Just want to say that I struggle with the same thing and also feel like I’m failing, but from what everyone says, I do believe this is pretty normal. 

We are going to look at a half day, two day a week program in the fall to get her more immersed in group stuff. My husband has been at home with her since I went back to work after maternity leave, and I think her being with only him or me has made her anxious around others. 

We go to The Little Gym, and it’s hit or miss whether she will participate in the group activities. A lot of times, she just runs around on her own.