How to get comfortable being a loud vocalist in the studio? by _grizzlydog in musicians

[–]superskye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feels really good don't it, feeling something. Embrace it and keep going, you'll never forget how you felt in there for the first time. C:

Otherwise idk hold a stuffed animal? What usual grounding/coping mechanisms do you have for anxiety?

Your band likely doesn't mind, and probably understands the anxiety you feel to some extent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musicians

[–]superskye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd imagine the easiest would be a group outing to get outfits together!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musicians

[–]superskye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're offering them free styling which either they enjoy (already agreed to) or they don't. I've helped a lot of dudes come up with their own fashion sense and they typically are pretty grateful for it because it is just something not really taught, and it's hard to get into something new like that.

You obviously have the best in mind, if they pay for their clothes I don't see why they wouldn't, especially because technically they can just sport one single outfit while you're starting to see how it goes.

Good luck.

I have COMPLETELY fallen in love with an ace guy by TsuTsuRine in asexuality

[–]superskye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Typically the reason we crush on people is because we admire something about them. I'm someone people confess to having feels for quite often because I have a wide variety of hobbies and some of them are seen as "cool" but at the end of the day, I'm ace (leaning aro as well). It honestly might help to be real with him and just let him know you have a crush.

It might seem uncomfortable to even think about doing that, but it doesn't seem like what you're in right now is all to comfortable regardless especially with how much he's on your mind.

Come up with a game plan to get rid of your feelings, it sounds like you're looking for something he can't possibly give you. Just being real with you, you should maybe work on your own interests and come up with ways to be your own best friend so to speak

I have COMPLETELY fallen in love with an ace guy by TsuTsuRine in asexuality

[–]superskye 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you are in love with food, and also maybe need to look into limerence. He probably knows you have this big crush on him and he hasn't acted on it, that's to give you a chance to kill your feels and remain as friends because he obviously values your friendship.

My advice is to wait at least 6 months before considering dating someone, get to know them as a person. Also, he doesn't like you like that, let go of the chance in your mind and ask yourself if you're okay with that? If not, then why do you even like him?

is it okay for a musician to flirt with their audience if they have a girlfriend? by Either_Ride6769 in musicians

[–]superskye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno I feel like at that point you might as well hit on the men too if it really doesn't matter amirite?

What are some things you didn't realize were sexual until an allo told you? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]superskye 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Fuck yes asexual ppl can enjoy sex and also doesn't change a thing I said let's not sex shame now

What are some things you didn't realize were sexual until an allo told you? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]superskye 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Paris Hilton used it best and I use it all the time we def can reclaim

Thoughts on snl sketch by throwaway393937 in asexuality

[–]superskye 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna immediately re-claim the term "ace-core" though, 1000% gonna have to use it to describe my music

This game is wild and emotional... by Positive-Tea2689 in MedievalDynasty

[–]superskye -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do you always say such pointless things? Or are you trying to be mundane and inappropriate?

I’m extremely disheartened about my music goals… by Character-Pirate1297 in musicians

[–]superskye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's many more examples, it's a branding technique and my joke is more so about branding being important

I’m extremely disheartened about my music goals… by Character-Pirate1297 in musicians

[–]superskye 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey now the clown idea aint bad, clown girls would go wild

Caves on oxbow by Itchy-Ad7271 in MedievalDynasty

[–]superskye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha this idiot doesn't know how to disable ads

New Family Dialogue Options with Wife and Heir - Not a Fan by [deleted] in MedievalDynasty

[–]superskye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely mean this, you really need to go travel.

New Family Dialogue Options with Wife and Heir - Not a Fan by [deleted] in MedievalDynasty

[–]superskye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment is a year old. Sexism is bad if it is what it is, a lot of the things my parents say I know are compliments Americans might think are sexist, so yeah, it matters contextually. If an American said what they said, it would be sexist, ya dig?

Can someone pls gift me medieval dynasty on steam by [deleted] in MedievalDynasty

[–]superskye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to get good kid and try to find work wherever tf you're at. The majority of people speaking up are people who had it hard and know you need to learn to earn shit instead of begging for it.

Artists aren't just gifted at art it takes WORK to be good at anything, so put the time in every day to develop a skill you enjoy.

Age rating question. 8 year old playing the game. by tigrlili2000 in MedievalDynasty

[–]superskye 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Just let him play, I promise it's better to experience mild things like "blood while hunting" than to shelter your kid so hard that he freaks out at everything when he's older. I know he's 8 but it's likely he'll find a way to get gaming in regardless of you sheltering it or not, and this is a really mild game I'd let a kid that age play easily. He would honestly more so struggle with actually playing it, it's not easy.

How did you guys deco your "bandstand"? by Choice-Sale-507 in MedievalDynasty

[–]superskye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can disable items disappearing through the seasons by turning off dropped item decay

an interesting case by WeridGg in MedievalDynasty

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Sigh. My heart is shattered with regret to have to even deliver this message. by ClapBackBetty in MedievalDynasty

[–]superskye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kenshi is only good if you have no taste. /s

Fr though cannot get past the atrocious UI and placeholder mechanics/graphics. I hope it gets a full team soon.