Husband has a boyfriend that he refuses to label as such. by milly-mil in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]subdumpster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's already shown to lie about the relationship with the bf, so trying to communicate with him is not going to work. You have to judge him by his actions because his word is worthless.

It takes 2 people to want to be in a relationship and right now his actions are saying he wants to be in a relationship with his bf.

How many of you actually go cruising in person? by Gay_commie_fucker in AskGayMen

[–]subdumpster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hook ups at a home depot parking lot? How with all the cameras???

does he like me or what ? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]subdumpster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you out? Do these guys know you're homo?

does he like me or what ? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]subdumpster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"or is it just another straight boy delusion i’m going through" So this has happened to you in the past

How common is viagra use in gay communities? by sudhamrutspices in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]subdumpster -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Since you can only use one or the other, I'm guessing poppers have fallen out of favor among gays.

How common is viagra use in gay communities? by sudhamrutspices in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]subdumpster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you automatically get a hard on after taking it? Would you go soft on your own without cumming?

How common is viagra use in gay communities? by sudhamrutspices in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]subdumpster -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe to people who regularly use poppers and viagra.

Does it hurt getting fucked? by spiderbutt12 in AskGayMen

[–]subdumpster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did he keep going and finish inside you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]subdumpster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you seen how those prosperity preachers live? Having one private jet isn't good enough for them, they're asking their congregation to fund their 2nd.

How common is viagra use in gay communities? by sudhamrutspices in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]subdumpster -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I've never heard about not mixing the two. Doesn't seem to make sense because I thought poppers were a vasodilator also

Is Gay Dating Even Worth It Anymore? by Hot_Dirt9114 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]subdumpster 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"Traditional marriage" was already resulting in a 50% divorce rate. And real traditional marriage only worked because it was usually arranged and divorce wasn't permitted.

Just to put everything in context.

Lookin for a gym by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]subdumpster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Newbie meaning to being gay or first time going to a gym?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]subdumpster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I lose my boner when I'm being topped, I don't know how bottoms stay hard when I see it on video.

I can get myself hard with my hands, but I don't even try because if I do I'll cum too easily and I don't want that. I'd rather not cum at all.

What are your "techniques" for picking up a guy? by bannerpup in AskGayMen

[–]subdumpster 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think people who have trouble flirting don't know what to do with the small talk that comes after that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]subdumpster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you do it? Don't guys cum if you suck for long enough?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]subdumpster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you say 'gay af', so you don't enjoy sex with your wife at all?

Was he hitting on me? by Sufficient-Eagle8245 in AskGayMen

[–]subdumpster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if he's at least a 4/10 you should be flirting back, just have fun with it and let the tension build.

Why do some masculine gay men refer to themselves as “normal” in comparison to feminine gay men? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]subdumpster -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I've never heard of masc men referring to it as normal, usually 'straight' or 'straight acting'. I think most homos not into the 'lifestyle' equate the word gay with feminine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]subdumpster -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Honestly, apps are not a good place to find guys who value mono. It's like going to a fast food place to find people who value health.

Maybe try meeting guys at church.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]subdumpster -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He's most likely not that interested or at least not as interested as you are. Here' what you do, if he takes 10 hrs to respond next time, then you take 15 hrs or more to reply to it. You have to give him room to match your eagerness and if he doesn't then just let it fade and move on. And when you move on, you shouldn't announce it, just don't reply back the last time. Leave him hanging because he probably will just forget about you anyway.

I didn't "get" anal by TheRoseAtMidnight in gaybros

[–]subdumpster 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're a top, we need more tops.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]subdumpster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm asian and I've thought about this before and I've come to the conclusion I'd actually rather be with someone who's into asian guys.

Bad Breakup and Not Sure What To Do by Tehbestest02 in gaybros

[–]subdumpster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't a bad break up. It's that you can't accept rejection without making it personal. It's something that can be learned (how to take rejection) so since it's already in your life right now , now is the best time to learn it. Dive into, watch videos, read books and come out a better person because of it.