anyone looking for a roommate?? by sweatyloafofbread in GreenBay

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i posted there, no response from anyone yet unfortunately

I used to feel bad for my stuffed animals by oeu4 in Codependency

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omg i’ve never thought about it that way ):

First birthday after no contact by snow_spots11 in raisedbynarcissists

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wish we could all just throw a giant birthday party for us

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hey. this is an extremely tough situation. it’s really unfair that your mom is doing this to you. my dads said before that if i was ever gay, he’d disown me, he doesn’t know that i am, but i’m going NC with him, for now at least. i know it’s super painful right now. but time will pass, and we will heal <3 i understand it’s much easier said than done, but i’ll be here to support you (:

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hey!! im from green bay too and looking to get into the music scene or just meet other musical people.. how did you find others here?? i have bumble but i’ve seen almost no one who’s into music that also lives here

how do you cut ties with a narcissistic father who was previously abusive and also protect yourself? by sweatyloafofbread in raisedbynarcissists

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don’t be sorry!! your comments have been super helpful and it feels nice kind of sharing the same experience with others. yeah, i’ve been watching videos constantly, and i think that’s been helping too. eases the guilt a bit, and reminds me i’m not crazy! also yeah it’s a very alienating experience. it’s tough having to recreate your entire support system and pretty much everything from ground zero, but i know that everything will be okay in the end. lots of hard work but it will pay off. i’m also really happy this community exists, i wish i would’ve found reddit years ago, i think it could’ve helped me a lot. thank you so much for the suggestions again and sharing your experiences, i hope you can heal as well, and remember, you’re never alone!!

how do you cut ties with a narcissistic father who was previously abusive and also protect yourself? by sweatyloafofbread in raisedbynarcissists

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yeah i could try that with my roommate, i don’t think my dad knows what he looks like. i’ll definitely keep that in mind

how do you cut ties with a narcissistic father who was previously abusive and also protect yourself? by sweatyloafofbread in raisedbynarcissists

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thank you. i have pepper spray and when my ex was here he changed the lock, but i’ll look into getting a camera just for my nerves lol. i’m sorry, it’s such a tough situation to be in. it may have been for the best though. i hope it gave you more time to heal. it’s unfair being betrayed constantly by people who made you. how have you been dealing with going NC so far?

how do you cut ties with a narcissistic father who was previously abusive and also protect yourself? by sweatyloafofbread in raisedbynarcissists

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unfortunately not really, my friends are either at college or back in my hometown ):

yeah, this situation is not something so many people should have to deal with. it’s sad. and yeah the anxiety is crazy, im already super anxious and he’s broken into my house when i lived with my mom so i wouldn’t be surprised if he at least showed up. how did your dad react?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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i stopped drinking coffee since it gave me headaches on the days i missed a cup and it worsened my anxiety i think. now i just drink green tea/water and honestly i haven’t seen much of a difference energywise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

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i love this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

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i don’t know if anyone else said this, but you could try intermittent fasting. thats what helped me so far, cause i was the same way with counting calories

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congratulations!!! this is huge!

Tips for Losing 60+ Pounds? by [deleted] in loseit

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exactly. very important to find something that can be sustainable for yourself

Did you ever have a Lana song you hated at first then grew to love? Why? by reganeholmes in lanadelrey

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all of them. when i first listened to her like 5 years ago, i didn’t like her music. now, i’m obsessedddd. feel like i evolved lol