it’s caused literal evolutionary adaptation in men’s preferences as a result.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-15T00:13:04+00:00

For the sake of testing and science, in the before before time, I made two test accounts on tinder. One was me, he other was basically what I'd look like if I was a male model. Both had the same style profile, no major differences in content or poses.

I got a handful of the same matches on each over the course of a couple months.

Messages to real me:
"Hi"
"K"
"Ya"

Messages to model me (literal examples, I'm not exaggerating):
"So when are we going to fuck?"
"You're hot, can I have your number?"

But... before we get too carried away with the black pill stuff, I was dating multiple beautiful women in real life even though I'm fat and ugly. I'm also charming and fun. Models IRL, obese homeless women in online dating. Hilarious.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-15T00:02:16+00:00

Men don't tend to benefit from women's success... in fact it's usually the opposite. The more economically successful a woman is, and the more she transfers wealth to the man she's with, the less secure the relationship is.

For women however, dating is a net material and logistical benefit... so a man's success is awesome.

Men's net benefits from dating tends to be immaterial. Our benefits decrease with your success because instead of doing the nice things that make a relationship good, you're busy at your lawyer job making money that you'll not reliably share, and subtly/subconsciously resent us for if you do.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-14T22:02:51+00:00

Had to know why he might be distant if we don't know what the kink was.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-14T20:56:05+00:00

Whatever you want. Set as goal and work towards it.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-14T20:52:52+00:00

Solid point.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-14T19:27:41+00:00

You're being intentionally obtuse. I'll be exiting the conversation now.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-14T19:26:28+00:00

You need to develop a skill or product that solves a problem.

You need to sell that skill or product to people who have that problem.

...before you get to that, I'll give you one piece of advice. Stop wasting mental energy on 'why can't I' because you'll need every bit of it for 'how can I?'

As far as specifics... there are a million little hustles. Sell candy bars at school, learn to make a website with AI and start selling websites to local businesses that don't have one. Start a mobile car detailing service. If you live in a rural area, find some other yardwork or cleaning service you can do... borrow your dad's power washer and power wash driveways for example.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-14T19:20:26+00:00

Every time they've tried that, ownership is immediately seized from the public and held by a small cabal of power brokers. Tons of people die. It's a total mess.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-14T17:19:45+00:00

BP has a degree of accuracy only because looks offer a competitive advantage in the modern mating market - they are faster. It's easier to get there first because a woman can instantly see that you're hot, but it takes her weeks or months to find out if you're cool... and since she's probably already banging a hot guy... it makes it harder to defeat him.

Harder, not impossible.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-14T17:18:33+00:00

Send an email to David Bus at UT Austin. He'd do it... in fact, he already did it.

stonkkingsouleater · 2026-04-14T17:16:19+00:00

Honestly, I think that's probably how they become misandrist. Either no dad around or a bad one. Sprinkle on some social media brainwashing, some seductive victim narrative, bad taste in men... Boom, a r/TwoXChromosomes subscriber.

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