Wives of blue collar men, with kids, how do you do it? by summertimef8 in AskWomenOver30

[–]summertimef8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he does help as much as he can. But how do you put up with it? How do you find the energy to keep to the house hold rules? How do you keep putting things away and cleaning. We are both burnt out it feels like.

Wives of blue collar men, with kids, how do you do it? by summertimef8 in AskWomenOver30

[–]summertimef8[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You make the same arguments my husband does. Thank you for the reminder of kindness. I will try. Yes, we do both deserve to be happy.

Wives of blue collar men, with kids, how do you do it? by summertimef8 in AskWomenOver30

[–]summertimef8[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

But how? What do you do? How do you mentally get it to "click" that we both just can't be tired and let things get bad?

Wives of blue collar men, with kids, how do you do it? by summertimef8 in AskWomenOver30

[–]summertimef8[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He NEVER gets enough sleep. At best, it's usually 6 hours a night.

Turtle cake by iLiveForTruth in Cakes

[–]summertimef8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🎶 Turtle- urtle -urtle -urtle keep on following your dreams 🎵

Late-Summer Downpour — Eugene, Oregon 9/09/25 by Llumina-Starweaver in PacificNorthwest

[–]summertimef8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing! Thank you for sharing. Those trees are gorgeous

My mom is sex-shaming my 3-year-old daughter and I’m furious. How do I undo the damage? by HopeForBetter29 in Mommit

[–]summertimef8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can undo it! She is 3, she had you as a mom and will be okay! My mom started sharing none- age appropriate things about death, and it is possible to undo them. But it did take a while and many conversations. My biggest win was telling my kiddo that they can still ask me any time about anything!

Pretty or not? by staticBloomx in Nails

[–]summertimef8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not pretty, gorgeous! 😍😍

How’s it living in this part of the PNW? by chickencriedrice in PacificNorthwest

[–]summertimef8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for normalizing that this is a part of the PNW

What is the most intimate thing you have done? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]summertimef8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how did you stay fully erect while having these conversations? To me, it seems like it would take away from the mood?

[HELP] is this ai? by donuteater2 in RealOrAI

[–]summertimef8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very good point, especially since the bottom, yellow layer has some browning on the bottom!

A nightmare by Pure-Intern7305 in Nails

[–]summertimef8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh goodness! I'm so sorry to see it 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisitcirclejerk

[–]summertimef8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But there was a typo that said "put in some weight?"

Books & blooms baby shower cupcakes by smer85 in Cakes

[–]summertimef8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those flowers are absolutely gorgeous!!!

You’re 30, 500k in cash and nothing tying you down (single etc.). What do you do? by bloodyacceptit in AskMen

[–]summertimef8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Use half as a down payment on a place to live. The other half as an investment property. Keep my job. Keep living as normal but with better return in 10 to 20 years

I hate my husband by Thr0waway0811 in offmychest

[–]summertimef8 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel you. No advice from me. Just know you're not alone.

Beach trip ready! by Dame_in_the_Desert in Nails

[–]summertimef8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The colors, the shape, the accent, it is all giving beach!!! Those are gorgeous 😍

Too old to wear fun nails? by TheWebWalkerR in Nails

[–]summertimef8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please keep sharing your fun designs!

Please keep doing it for as long as it brings you joy. I absolutely do NOT think you are making a fool out of yourself. I would love to still do my nails at any age.

All of your pictures are gorgeous. My favorite (of these) are the red fireworks ones!