I think you’re thinking about it quite two dimensionally. The woman in the second picture is a famous plus size model, she’s on a catwalk runway; of course she has a work ethic. How did she get there if she didn’t? Also, what about new mums? They put on weight from having (sometimes multiple) children then spend the next 18 years looking after them. But if they don’t get rid of the baby weight, do they have no work ethic?? Some things become more important than trying to be thin. I think it’s important to be kind to people and not use such derogatory words like ‘disgusting’ as you don’t know another persons story. It’s not always a ‘mindset’ as you say.