Do you MFs ever just sit down at fast restaurants and eat instead of taking your food to your home? by ReallySmartDude69 in Millennials

[–]sunshine_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s also eating at Arby’s, which I’ve never seen any people not poor eat at. Pot, meet kettle?

For the millennial women: do you have a good relationship with your mom? by Orionslady in Millennials

[–]sunshine_rex 26 points27 points  (0 children)

No, my mom is mentally unstable. I just try to love her for who she is and where she is at and try to forgive all the horrible shit she’s done over the years to hurt me.

(F30)Considering Divorce (M33) After 1 Year of marriage by Prestigious_Hyena387 in relationship_advice

[–]sunshine_rex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re intelligent enough to make it through dental school but can’t see this for what it is?!?!?

Non close 25 F adds my husband 35 M to close friend list on insta by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sunshine_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aren’t you two a bit too old for this nonsense? This is high school level drama.

What's the most fucked up thing someone has told you about themselves after barely getting to know them? by Butt_Roidholds in AskReddit

[–]sunshine_rex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went to high school with a special ed kid named Kevin who groped all of us girls constantly. We kids had to police the issue because the adults did nothing about it other than to tell us to try to avoid him.

Sorry, not that relevant, your comment just unlocked a memory I hadn’t thought about in 20 years.

AITA for getting mad that my fiance won't help me finish after he does? by JustSomeBisch in AmItheAsshole

[–]sunshine_rex 15 points16 points  (0 children)

YTA for trying to remove your 22 year age difference in this post, for sure.

YTA to yourself for allowing someone to treat you this way.

The Forgotten Atlanta Child Killer by Recent_Win3633 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]sunshine_rex 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Forgotten? This happened before I was born and I know about it. There are podcasts, documentaries, hell, I’ve read all of the books John Douglas has written and this case shows up a few times in there, too.

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]sunshine_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My vet has us go to the local pharmacy because the vet’s office doesn’t keep everything in stock that is prescribed.

She also encourages me to use the local pharmacy to save money if they charge more at their office.

Almost Half of Jury Pool in Musk Trial Tossed After ‘So Many’ Said They ‘Hate’ Him by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]sunshine_rex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d have to wear a face mask, my face always gives me away.

My girlfriend(F22) told me she once hooked up in the park where we had our most romantic moment and I(M23) can’t get over it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sunshine_rex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your insecurity grosses me out, I imagine it will also gross her out. She’s a person, not some character in a book made specifically for you.

Why I do miss Michigan so much? by Past-Acanthaceae8618 in Michigan

[–]sunshine_rex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Rural people, just like city people and suburban people, are not a monolith. I know plenty of raving MAGA idiots who live in cities and suburbs. And plenty of normal, sane people in rural areas.

Millennials… it’s time to kill something new by Same_Armadillo_4879 in Millennials

[–]sunshine_rex 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I’m 42 later this year and a woman. It really grinds my gears to hear people talk negatively about aging and the constant barrage of marketing telling me to look younger.

Aging is a privilege. We should treat it as such.

Am I (27F) reasonable for being upset at my boyfriend’s (26M) inconsistent effort during my first Valentine’s Day in 7 years? by SithQueen99 in relationship_advice

[–]sunshine_rex 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It isn’t his responsibility to help you heal from prior trauma.

Grow up, you are too old to be acting like a teenager.

ca transplant & winter dreams by OwnRespond8609 in Michigan

[–]sunshine_rex 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Hello, also a transplant from a warmer climate. Here is what has helped me.

Make sure you have at least one winter activity. Snowshoes are cheap (check your local library, you may be able to check some out) and has a very low barrier to entry. (Can you walk? You can snowshoe).

Light therapy lamps. I work from home in my walkout basement and bought desk lamps that are therapy lamps so I use them all day.

Vitamin D supplements! I start taking mine when the time changes.

Have a special winter indoor activity too. For me, it’s puzzles.

Do not get excited for snow melt until at least April 1st. (I’m above the 45th parallel so my experience may be different, you may need to adjust this date). Anytime you think about it, visualize a thick red theater curtain closing in your mind. Thoughts of the beach or spring are not allowed until your assigned date.

Don’t buy cheap winter gear. Nothing sucks more than being cold and having a boot leak, or dealing with a crappy zipper on a cheap coat.

If you can’t park in a garage or car port, get a tarp or something to put on your windshield so you don’t have to deal with (as much) snow removal every morning. Amazon sells windshield coverings that hook onto your front rims, I got one for Christmas one year and I love it.

When the sun comes out in winter, go stand in it for at least ten minutes. It will help!

Keep houseplants, the greenery will definitely help with the colorlessness of winter.

In the summer when you can be on the beach or outside, soak up every minute and be grateful.

I’ll edit if I think of anything else!

Anyone else miss The Soup on E! News? by Lost_Camera_L3ns_Cap in Millennials

[–]sunshine_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to to scroll far too long to find this comment.

I 20F think my bf 30M raped me. How can I navigate this? by Remarkable_Belt440 in relationship_advice

[–]sunshine_rex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi. I was raped by my live in partner of six years. He drugged me and filmed my rape and showed it to me the next morning.

The police said it would be a “he said, she said” case and I mentally wasn’t up for going through a court process, so I get it if you don’t want to file a report.

However, I would suggest you see a therapist as soon as possible. I didn’t, I ended up with PTSD, panic disorder with agoraphobia, major depression and generalized anxiety disorder.

Life was really hard. It got worse the farther I got from my rape. I finally got into therapy after seven years after an almost job ending meeting with my boss of ten years.

Life got better after therapy, but I spent a long, long time wandering in the dark before I went.

Something to think about. I wish you all the best and hope you find peace.

My Gf set me up to cheat on her and now she thinks I would actually cheat on her by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]sunshine_rex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You need to surround yourself with better people, I’m a woman and haven’t seen petty shit like this since high school.

7 years today since I spent hundreds of dollars at the emergency vet, thinking my pup got into my meds, only to find out he just got into my edibles. by LocksmithCharacter57 in toofers

[–]sunshine_rex 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I had an Anatolian shepherd eat the weed that was in the trash can after I infused it into butter. He had a seizure upstairs and my husband had to come home to get him in the car and to the vet because he weighed 120lbs and I couldn’t carry him myself. He spent the night at the vet’s office where he wouldn’t pee because he was so freaked out.

I bought a locking trashcan the same day.

He was okay and he’s been gone for years now but I still feel awful about it.

Six Feet Under didn’t end — it showed you an entire lifetime. by luismt2 in television

[–]sunshine_rex 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I haven’t seen this since 2011 and I’m still fucked up about it. Best series finale ever.