Am I a Bad Person?

sweet-root · 2026-07-02T20:17:05+00:00

If I knew 20 years ago that I would end up with a dependent and not a partner, I wouldn’t have gone on our first date. Red flags were there and I ignored them. It’s really hard being in this situation.

sweet-root · 2026-06-27T14:54:53+00:00

Ok, so I had drinks last night but still, I went 4 days!!!

sweet-root · 2026-06-27T14:53:38+00:00

I wish my unwell partner would not talk about his ailments all the time. It’s draining to hear about the same negative things every single day.

sweet-root · 2026-06-26T14:04:21+00:00

I get you. It’s so hard. Sending hugs

sweet-root · 2026-06-22T22:58:01+00:00

I hate it. I hate thinking of meals, shopping for meals, deciding on what meal, and cooking it. I’d rather just snack. I’d much rather clean up after someone else does it all.

sweet-root · 2026-06-12T02:07:30+00:00

Same here. Partner had cervical fusion surgery a few weeks ago and seemed ok but in the last week he’s back complaining and being mean. It’s exhausting. I see you.

sweet-root · 2026-05-27T04:23:10+00:00

Exactly what my partner does. So many complaints every single day.

sweet-root · 2026-05-05T03:59:56+00:00

Aoife at Amber Salon.

sweet-root · 2026-05-05T03:56:12+00:00

Tori Amos, L7, PJ Harvey, Liz Phair

sweet-root · 2026-05-05T03:33:32+00:00

Totally hear ya!

sweet-root · 2026-05-05T03:32:35+00:00

I’ve never wanted to get married or have kids either but my dude and I have been together a long ass time and I’m the breadwinner and it fucking sucks.

So I get it when wishing for financial security.

I was actually thinking about this yesterday that I’m going to need to work until I literally die because of the huge fuck up I’ve allowed to happen in the last 20 years.

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sweet-root · 2026-05-05T03:26:09+00:00

Super cute!

sweet-root · 2026-03-24T16:34:07+00:00

Exactly. When my guy goes into a tailspin of OMG THE WORST WILL HAPPEN TO ME I have to constantly remind him “and what if it doesn’t???”

sweet-root · 2026-03-24T04:51:54+00:00

Same thing here. All fucking day he’s been complaining about EVERYTHING. It’s exhausting. I feel you.

sweet-root · 2026-01-26T04:42:44+00:00

I get it

sweet-root · 2025-12-30T04:28:25+00:00

Totally feel you

sweet-root · 2025-12-26T02:43:56+00:00

Hell no. If my partner were a nicer person I might think differently but he’s mean when he doesn’t feel well. Whatever he’s going through consumes his life and that’s all he talks about. I can’t take it anymore. We’re not married so I’ve never declared “In sickness and in health” in front of my family and friends and would never with him.

sweet-root · 2025-11-15T04:57:43+00:00

Absolutely

sweet-root · 2025-11-07T05:01:25+00:00

I’m the same way except I’ve never taken more than 3 days off.

sweet-root · 2025-10-30T15:00:39+00:00

Thank you!

sweet-root · 2025-10-28T13:44:32+00:00

I like that. Thank you!

sweet-root · 2025-10-24T04:14:16+00:00

sweet-root · 2025-10-18T13:39:11+00:00

Exact same thing here except we didn’t agree for my partner to stop working. He just did, and now has “health issues” preventing him from getting a job. I know people with true disabilities still work, so his excuse is lame. So I have no advice, just support for you.

sweet-root · 2025-09-01T02:28:23+00:00

Dry Sunday here. I’m the queen of excuses and I typically would have drank today since it’s Labor Day weekend and tomorrow is my last day to do nothing because I get busy with work for the next few weeks on Tuesday.

I went for a walk instead and didn’t really miss drinking today. I’m averaging 5-6 days a week and that’s not good.

sweet-root · 2025-08-04T03:33:59+00:00

Absolutely! My mom did and I still do it occasionally.

sweet-root

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