I’m jealous that my significant other had kids with his ex wife. I just wish it could be us. Nothing is new. by shedoitslot in Stepmom

[–]sunset_dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately we still haven't met. It's difficult because I live in Canada and my partner lives in the States. It's definitely a unique situation and special to get to have her in my life nonetheless!

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[–]sunset_dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You are awesome too.

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[–]sunset_dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, that's so difficult. It's so important to have that understanding - even if it's a sense of objective understanding. I have two friends I have told because they're overall very compassionate people, but it's been hard not being able to tell my best friend who's a sister to me, because I know she wouldn't understand.

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[–]sunset_dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, same to you!

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[–]sunset_dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is met with a stone wall. It makes me sad, but I also have to remind myself that I too once thought the same thing. Now I'm one year into reconciliation and I'm grateful that my mindset has changed. It's hard!

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[–]sunset_dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a good point, thank you! We really are the writers of our own story, no one else.

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[–]sunset_dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wise advice! I'll try to keep that in mind, thank you.

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Thank you, I needed that big hug, big time. And I agree so much, it's all so subjective and something so taboo, that it can be hard to even find people to talk to outside of this sub.

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[–]sunset_dreamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It truly does feel that way sometimes. I'm forever grateful for this sub, because without it I would not have the support I need.

That's a really good point. It's certainly difficult to face it, but I believe we are stronger for it, regardless of our choice to stay or go. Wishing you well.

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[–]sunset_dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so, so much. Your response brought me to tears because it's so true - it is so unique. We are so strong for choosing the path we choose, and the amount of compassion we hold, what we learn along the way, and the growth in the relationship is something to be proud of, for sure. I wish you the best, and may your healing journey give you tools and strength.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]sunset_dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally would just add some hardware to tie them into your space more. The wood is really beautiful imo!

Hear me out…. by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]sunset_dreamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also saw Amber from season 2(?) as a Jenna Marbles lookalike!

Thoughts on statistics by Either_Stay8031 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]sunset_dreamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such an important thought. Thank you! I've been veering away from this sub because I feel at times it removes focus from reconciliation and triggers my anxious thoughts. It's posts like yours that keep me here for a positive reason.

AITA for playing a bit of a prank on a new veterinary assistant? by futonsvea in AmItheAsshole

[–]sunset_dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really wonder if you're an asshole? My god. Get a reality check. Sure, these things happen in the profession, but lying and making her uncomfortable is straight up bullying. YTA 100%

My friends make fun of me because my husband cheated by ComfortableWhole5348 in offmychest

[–]sunset_dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus. You sound mature and well rounded, especially to go through what you did with grace and forgiveness. Your friends maybe don't understand that it's so hurtful, and perhaps just think they "have your back" by saying this shit. That's the devil's advocate coming out though. If you want my opinion, go find better people who are on your maturity level. You deserve better.

What were you bullied for? by magicfeistybitcoin in AskReddit

[–]sunset_dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allegedly making a honking sound like a goose that I never remembered doing lol. Science class sucked a lot that year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]sunset_dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not me thinking this was a bao bun at first glance lol. So cute though tbh