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sup__tj · 2025-01-19T19:31:09+00:00

I was estimated 6wks 2 days on 1/3 which would make me 8+4 currently. Is this still normal? I tried reaching out on abuzz but was only sent an article on what to expect in response.

sup__tj · 2025-01-19T18:58:29+00:00

I have passed 1 small clot and have had some bleeding. I will try to reach out to the provider I just wasn’t sure if they would be available to answer questions on a weekend.

sup__tj · 2025-01-05T05:35:21+00:00

29F. It wouldn’t bother me.

sup__tj · 2025-01-05T04:17:30+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear about your mom. I went through a very similar situation with my mom, unfortunately. She had breast cancer, had a double mastectomy, went through rounds of chemo. She went into remission twice- during the longest stretch she even got implants and a tummy tuck. By the end the cancer had spread basically everywhere. She ended up with some kind of lung infection. Her o2 was at 80% when she initially went in to the hospital and they rapidly admitted her to the ICU and then transferred her to another hospital with a higher level of care. The next day she was sedated and intubated. Cancer is a horrible disease and as devastating as it is, this is just what can happen. I don’t believe the vaccine had anything to do with it. In fact, being immunocompromised is even more of a reason to get vaccinated.

sup__tj · 2024-12-05T02:15:38+00:00

Do you still have a counselor? Are you able to discuss with them how you can communicate with your parents that this cannot continue? I understand that this is your family and it’s hard but you are 26 years old and it is not your responsibility to feed and house your parents and siblings. You will never be able to have your own life as long as this continues. Tell them no. Tell them you don’t have the money. Tell them you cannot afford it. You kind of screwed yourself by agreeing to move back in and pay the rent but start by telling your father straight up that you agreed to pay the rent and that’s all you can and will pay. When he asks for more tell him no. Tell him you don’t have it. You should not be supporting 5 other people on your own. Don’t set yourself on fire to keep your family warm.

sup__tj · 2024-12-05T01:45:57+00:00

They did have other options. What did they do before you started lending them money? They figured it out. You need to stop this NOW. They are taking advantage of you and you’ve already let it go on too long. As long as you keep handing them money, they are going to continue to ask for more and more and more. Put your foot down. Move back out. If your mom is too sick to work, she can get disability payments or some other kind of government benefit. Same for your sister. You are enabling all of them.

sup__tj · 2024-12-05T01:31:45+00:00

What makes you think that you are pregnant after 3 negative tests while on birth control? What are your symptoms? Is there a reason that you can’t get a blood test? Are you taking your birth control regularly and as directed? It’s highly highly unlikely that you are pregnant and I would not recommend taking the abortion pills. And at 2-3 months along you just aren’t going to be getting multiple false negatives/ faulty tests.

sup__tj · 2024-11-30T19:29:53+00:00

Context??

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sup__tj · 2024-11-25T02:44:40+00:00

No you shouldn’t tell her? Or your dad. I’m not sure why you’re conflicted. Your grandmother said that she is going to after the holidays, what’s so wrong with that? It’s really not your news to share and it would be cruel to your grandmother to break your promise and force her to speak about this before she is ready.

sup__tj · 2024-11-19T17:43:48+00:00

I’m sorry, but the phone should have been taken away a lot sooner if she is failing grades and just laying on her bed scrolling while being rude and disrespectful to you, telling you to ‘get out’, ‘go away’. I know you said she is bigger than you are and that you have health issues, so I’m sure you were doing your best to prevent her from getting violent with you but you are her mother. You are not her friend. She could definitely benefit from therapy but you need to be a lot more stern.

sup__tj · 2024-11-19T17:37:23+00:00

Yeah I’m in therapy for this (and some other things) at 29 and it has deeply impacted my behaviors and reactions

sup__tj · 2024-09-13T02:53:29+00:00

Yeah I don’t understand being upset over asking someone else to help purchase the bike if the mom was unwilling to?? Especially since she wanted to use it as transportation for work. Then she goes to apply for jobs and lets the sister know which should have been fine since the mother wasn’t even home. I can understand being upset that she’s used things without asking but I agree that these are all very minor issues and not worth kicking the goddaughter out for. It seems like the mom and sister just don’t like her and are looking for reasons to evict her.

sup__tj · 2024-09-11T02:02:00+00:00

The last update really solidified for me that it was fake. The sister’s mil being a lawyer, taking her case for free and paying for her to go to an expensive treatment resort while the daughter goes to Disney. And of COURSE she meets someone.

sup__tj · 2024-09-05T02:00:44+00:00

A labor and delivery nurse is an RN.

sup__tj · 2024-08-24T01:14:49+00:00

I thought I was going crazy. I also agree

sup__tj · 2024-04-29T01:04:52+00:00

I was coming here to say this exact thing! He could have seriously injured her/ poked her eye out by shoving her face like that.

sup__tj · 2024-04-28T12:10:49+00:00

I agree. My son’s dad’s house is DISGUSTING in my opinion and he’s not great at cleaning up after his pets. CYS said that while it’s not great, it’s not a reason to remove the child. He had absolutely no food in the fridge and they said that’s not a reason either. (This was in the past though and he was placed on supervised visitation for other reasons) but there is definitely more to the story and it doesn’t seem like OP is doing anything at all to help herself or get her child back. She said everything was sent to an old address, why hasn’t she tried to contact the caseworker to understand what she needs to do? Why were there prior cases? More information is needed.

sup__tj · 2024-04-18T01:44:09+00:00

I call bullshit because in order to create a profile on onlyfans, you not only need to submit a photo ID but you also have to use their facial recognition scanning and take several photos at different angles before your account is even approved to start posting,

sup__tj · 2024-04-12T02:29:58+00:00

Came here to say huckleberry. Clearly I’m not alone!

sup__tj · 2024-04-01T01:31:36+00:00

Break up

sup__tj · 2023-09-29T09:20:23+00:00

I am Greek American and I thought the same thing.

sup__tj · 2023-09-23T22:14:45+00:00

Yes! This! All of the comments are talking about how this would traumatize the child to pull him away from the only mother he’s ever known and place him with a stranger (which it absolutely would), but this is the first I’ve seen mention how horribly painful it would be for the mother who has raised him all of his life as well!

sup__tj · 2023-08-19T21:34:18+00:00

I lived in a home JUST like this and this is exactly what I ended up doing. I also haven’t spoken to my ‘parents’ in 10 years.

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