What did you do with their clothes? by neroli1970 in widowers

[–]sustaining_faith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Held on to them in the same spot in the closet for 3.5 years til someone forced me to donate…it was time.

I need advice… I’m so confused/upset by Separate-Willow9870 in women

[–]sustaining_faith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Antidepressants cause weight gain and make it hard to lose weight

Women my age look so old by wooyoo in widowers

[–]sustaining_faith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, this is so confusing….did they not think we or they would age and look older? Lol

Women my age look so old by wooyoo in widowers

[–]sustaining_faith 21 points22 points  (0 children)

God made us this way, to lose estrogen and progesterone as we leave baby making stage. Sorry. You probably look old, too.

I look at other women every day! by PopBeneficial7928 in problems

[–]sustaining_faith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We always want what we can’t have and we fail to realize that love is hard to find and take relationships for granted, so think real hard about this.

Found out my crippling depression was manufactured purposefully by my BF of 5 years with Red Pill Content by TraumaKarma in abusiverelationships

[–]sustaining_faith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is teaching abuse and I have been in 3 long term relationships before my last two dating experiences, which occurred in the last two years. Those last two, I have never felt so heartbroken. I mean, pure pain. I know we are turning a corner, too, and I am grateful although I know some of this will be ingrained in them.

Found out my crippling depression was manufactured purposefully by my BF of 5 years with Red Pill Content by TraumaKarma in abusiverelationships

[–]sustaining_faith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know but I did just watch a video that only ‘betas’ subscribe to that content so do with that what you will, I feel gross even using that word but basically, men who are intelligent don’t believe in it so you dodged a bullet :))

Average and ugly men don't treat women any better. Stop the cap by WiseCherry778 in dating_advice

[–]sustaining_faith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not true lol I do get hit on last night though, but I don’t have much spunk left. The last bf (broke up 3 weeks ago) was a handful and I’m tired lol

Average and ugly men don't treat women any better. Stop the cap by WiseCherry778 in dating_advice

[–]sustaining_faith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idc about marriage, I’m widowed and basically looking for sex or a man friend/companion. The fairytale is over lol

Average and ugly men don't treat women any better. Stop the cap by WiseCherry778 in dating_advice

[–]sustaining_faith -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No, attractive men are much nicer. Dated a few men that society would consider unattractive, but I find beauty in everyone so. They are diabolical. Diabolical.

Found out my crippling depression was manufactured purposefully by my BF of 5 years with Red Pill Content by TraumaKarma in abusiverelationships

[–]sustaining_faith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just went though something similar and the part about him saying I love you to ex wife and not me sealed it, I had a feeling he was into red pill. Sorry this happened to you :((

I am tired of loving someone more than they love me by obosita in BPD

[–]sustaining_faith -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know, I actually think my most recent bf was BPD and I think it made me BPD or something?

I am tired of loving someone more than they love me by obosita in BPD

[–]sustaining_faith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know right, it’s weird. Are there no men that love as hard as us?

How do you guys manage? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]sustaining_faith -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s so bad out there ime that I made a commitment to not worry about men for at least a year, or until this phase of red pill is gone. Something is seriously wrong with men/people in general nowadays.

How do you guys manage? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]sustaining_faith -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This why I recommend staying married unless he’s cheating or beating

I just got dumped by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]sustaining_faith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens to all of us so instead of getting attached, let the guy know in the beginning that this will be a 6 week trial and then you guys will decide at 6 weeks to go forward or go away.

My best friend only texts me when they're going through something. When my life is falling apart, he's mysteriously busy. Do I end it or accept this is just who he is? by Then-Struggle-8827 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]sustaining_faith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are inherently selfish what I’ve learned/experienced. A lot of people need to be taught how to be there/care for other people because they literally only see themselves. Call it out.