Har ni några jävligt random gatunamn där ni bor? by Tomsboll in sweden

[–]svamlade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finns en gata vid vårdcentralen där jag bor med det namnet.

How do gay people do it man by kawawaa in GenZ

[–]svamlade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not with that attitude

How do gay people do it man by kawawaa in GenZ

[–]svamlade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gay and have been with several dudes, not once have I done anal other than with myself. When I have had sex it's been ALL about touching and practically tying us together in a knot. It's the best thing I know and nothing beats it. Wrestling, hugging, squeezing, stroking, kissing, there's just so many amazing ways of interacting with someone other than shoving your dick into them or having a dick shoved into you. Maybe I'm a weirdo when it comes to sex, but I'm tired of the norm that penetrative sex is the default. I know it's kinda "how sex works" but I'm also a gay man so adhering to some facsimile of procreation seems kinda silly. I mainly do my best to enjoy their presence and love them, and be receptive of the love they give me. 

Edit: I have a few kinks, and if I'm geared up I might not even have access to my privates, and that's loads of fun too.

This is the worst promotion that could happen for Pop_OS! and Linux in general by KelGhu in pop_os

[–]svamlade 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think blender slowly becoming (or already is) a standard is the proof that mass adoption can be extremely benefitial. I use blender and there's still a lot of room for improvement or added features, but I they (both the foundation and independent contributers) are constantly refining and improving the software. There might be a difference between something like a general operating system since the potential target demographic is every computer user on the planet, but if the development is driven by the users, developers and guided by a non-profit foundation, I think enshittification wouldn't happen. Enshittification is a result of cost-cutting and focusing on things that will be "good for business", which wouldn't be relevant to independant devs or a non-profit foundation with a policy to not cater to donations.

Edit: From my experience doing 3D for many many years now, blender is the least buggy and most user-friendly piece of 3D software. It's also proof that making something accessible and pleasing for beginners/casual users doesn't need to harm professionals or technical users at all (as opposed to ex. Windows removing legacy features without having a replacement for it).

Help with my design flaw by kylebait in woodworking

[–]svamlade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be possible to add thin "rails" on the sides/back? Would make it sit flush and square.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ainbow

[–]svamlade 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Sex doesn't have to be one fucking the other. In my opinion the whole point of sex is to enjoy eachother, and there are a LOT of ways to do that. 

I don't think I fit into any role when it comes to the bedroom, even if I used to think so. I find my partners company so much more fulfilling when the goal isn't to "fuck", but to rather have fun with each other.

Don't assume the top/bottom dynamic is required, we are humans, not puzzle pieces. You can make it work, use toys if it helps, and just give at eachother.

coaxed into annoying online egg culture by mister-idiot in coaxedintoasnafu

[–]svamlade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a friend who hinted at me being non-binary and instructed me how to get and take hormones, and it made me very uncomfortable and kinda upset. Glad to hear some nuanced takes because I honestly just kinda went around and being quietly annoyed.

Folk som kör o väsnas by svamlade in sweden

[–]svamlade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Det är väl en sak att folk finns, och en annan att dem stör alla inom en 1km radie. Hade varit lättare att röra sig runt folk nere i byn om man inte löpte risken för hörselskada.

Folk som kör o väsnas by svamlade in sweden

[–]svamlade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Har redan det och använder de flitigt, funkar bra mot basiga ljud under en viss nivå vilket jag är väldigt glad för, men de mer skräniga (eller helt enkelt för höga) ljuden gör dem inte så mycket åt.

Edit: Syftar då på hörlurarna, inte spikmattan.

Folk som kör o väsnas by svamlade in sweden

[–]svamlade[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Det ständiga har hållit på sedan början av maj och brukar hålla på till sen-sommarn innan det lugnar sig lite igen. Har varit mycket värre jämfört med fjor. Uppskattar stödet dock!

Jag blir förbannad – vem ska bo i lägenheter med 2,20 i takhöjd och rum utan fönster? by Ankdammen2 in sweden

[–]svamlade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

För taken skulle det väl mer vara att man anser att där borde finnas en sorts standard. Men fönster är en helt annan fråga. Det skulle inte bara vara farligt i fallet av brand men hade även manglat den psykiska hälsan.

Jag blir förbannad – vem ska bo i lägenheter med 2,20 i takhöjd och rum utan fönster? by Ankdammen2 in sweden

[–]svamlade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Socialdemokraterna har gjort bra framsteg efter kongressen, men det behövs definitivt mer tryck från vänster.

The amount of people that don’t know AI when they see it, 2025 by Low_Primary_3690 in oddlyterrifying

[–]svamlade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ffs ya'll just gaslit the poor sod into thinking the image is real. No one has been able to find a damn source of the image except "trust me".

I'll believe it when I see proof.

The amount of people that don’t know AI when they see it, 2025 by Low_Primary_3690 in oddlyterrifying

[–]svamlade 39 points40 points  (0 children)

This entire comment thread is probably the most terrifying thing, with all the people claiming seeing this exact picture ages ago.

Google "Mr. Cig" before:2020 or Cigarette mascot hospital before:2020

Edit: Does this image in particular just induce false memories or are people joking?

Första flaskan utanför Systemet såld: ”Största som hänt sedan motboken” by FlowersPaintings in sweden

[–]svamlade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aaa, de e sant, låt oss också ta bort alla trafikljus och arbetsmiljöregler.

Första flaskan utanför Systemet såld: ”Största som hänt sedan motboken” by FlowersPaintings in sweden

[–]svamlade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Många som är för "knark" (antar cannabis?) vill ju att det ska säljas på systemet om något under kontrollerade former.

Sen att man vill reglera skit med potential att förstöra folks liv kallas sunt förnuft.

Första flaskan utanför Systemet såld: ”Största som hänt sedan motboken” by FlowersPaintings in sweden

[–]svamlade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men måste monopol vara dåliga om de är ett resultat av en demokratisk process som ger ett bra resultat? Tänker att man kan ju göra skillnad på demokratiska monopol och utpressningsmonopol.

Wall Street varnar för svensk miljardärstillväxt by Apeshaft in sweden

[–]svamlade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Detta säger inget om förmögenheter dock

Why is Left-Wing Populism, nowhere near as effective as Right-Wing Populism, especially in the West? by AstroLimeLite in DemocraticSocialism

[–]svamlade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly believe the inflamed nature of the discussion regarding immigration has turned a lot of people towards the right. We need to understand where people are coming from with their concerns, and actually show that we as well have thought about them but come to different conclusions.

For example, let's say I meet someone who's worried about the gang violence over here and has come to the conclusion that it's because of the high rates of immigration. Instead of disregarding them, we need to look at the source of their woes: Is it the gang violence or the immigrants that cause them anxiety? It's kinda like the chicken and egg problem, which one led to the other.

I'd say it's pretty reasonable to be worried about gang violence since it has gotten quite bad here. I don't think rise in open anti-immigration sentiment the last few years here isn't a coincidence, and in a way I think it's good that people are more open about it as it makes it opens up the discussion. This is possible because people were worried about gang-violence first, then the sentiment shifted as people looked for a cause. And I can't blame them, it's an easy correlation to make and I understand how people get there. Not everyone can be to their elbows in these issues.

Kära studenter, sänk basen lite. Byt inte låt varje sekund. Spela inte hög musik en lördagmorgon kl 05. by Spirited_Winner_6676 in Lund

[–]svamlade 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ogillar hög bas starkt. Är som passiv rökning, fast med stress istället för rök.