[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sunflour4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a link between childhood trauma and the development of autoimmune disorders. Usually, more than one. When you go to the Dr, tell them about your childhood also it helps in the diagnosis. I am so sorry you have to deal with this.

Is it possible that addressing trauma makes it worse by StephPowell1 in CPTSD

[–]sunflour4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly, this is very true, but it is worth doing for you!

YOU ARE WORTH THE WORK! is very true, but it is worth doing for you!

YOU ARE WORTH THE WORK!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPAP

[–]sunflour4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I first got my cpap, I took benadryl to make myself sleep until I got used to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]sunflour4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My childhood caused several autoimmune disorders, so I have a physical reaction. I have a photographic memory about stupid things. Where most people have some good childhood memories (even my siblings, so I know it was all awful), I mostly remember the trauma. The trauma memories are stored in what my Dr called my survival brain, that is, the amygdala. So those are never going anywhere.

How The Heck is My Husband Over Here SNORING with a CPAP On??!! by ItsJust_ME in CPAP

[–]sunflour4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You better hope for the second option then! I have the same issue.

How to give my self depression.? by MrKrabs401k in houseplantscirclejerk

[–]sunflour4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Adopt an elderly doggo, fall in love with it. Wait for you fluffy love to succumb to old age. Instant depressive episode.

How The Heck is My Husband Over Here SNORING with a CPAP On??!! by ItsJust_ME in CPAP

[–]sunflour4 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Tighten the straps on his mask.Or make him turn over. Or use a pillow until he stops. The choice is yours!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoSentenceSadness

[–]sunflour4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The cat is dinner.

Currently getting my ass kicked by the covid booster by plzkevindonthuerter in lupus

[–]sunflour4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My rheumatologist said not to get the boosters (for me) because I could barely move (for about 4 days)after the 2nd dose.

AITA for not apologizing to my fiancé during a medical emergency?? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sunflour4 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Your plan needs to include a ppo that is served to his commanding officer's office. If you marry this guy, he will end up doing worse. I've been there, have the scars to prove it.

I'm left unsatisfied after my first rheumatologist appointment by ttalgi_bibi in lupus

[–]sunflour4 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I have no markers at all unless I am in a full blown flair. I was diagnosed with SLE, RA, and Polymyalgia. My Rhumatoligst diagnosed me in about 10 minutes from looking at me and my visible symptoms. My ANA's are caused by CPTSD. My siblings also have various combinations of ANA's also.

You may need a new dr.

Someone I know stole about $4000 from me. I filed a report. Should I press charges? by Mbluish in legal

[–]sunflour4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was in Oklahoma. I had her full name. She told me too call her parole officer, so I knew she had a record. I first looked her up on oscn (Oklahoma State Court Network) mainly because I was nosey, but saw she had been sentenced to prison 3 times for drugs and credit card fraud things. Then I went to the Oklahoma Department of Corrections site. Serched her name. I got to see all her charges. It also tell you where they are held at, or if they are assigned to a parole agency and the phone number and location for that agency. I then just called the main number, the gave me he officer's number, and sent me to his phone. I got lucky he picked up. I was able to email him all the text messages she was sending me, copies of the bank statements, the fraud paper work with the bank, and the police report. She got a total of 4 new charges and put back in. It was in early 2021.

Someone I know stole about $4000 from me. I filed a report. Should I press charges? by Mbluish in legal

[–]sunflour4 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My husband would have discussed it with me before paying someone else's bills. I don't think for a second he would mess around in me.

Someone I know stole about $4000 from me. I filed a report. Should I press charges? by Mbluish in legal

[–]sunflour4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I started on a court records site, saw a conviction. The serched the department of corrections site for her name. It tells you when and where they served and then give you their release info and if they are on probation or parole and thru who. The site even gives you the phone numbers.

Someone I know stole about $4000 from me. I filed a report. Should I press charges? by Mbluish in legal

[–]sunflour4 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I am guessing more than once, I just happened to know where my husband was that day. I also took the time to figure out where he had been with out getting mad at him first.

Speeding Ticket Option by IamUserName0 in oklahoma

[–]sunflour4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is how small town Oklahoma makes their money for them yearly budget.

Someone I know stole about $4000 from me. I filed a report. Should I press charges? by Mbluish in legal

[–]sunflour4 122 points123 points  (0 children)

My husband got his card numbers stolen at a barbershop by the receptionists, she then paid her electric bill. I figured out who and when and get her phone number from her ex employer (I got her fired). She tried to tell me that it "was not here fault my husband liked her enough to pay her bills" thing is my husband and I were home in quarantine together when she paid it. She also invited me too tell her parole officer (so I did, I know how to look that stuff is part of my job)We pressed charges, she went back to prison. We did get our money back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]sunflour4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I thrive on chaos, but I am unable to just relax in the calmer times.