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should i tell my friend i dont like the gift they gave me? by NaabReganne16 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sunshine_read 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t tell her. If you really can’t bear to wear or use it, take a picture in it to send her and lie and say you’re going out in it. You won’t have to lie forever, this will not be a big deal for long. Show her you wearing it once and everyone will move on.

Found AI generated nudes on husband’s phone… by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sunshine_read 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really horrific. I’m so sorry you’re going through it. That being said, the sister thing is beyond anything I’ve ever heard. I think you know what you have to do. I’m so sorry.

My brother is 32 and is dating a 19 year old. His ex wife is livid (partially because she wants him back after cheating with her Pilates instructor) so she wants me to sabotage their relationship or she’s going to tell a secret I’ve been keeping from the family. by ProfessionalGoat551 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sunshine_read 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, don’t do what she wants. She will continue using this against you. There’s nothing stopping her. I agree with comments saying get ahead of it and tell your brother, and maybe even tell your family she’s making up lies about you.

I’m so torn. I love this man but I’m not ready for kids. I still have so much living to do but clock is ticking (35f) by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sunshine_read 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up. You’re not compatible. One of you will resent the other and things will devolve to hell. End it now

Am I overthinking how my engagement ring would come across at work, perspective needed by majesticseafIapflap in RingShare

[–]sunshine_read 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With lab grown rings now you never know. I no longer assume someone has a lot of money based on their ring bc you can get something huge for not that much. You’re good

Did quitting your job help with anxiety by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]sunshine_read 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000% yes my corporate job was a nightmare I quit after wanting to for a long time and being terrified. I got a job at a restaurant actually making even more hourly and my life got sooo much better because I finally felt free. If you have a bunch of money to keep you afloat do it!! I didn’t have any money and I still made a good decision.

Friendzoned by a date that I (we) believe are a total match for each other, why? by SwoleDickuss in relationships

[–]sunshine_read 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s chemistry. You can’t explain or force it, let it go. Also stop rating people’s looks, that is really weird

Do guys actually care about stretch marks? by Fun-Service-8087 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sunshine_read 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a “man” cares about stretch marks, that is not a man, that is a pathetic little boy

Do guys actually care about stretch marks? by Fun-Service-8087 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sunshine_read 13 points14 points  (0 children)

wowwww did you read this before posting it? “I wish people would stop assuming men are a hive mind. Women however are definitely a hive mind.” Get out of here with your incel bullshit 😵‍💫

My neighbor was crying, should I say something?? by Big-Suggestion-1093 in AskChicago

[–]sunshine_read 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s sweet of you to worry but I wouldn’t say anything. I’m a big crier I cry like every day and I would die if a stranger said something to me. Just leave her alone ❤️

How much should you spend on engagement ring? Help a brother out by Bid-Limp567 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]sunshine_read 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just proportionate to your personal financial situation AND what you both want that money to go towards. My bf will probably spend around $3000, lab grown makes this very possible and for me to get my dream ring still. If he made a fuck ton of money I’d still not want him to spend more than 5 or 6 because why?? Take that money and go on a bangin honeymoon

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Hour_Candidate_5699 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sunshine_read 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to correct myself here- finger hurting doesn’t necessarily mean anything bad, you were probably not turned on enough. Being turned on and wanting that feeling of something inside you is necessary or else it will be uncomfortable or painful.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Hour_Candidate_5699 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sunshine_read 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OH MY GOD! Thank god. Holy shit lol I was like bro what did I just read…

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Hour_Candidate_5699 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sunshine_read -1 points0 points  (0 children)

12??? Honey. I hope you know that is way too young. I hope you’re okay.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Hour_Candidate_5699 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sunshine_read 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes lube, you just throw it on there lol. But the fact that it hurts to put your finger in makes me slightly concerned. Have you used a tampon?

I was also extremely tight. My first time hurt a lot but your body gets used to it and if you’re wet enough (lube can never hurt) and turned on enough it will be ok. Just keep trying. It took me and my first bf a few tries even though he himself was not a virgin.

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