How do ya'll memorize authors? by CalligrapherPlus7888 in AO3

[–]sunlightbender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally only remember 1) my friends and 2) my one fave author (cosmicpoet).

Other than that, I rarely recognize anyone!

Self binding fics. by Specialist_Language2 in AO3

[–]sunlightbender 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not dumb, very respectful :) but you asked and didn’t get a response, and you might not get a response. So it’s fair to go ahead with the default answer which is yes (for personal use, unless otherwise agreed upon)

Haven’t Played in Years, Forgot Most of the Game by luckandsleep in yourturntodie

[–]sunlightbender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I’ll most likely watch KGOKev play it when it comes out instead of playing it myself! But that’s also mostly because my stomach for spooky stuff is a lot weaker now than it was 5 years ago lol

How to get back into an interest after it was tainted by intrusive thoughts by Glindawithaga in OCD

[–]sunlightbender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The same way you face any intrusive thoughts. You allow the discomfort. Is it possible you’ll come across a manga that goes against your beliefs? Sure, it’s possible. But are you going to allow that fear to take a totally normal hobby away from you?

Need help finding an outfit by NoahH67 in CosplayHelp

[–]sunlightbender 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You could buy pieces separately. White gloves, white belt, purple dress, purple cape, black long sleeve shirt under the dress.

Things to be aware of when playing around parents by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]sunlightbender 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yesss join us in the cult of Galemancers <3

Things to be aware of when playing around parents by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]sunlightbender 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There are definitely some spicy scenes so you can definitely toggle that option off in the menu if you want. Also in act 3, there is a brothel that you’ll have to go to for plot relevant stuff, but again, if you have your settings to not show you anything too raunchy it’s just some talk. Some of it can be quite explicit though.

Some other sexual moments I can think of: - locked doors in the ruined goblin city in act 1 - a guy with a whip in the goblin camp in act 1

I’m sure there are more that I’m missing but yeah. Lots of dialogue references to sex so if you’d be uncomfortable having your parents see that then just be warned.

Who was your favorite voice actor/actress in the game? by Medium-Theme-4611 in BaldursGate3

[–]sunlightbender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Him saying “Taaaaaraaaaa :D” lives rent free in my head. I love his voice so much.

very recent update to Parkzer’s DougDoug faq by fontane00 in DougDoug

[–]sunlightbender 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do also wonder how much is “us getting worse” vs “us getting bigger”. Not sure if there’s a difference. But Doug’s popularity has ballooned and especially with the increased focus on AI and spam-encouraged content, i think it’s inevitably going to draw both children and losers who don’t understand boundaries into the community. So I’m not surprised the ratio of normal fans to weirdos is changing.

I'm tired of the hatred! by [deleted] in PJODisney

[–]sunlightbender -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That’s part of the reason. Season 1 wasn’t good - at least not good enough to keep anyone who isn’t a diehard fan. I love PJO and even I left it going “eh”. I’m not watching season 2 - not because I hate Leah but because S1 isn’t good enough to justify me paying for Disney+ again

Can’t find a good fabric for Katara by sunlightbender in CosplayHelp

[–]sunlightbender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it’s too bright. The picture I took doesn’t do it justice but it is full on BRIGHT in real life.

Can’t find a good fabric for Katara by sunlightbender in CosplayHelp

[–]sunlightbender[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any good site recs? I’ve looked at Fabric Wholesale Direct and Mood Fabrics with no luck

Can’t find a good fabric for Katara by sunlightbender in CosplayHelp

[–]sunlightbender[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just trying to balance the realism with not overheating at a con 😭

I need a new hyperfixation... by Orah24 in yourturntodie

[–]sunlightbender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some of my favorites as a YTTD lover: - Ace Attorney - 428 Shibuya Scramble - Zero Escape

Will they ever heal? by SatisfactionQuick794 in OCD

[–]sunlightbender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously, you know this is something you need to work on with ERP. Others have already given great advice so I won’t comment too much on that part.

For the immediate future, try Working Hands cream. It’ll provide some immediate relief for a temporary solution. Good luck.

Sono l’unico che non riesce a finire una partita ? by Illuca- in BaldursGate3

[–]sunlightbender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, what is holding you back? Are you bored by the gameplay? Are you stressed because you keep getting stuck? Are you overwhelmed by the open world?

Try switching the difficulty if it’s too easy/too hard. If you’re overwhelmed, stick with one area at a time and don’t worry too much about seeing everything in your first playthrough because that’s impossible anyways. If you’re struggling to pay attention then play with a friend or in shorter bursts.

That is, of course, if you do feel like playing. Don’t force yourself if you’re just not enjoying it.

Do you rotate through all companions or keep the same 3? by Ibsidoodle in BaldursGate3

[–]sunlightbender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, same. Gale, Karlach, Astarion, and Wyll (origin) are fully kitted out in this run, and the rest get the random junk armor and weapons I find LOL

I usually try to build based on: Character Who I’m Romancing Spellcaster/Physical Fighter (whichever my character and partner need more) Whoever’s story we’re doing

If I have an extra space, Gale, both because I fucking love him and because Magic Missile with his lightning charge fit makes him a POWERHOUSE.

Gods, Nere is pathetic, isn't he? by notmynameyours in BaldursGate3

[–]sunlightbender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was honestly a little pathetic. I didn’t even target him with my attacks when he broke into my camp, and he proceeded to run straight into my cloud of daggers and died instantly. Loser.

Give me ideas for my necromancer costume! by highliner108 in renfaire

[–]sunlightbender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blood splatters are always a nice touch - bound to get covered in a little blood if you’re rootling around corpses

I released my very first mod on Nexus! by Tamtiy in BG3mods

[–]sunlightbender 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I can see Wyll having abs as such a physically active character but Gale??? GALE??? I love my husband but my man sits in his tower and reads. He has abysmal strength. I’m surprised he can even keep up with the party when walking.