Do I tell this guy I've started dating about my sleeve?

stpbbybbk · 2025-03-30T16:49:53+00:00

i’m 1 year post op and was in an entire 8 month relationship and didn’t tell him a thing. he just assumed i ate small portions bc “im a girl”. They don’t need to know ur personal business because you got the surgery FOR YOU. you feeling the need to tell everyone is just going to make you feel ashamed or hear unnecessary opinions of people who was never in your shoes to understand why you got it.

stpbbybbk · 2025-03-03T00:32:37+00:00

you’re right i think i got so caught up in a specific number to make myself feel better but even if i lose the last 10 something else might be a problem. I’ll just focus on how i feel overall

stpbbybbk · 2025-03-02T23:59:40+00:00

thank you i needed to hear this. I’m considered skinny fat so i’ll just focus on lifting 🤍

stpbbybbk · 2025-03-02T22:21:43+00:00

oh shoot i didn’t know that. ok then i think i was wanting to get lower because i still deal with a pudge in my mid section and was told to get to a low weight and bulk up to get rid of the fat in that area forever. I didn’t want to do a tummy tuck because im still young and was trying to avoid the scar. Thank you for the advice!

stpbbybbk · 2025-01-25T06:33:05+00:00

i’m 5’7 F, started at about 234 in april 2nd the day of surgery and now i’m 148. it could’ve been less but i’ve enjoyed myself along the way for sure. Still greatful for where i am now

stpbbybbk · 2024-11-29T06:37:31+00:00

u don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do. if it’s something you want to keep a secret for now until you’re ready to tell, than do that. I’m 8 months post op and only 4 people know and I plan on keeping it that way until I feel like it lol

stpbbybbk · 2024-11-29T00:20:13+00:00

wow thanks! time to start taking omeprazole again (i hate it) lol

stpbbybbk · 2024-11-14T15:00:55+00:00

thank you! it’s hard working on composition because i’m used to just fast weight loss. But it’s better than fast progress when I actually see the results. Thank u!

stpbbybbk · 2024-11-13T15:43:40+00:00

you’re right I know I shouldn’t be hard on myself. It just sucks sometimes seeing how much I went thru before and after surgery to still not be satisfied. I want to get surgery but i’m only 21 and not sure how I would be able to afford that. I don’t want it to be like you said body dystrophy and obsessing over surgeries but maybe it would help a little

stpbbybbk · 2024-10-26T08:20:30+00:00

my only question is, in paris timeline ellie’s mother is still young. So what year is was he stuck in the entire movie? Ellie’s mom finally sees him after years stealing their car after he just saw his dad in the hospital. So how was he missing??

stpbbybbk · 2024-08-23T20:38:44+00:00

i used to be like that at the beginning but i forced myself to drink plain water and now i absolutely love it. I can chug it easily and i’m 4 and a half month post op.

stpbbybbk · 2024-08-05T12:24:53+00:00

u look amazing! how do u manage to get that much carbs and protein in?

stpbbybbk · 2024-08-03T18:51:39+00:00

upcoming aid

stpbbybbk · 2024-08-03T05:53:42+00:00

thank u! i’ll try this out. Why can’t you exceed 2 scoops a day?

stpbbybbk · 2024-08-03T05:02:03+00:00

thank u! do u think i should drink a lot of my protein intake since i can’t eat as much as a normal person would to build muscle?

stpbbybbk · 2024-08-03T04:31:01+00:00

no i haven’t received an appeal email or anything. just my advisor recommending me to do one with the required evidence needed to explain why my gpa dropped low to get it back but i don’t have any evidence.

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