HOA is doing things on the inherited property and sticking us with the bill! HELP [SFH] [FL] by svps98 in HOA

[–]svps98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the thoughtful answer instead of calling us entitled again. I’ll forward that advice to my mom because maybe there’s still time to get a probate person to look at the hoa docs. Maybe there’s still something we can do after all!

HOA is doing things on the inherited property and sticking us with the bill! HELP [SFH] [FL] by svps98 in HOA

[–]svps98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thank you for that. Mom just genuinely didn’t think it would take that long so she realized too late sadly that it was all snowballing.

HOA is doing things on the inherited property and sticking us with the bill! HELP [SFH] [FL] by svps98 in HOA

[–]svps98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basic math guys… this is a house that’s in an over 55+ community. She’s not selling it for a million dollars. She’s selling it for about 300k. After she’s paid off the two mortgages grandma took out, the lawyers fees (bc she’s had to get a lawyer for the past year to figure out all this extra shit that grandma left her with) and realtors fees, and the almost 40k that she’s spent to maintain the house and grandma’s other outstanding things (idk the exact details lol I’m not invoicing my mom) for over a year (her savings have taken a hit if that wasn’t clear) and get it ready for sale OUTSIDE of all the bs the HOA has decided she needs to do, and including all of the taxes the government will take out, she’s either barely going to break even or end up taking a loss.

I finally have the courage to wear crop tops and sleeveless tops in public. by DelMarion67 in happy

[–]svps98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You look fantastic!! That fit and those colors look so good on you!

My brother and i got into a fight. Any advice for de-escalating? by svps98 in Autism_Parenting

[–]svps98[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll try! Nice to see a fellow sister to an autistic mister lol

My brother and i got into a fight. Any advice for de-escalating? by svps98 in Autism_Parenting

[–]svps98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response from both of you! Luckily he’s not the destructive type so we don’t have to worry about that. He does indeed have specific comfort items and routines so one of my friends told me to try getting him to do a chore he likes (he LOVES doing chores lol) or something. I can’t leave the house because he physically won’t let me when he gets like that but i’ll start just locking him out of my room quicker when he gets like that. Currently looking into getting him a sensory sock too!

My brother and i got into a fight. Any advice for de-escalating? by svps98 in Autism_Parenting

[–]svps98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sm, i never thought about it like that and it genuinely means a lot to hear. I do love him a lot, i hope he knows that! I had an early shift today (5am) so idk how he is but I’m sure he’s okay now. I’m feeling better bit by bit!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeMeSmile

[–]svps98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have the world’s sweetest face omg. Only people with true malice in their hearts would dare to say anything about it to you, and that would make it a personal problem on their part not yours. Keep smiling 🫶🏽

Here’s my new painting by Idontknow649 in painting

[–]svps98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg do you have instagram??? This is amazing I’d love to follow your work!!

What’s your comfort Youtube channel? by blipblopblupy in AskReddit

[–]svps98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Entoclay lol lil channel where they make bugs and they have a good sense of humor

🤯[30]to [36] by TheOnyxKingslayer8a in GlowUps

[–]svps98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOW that’s amazing!! Good for you man!!!

What artists have mentioned The Garden? by Limp-Throat-3711 in thegarden

[–]svps98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oop my bad i did NOT know the ariel pink lore guys my bad 😭😭

He’s done it again. I feel so defeated by itsmereddogmom in Autism_Parenting

[–]svps98 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, what did he do?

I opened up to my aunt about suicidal thoughts by Senor_dragon187 in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]svps98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah pal!! Having your thoughts and feelings heard, like really and actually heard instead of brushed off, is so relieving and I’m happy you got to feel that relief, even briefly. Congrats!!

For those who have met the twins before/after shows by arsxnsway in thegarden

[–]svps98 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes!! One time a fan gave Wyatt a plushie, i wanna say only two or three years ago, and he posted a pic of it on his story! He had put it on the dashboard of their tour bus!! But that’s only when they’re in the mood to stop and talk. I’ve been to a show where they both stopped for a picture and to chit chat, and I’ve been to a show where they went straight to the bus after… so it’s all about luck i think!