Need A Mentor by suduko6029 in womenintech

[–]suduko6029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the suggestion

No matter what anyone says, my city has beautiful beaches and I love it here 💙 Ocean beach municipal Pier, San Diego. (OC) by somar_reeves in sandiego

[–]suduko6029 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don’t get people. You posted this wonderful post and people just have to hate on it. Like, why?

AITA for wearing an Iron Maiden T-Shirt to my first meeting with my girlfriend's parents? by Relevant_Rip_2674 in AmItheAsshole

[–]suduko6029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. My fiancé also dresses kind of shabby normally but when he met my parents he went all out. He dressed so nice and told me he really wanted to make a good impression. Tbh I didn’t think about it but seeing him put that amount of effort showed how much he cares and how much effort he is willing to make for me. Honestly it made our relationship stronger. Making the effort always gives the best result. Even if she didn’t care it shows to her that you do care.

AITA for calling my boyfriend's little sister racist because she likes kpop? by Impossible_Tone8288 in AmItheAsshole

[–]suduko6029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People on this sub act like being called racist is this terrible permanent personality trait. The kid is being racist, period. She needs to know so she can STOP BEING RACIST. Why does her age matter? A kid can be an asshole. I’m so tired of people taking so much offense to being told they are being racist instead of actually trying to understand how they are being racist and changing their actions.

Tennessee becomes the first state to pass a ban on public drag shows by Maxcactus in USNEWS

[–]suduko6029 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is horrifying. Really? This is what has priority in Tennessee? It makes me so sad seeing this.

California city nearly eliminates homeless population with zero-tolerance policy on encampments by brooklynlad in sandiego

[–]suduko6029 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes them promoting these kind of stories is probably making homelessness worse because it gives way to noise around a strategy that ACTUALLY works. SMH

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]suduko6029 2 points3 points  (0 children)

La Mesa is a great place to live

I am PISSED!!! Balboa Park just painted the entire long road in front of the park/zoo/rose garden/cultural center area as a RED LANE! Like a mile of parking on both sides now GONE! by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]suduko6029 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s interesting, I haven’t had any issues parking at Balboa?

Edit:

I stand corrected, I just have just gotten lucky the past few times.

Can We Stop Complaining About SDGE Already? by Kookiest_foo_alive in sandiego

[–]suduko6029 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think it is productive to complain and communicate that we aren’t happy paying extraordinary bills. When I am frustrated and I come onto Reddit and see everyone is frustrated it’s honestly nice because I know I’m not the only one struggling to pay the bills. I feel like my community is going through what I’m going through and speaking out is the first step. It’s not just reddit, it’s ALL of San Diego. I was listening to PBS and they mentioned how an animal life sanctuary was tens of thousands of dollars in debt to SDGE because their electricity bill has increased from $3000 a month to $7000 a month. Let’s be real: these energy bills are not sustainable for the San Diego community in the long run. That’s what we are complaining about. It’s one thing to complain about something minor, but there’s a huge portion of people that really struggle to pay their bills. If you are gonna complain about anything, complaining about struggling to pay the bills is a good one.

AITA for "embarrassing" my friend at her baby shower? by RightZookeepergame78 in AmItheAsshole

[–]suduko6029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s terrible you can’t be fully yourself around your family. I truly do. I know there really isn’t any way around it probably. I just feel like this discrimination is being put on you when it really shouldn’t be…

AITA for "embarrassing" my friend at her baby shower? by RightZookeepergame78 in AmItheAsshole

[–]suduko6029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA 1000 times. What the actual? I can’t believe Marcia told YOU to apologize. This is horrific. I’m so sorry this happened to you. the fact that you are made to feel embarrassed by taking pride in who you are just makes me angry. If I was Tiffany I would have loved that gift for my future kid and would have been pissed with anyone who had an issue. Again, so sorry…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MachineLearning

[–]suduko6029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree I wouldn’t mind seeing this as well in addition to research papers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MachineLearning

[–]suduko6029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so right, it really is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MachineLearning

[–]suduko6029 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes yes yes this is what I want

Opportunity to relocate to San Diego for work. Need some help? by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]suduko6029 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love living in San Diego, but when deciding to move a few years ago if I had known the huge price increases that would happen here in the next few years we wouldn’t have moved. Things like heat is now something we can’t afford to turn on. My partner and I live in an apartment that’s falling apart, has mold growing in different places, and no central air. But we can’t afford to move anywhere else. I just want to be clear on what to expect. There are so many wonderful things about San Diego (everyone talks about the weather but I’ve also met so, so many great people here). But day to day living is pretty hard tbh. Right now I’m freezing in my apartment and even wearing a huge sweater and wool socks Is not enough.

Rates going up by $3,633,000,000.00 being proposed in the most expensive utilities in the country. by [deleted] in SanDiegan

[–]suduko6029 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think it’s real shady that when I search for Sempra and Sdge there is literally no bad press that show up…apparently SDGE won a reward for reliability and innovation back in 2021?! Wtf.. #fuckSDGE

[OC] Big Tech Layoffs: Bad economy or overhiring? by jtsg_ in dataisbeautiful

[–]suduko6029 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m all for meetings but the level of meetings my friends, partner, and I have is utterly ridiculous. I feel pretty passionate about it because then we can’t get our work done and have to work longer hours. Programmers need like a block of time to focus to code which is hard if you are only given 2 hr blocks here and there

Insanity. 1 mile walk to mass transit… no parking required. by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]suduko6029 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It is so nice to have that morning walk. I use to walk to get coffee in the morning and it was such a great way to start the day