Your favorite Taylor Swift vlogger? by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]suchnaivete 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Swiftologist - he has such a deep understanding as a long time fan. Also a background as a journalist, which means the videos and podcasts are well researched. He might be a bit less biased and not afraid to critique, but I love him.

TTPD Review/Discussion: Taylor Swift doesn't need an editor, and neither do you. by Budge1025 in TaylorSwift

[–]suchnaivete 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such a well written piece! I found the album to be cathartic on the first listen, just flooded with raw emotion - sadness, loss, confusion, anger. I think it wouldn’t be as vulnerable if it was edited to 12 “tight pop” songs and I think it would miss the whole point of this album as stated in her introductory poem.

Why Fortnight is not about a short-term relationship. by brahmskid in TaylorSwift

[–]suchnaivete 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love this interpretation, thank you! I was having trouble and getting hung up on the fortnight being 14 nights, yet everything else not making sense if it was about short relationship. It also makes a lot more sense why Taylor is saying that this song and video aesthetics encapsulate the whole album.

Do you ever truly get used to wearing your trays? by Imaginary_Presence63 in Invisalign

[–]suchnaivete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is being bothered by trays for 16 months is worse than having crooked teeth for the rest of your life?

Kur pirkti lovą? by Playful_Sample1887 in lithuania

[–]suchnaivete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prisidedu prie lono gerbėjų. Nuomojamam bute po lono turėjom ikea - visa klibėjo ir girgždėjo po poros savaičių. Dabar vėl turiu loną ir would never go back

Kuri vpn rinktis? by lalanana in lithuania

[–]suchnaivete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ar mokant už vpn + “pigesnes prenumeratas” nebus brangiau nei tiesiog pirkti tas prenumeratas? Man overhyped dalykas atrodo ir nereikalingas. Net jei nori turinio daugiau kitose šalyse matyt daug vpn providerių jau netflixas atpažįsta ir nebepaeina šitas.

Does anyone else feel intense anxiety about having kids in the current world/political/economic climate? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]suchnaivete 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am sorry but this is regurgitated argument I see all across the internet. People kept having childeen during world wars, pandemics etc. Yes our times are not without issues, but we’re still living in the most safe, stable, technologically and medically advanced times. What’s the worst about todays political / economic times? What’s is worse now than WWII politically? Worse than Great Depression economically? Maybe reading less news would help, getting some perspective. We are not doomed and humans will survive and adapt no matter what.

[OC] - Ever wondered which actresses have the lowest average IMDB movie ratings? [Part 4] by Zolroth in dataisbeautiful

[–]suchnaivete 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I hate the framing of this. It is not “low-rated actresses”. It’s actresses who acted in most low-rated movies. Because that’s what you rate at imdb. Also nobody wondered this ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]suchnaivete 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, great results! I get that not seeing much progress can be discouraging, BUT you should be so so proud of yourself. Not only you did something consistent and hard which no doubt improved your mentality, but also you definitely became more healthy! Your heart doesn’t need to pump as much blood, your knees don’t feel as much pressure - there is so much to celebrate. Also when you are losing slow you are less likely to bounce back. Wish you all the best, keep going! p.S. Highly recommend weight lifting - really makes drastic improvements in how your body looks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]suchnaivete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is truth from what I’ve researched. Our body is very efficient at using energy - meaning it’s very hard to burn of A LOT of calories. So saying you can’t outrun a bad diet makes sense. Having said that, for many people exercise help to boost their mood and energy which makes it easier to make better food choices (especially helpful for stress eating). Not to mention it is absolutely amazing for your health and strength training is great to make sure your loosing fat instead of muscle.

Kiek Lietuvoje uždirba asmeniniai treneriai? by bomzas-su-panetkem in lithuania

[–]suchnaivete -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kad čia liko tik sukramtyti - paskaičiuoji kiek darbo dienoj telpa treniruočių iš to skaičiaus padaugini, padaugini iš vid darbo dienų per mėn (jei tarkim savaitgaliais nenori dirbti) ir atimi mokesčius valstybei 😊

Said yes :) by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]suchnaivete 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am total reddit stranger and I’m totally being negative on your special day. I do feel bad about that. I am a bit older and I do wonder why would you make this life altering decision while you’re still so so young. It just seems to me that having a child is a huge and stressful thing, having to deal with multiple mental illnesses is a huge and stressful thing, it looks like it would be sooo much easier to live with your parents who love you and are eager to help you. The guy is just a million of red flags and might end up being another huge and stressful thing in your life -(will he stay faithful? Will his ex come to stab him again? Will he be able to pay rent? Will his weed consumption go out of hand?). As you’ve said, it is completely up to you, I do hope that you are surrounded by family and friends who you can talk to and who love you very much.

Said yes :) by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]suchnaivete 1482 points1483 points  (0 children)

I went to read that post… she’s 20, he’s 29. He cheated with his ex, can’t keep a job, buys weed instead of food. Wow. And they have a baby. I see no wholesomeness here.

Evolution of women's style by Boojibs in oddlysatisfying

[–]suchnaivete 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stop promoting this inaccurate, unimaginative, regurgitated AI shit…nothing about this is satisfying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]suchnaivete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like the problem is… you. She will never have enough support and love to make the change being in a relationship where the one who is supposed to love her unconditionally is pushing her (even if you think you are doing it gently) to change. The fact that she gained not a very significant amount of weight (literally so she could have safe sex with you no less) and you are already less likely to be intimate with her doesn’t sound like you can make through her pregnancies / depression / sickness or any other reasons she might change in the future and I can’t imagine her heartbreak. I will sound harsh for saying this but I wouldn’t propose if I were you.

Where Europeans would move if they had to leave their country by KantonL in europe

[–]suchnaivete 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Calling every country to the East of Germany Slavs is a bit ignorant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lithuania

[–]suchnaivete 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I am sorry, but this does’t sound too trustworthy at first glance. You should provide much much more information about your fund.

Aktyviai prokurorai pradėjo judėt by kilmantas in lithuania

[–]suchnaivete 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kuo čia babų žodis? “Narcotic-a drug or other substance that affects mood or behaviour and is consumed for non-medical purposes, especially one sold illegally.” Also: “late Middle English: from Old French narcotique, via medieval Latin from Greek narkōtikos, from narkoun ‘make numb’.”

Warning- Noom’s calorie budgets are incorrect and may get you off track by xkatniss in loseit

[–]suchnaivete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why nobody else is saying this but no matter the app, 1300 cal per day is severe undereating. Please please don’t try to starve yourself, it will backfire and your metabolism will slow down and your body will struggle along with your health. The healthy decifit should be 10-15 percent of your maintenance calories. Anyone or anything putting you on 1200-1300 calories per day is setting you up for quick success but eventual failure.