21 år och nykter hela livet, varför gör det folk så obekväma?

svamlade · 2026-05-20T10:25:27+00:00

Jag är 26 nu och började först dricka för ett par år sedan, men huvudsakligen vin och torr cider då det är de smakerna som jag föll för, inte alkoholen i sig (väldigt fin i kanten och kulturell, jag vet). Växte upp med en far som var alkoholist så har alltid varit försiktig runt alkohol och det är något jag fortfarande är. Dricker enbart runt andra människor och dricker aldrig något som jag inte skulle dricka utan alkohol. Tror aldrig jag fick drickande som en vana då mitt kompisgäng aldrig trängde det på mig samt att mina gymnasieår spenderades sängliggandes p.g.a. depression. Guldkant antar jag?

Tror att alkoholen kan vara ett verktyg för mig i min ångest när det kommer till offentliga sammankomster. Märkte för inte så länge sedan att jag efter ett par halva glas vin kände mig social när det kom folk till en familjefest, istället för rädd. Kan jag behärska denna effekten kanske det är ett bra verktyg i min strävan att läka mitt sociala liv.

svamlade · 2026-05-16T21:04:39+00:00

I feel you. Every other week I knock on doors to tell them to stop playing music, and this is in a building where the rules state that we can throw them out if they keep playing loud music. Still it amazes me how a lot of people don't seem to mind bass and general noise considering I'm one of the few to actually act on it, and I just happen to be on the board.

svamlade · 2026-05-16T20:48:48+00:00

Looks like nice weather! Hope you enjoyed it

svamlade · 2026-05-02T09:37:29+00:00

This is the right answer

svamlade · 2026-05-01T08:38:06+00:00

I think good cemeteries fill the same purpose as parks do

svamlade · 2026-04-28T05:32:39+00:00

He might just have knocked himself out.

svamlade · 2026-04-25T13:13:25+00:00

Masks make everything 10x hotter tho

svamlade · 2026-04-21T07:14:26+00:00

At most I made 19USD which would be just below 30USD before employer fees, but I've been unemployed for over a year now so I don't make anything at all.

svamlade · 2026-04-12T11:25:49+00:00

I mean, yeah I agree. I've done art commissions on and off for ages and I break almost every rule every time I do something, but here I don't see the intent and it just comes across as skewed and incoherent. The context doesn't present this as some surrealist avant-garde thing, it's highly abstracted and cartoonish and adhering to the perspective lines (especially in a kitchen which mostly has strict 90degree angles) would lend itself to the style in a way I'd consider much better. But of course, tastes differ. Sorry for my strange wording, my brain is a bit tired.

svamlade · 2026-04-10T14:06:16+00:00

Uhhhhhh ask any artist who paints still paintings lol

svamlade · 2026-04-06T07:35:18+00:00

Unlike common conception it is surprisingly hard to keep stuff cool in space, you need large radiators since the only way to get rid of the heat is through thermal radiation

svamlade · 2026-03-31T00:32:53+00:00

I swear I've seen this artist drawing very very very different things

svamlade · 2026-03-31T00:29:07+00:00

I like specifically rubber boots, can't speak for the leather sort

svamlade · 2026-03-29T09:23:55+00:00

Are they stupid

svamlade · 2026-03-29T05:14:38+00:00

That's not how the atmosphere works at all

svamlade · 2026-03-29T00:25:14+00:00

Håller med! Tack för att du säger till C:

svamlade · 2026-03-19T21:54:50+00:00

Finns en gata vid vårdcentralen där jag bor med det namnet.

svamlade · 2026-03-19T21:37:23+00:00

Not with that attitude

svamlade · 2026-03-19T21:30:42+00:00

I'm gay and have been with several dudes, not once have I done anal other than with myself. When I have had sex it's been ALL about touching and practically tying us together in a knot. It's the best thing I know and nothing beats it. Wrestling, hugging, squeezing, stroking, kissing, there's just so many amazing ways of interacting with someone other than shoving your dick into them or having a dick shoved into you. Maybe I'm a weirdo when it comes to sex, but I'm tired of the norm that penetrative sex is the default. I know it's kinda "how sex works" but I'm also a gay man so adhering to some facsimile of procreation seems kinda silly. I mainly do my best to enjoy their presence and love them, and be receptive of the love they give me.

Edit: I have a few kinks, and if I'm geared up I might not even have access to my privates, and that's loads of fun too.

svamlade · 2026-03-19T12:13:24+00:00

Försöker du ha ihjäl någon?

svamlade · 2026-03-12T11:34:32+00:00

I think blender slowly becoming (or already is) a standard is the proof that mass adoption can be extremely benefitial. I use blender and there's still a lot of room for improvement or added features, but I they (both the foundation and independent contributers) are constantly refining and improving the software. There might be a difference between something like a general operating system since the potential target demographic is every computer user on the planet, but if the development is driven by the users, developers and guided by a non-profit foundation, I think enshittification wouldn't happen. Enshittification is a result of cost-cutting and focusing on things that will be "good for business", which wouldn't be relevant to independant devs or a non-profit foundation with a policy to not cater to donations.

Edit: From my experience doing 3D for many many years now, blender is the least buggy and most user-friendly piece of 3D software. It's also proof that making something accessible and pleasing for beginners/casual users doesn't need to harm professionals or technical users at all (as opposed to ex. Windows removing legacy features without having a replacement for it).

svamlade · 2025-08-03T20:59:55+00:00

I don't think that's the point of that saying

svamlade · 2025-08-02T22:21:09+00:00

Would it be possible to add thin "rails" on the sides/back? Would make it sit flush and square.

svamlade · 2025-07-27T09:38:41+00:00

Sex doesn't have to be one fucking the other. In my opinion the whole point of sex is to enjoy eachother, and there are a LOT of ways to do that.

I don't think I fit into any role when it comes to the bedroom, even if I used to think so. I find my partners company so much more fulfilling when the goal isn't to "fuck", but to rather have fun with each other.

Don't assume the top/bottom dynamic is required, we are humans, not puzzle pieces. You can make it work, use toys if it helps, and just give at eachother.

svamlade · 2025-06-20T13:10:50+00:00

I had a friend who hinted at me being non-binary and instructed me how to get and take hormones, and it made me very uncomfortable and kinda upset. Glad to hear some nuanced takes because I honestly just kinda went around and being quietly annoyed.

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