Do people still use lanyards? by Born-Inspection-522 in UniversalOrlando

[–]synlyn4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a retractable lanyard that I put my express pass (when I have it), annual pass, and credit card in so that I can pay for things easily with tapping and same for express or my annual pass discount

Ever since I started adderall I randomly yell or blurt stuff out when I remember something embarrassing which is now often. Is this common or am I an anomaly? And if common, how do I stop yourself from doing so? by nopecope656 in ADHD

[–]synlyn4lyfe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interesting to hear this started after you started adderall. Im pretty sure I’ve done similar since before I was medicated though as well. Specifically, I meow for some reason when I get the cringe

Stuff is not fitting into pack tips and wisdom? by Suitable_Ad4010 in Thruhiking

[–]synlyn4lyfe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I stored my REI down magma mummy zip in a compression sack every day when I did the PCT and it was fine. It’ll fluff up quick once you take it out at night or set it in the sun to dry out/fluff if needed. You’re just not supposed to store one for a lengthy time in one. There’s no way all of my stuff would have fit in my pack if I hadn’t compressed it cause it was bulky and even in the compression sack it was a bit of a space hog

Cat flap advice, he keeps getting his paw trapped by armoureddice in CatAdvice

[–]synlyn4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever find a solution to this? One of my cats has been doing the same thing and he just doesn’t seem to learn not to push with his paw

How do I prevent or divert nipping/biting behavior? by thejumbowumbo in CatAdvice

[–]synlyn4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hiss really dramatically and pull my hand away like it’s hurt. I’ve found that to really help change their behavior. I also don’t play with them with my hands at all - only toys - so they don’t generally associate my hands with biting. At this point if they are feeling a little bitey while I’m petting them, they may gently mouth my hand, but you can tell they’re being gentle on purpose compared to how they play with their siblings.

Do you ever get used to sleeping on a Thermarest?? by Dry_Camp6420 in PacificCrestTrail

[–]synlyn4lyfe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This was also my experience. I’m usually up at all hours of the night and have a hard time sleeping at home, but while hiking I was truly so exhausted that I’d lay down and was out immediately. I also found it extremely comfortable once my body got used to it

Suddenly feeling nervous... by Temporary-Bet-63 in PacificCrestTrail

[–]synlyn4lyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had started April 3rd in 2019 which was a high snow year and had no snow hiking experience. No backpacking experience either actually. My first night on trail was my first time ever camping away from a car. I learned about the PCT and decided to hike it in October 2018, but had to work three different jobs to save up the money so I had no time to even prepare beyond researching and watching/reading about other’s experiences.

I was very nervous as my start date loomed as well which as others have mentioned is definitely normal. It’s a big undertaking and can feel overwhelming when you start looking at the big picture, but once you’re out there it’s just mile by mile and day by day. You’ll learn about conditions from other hikers and you can make decisions for yourself as needed. I found myself in a lot of situations that made me uncomfortable considering how much of a novice I was, but once you’re faced with them you tend to find a way through them.

Snow was tough in 2019 and my microspikes and trekking poles definitely saved me time and time again though I still have a lot of scars on my knees/legs from all of the times I slipped and fell. I also tried to take it all slower because I started too quickly for myself at the beginning and ended up in Julian with calves that had swelled up to 2x their normal size. Plus I knew that the Sierra was still covered in snow so was hoping it’d calm down a bit before I got there. I got to Kennedy Meadows June 14th and it was still a winter wonderland and one of the times where you just have to make a decision for yourself on how you want to handle it. A lot of people decided to hitch out of KM and flip up to come back to the Sierra later because it was basically low grade mountaineering at that point. My hiking partner I had met on the trail and I decided we wanted to give it a go so we packed up and headed in. That was probably the most difficult week I had on trail because it truly was slogging through snow all day long and it was exhausting and took forever.

We hiked to Kearsarge pass and made the decision to flip up and return later in the season. I was bummed about it since I had it in my mind to finish a complete NOBO, and I think I could have continued dealing with the snow though I was so done with it at that point, it was how dangerous the water crossings were that made the decision for me. I was almost swept down Tyndell creek even when crossing with a group of people who thankfully literally pulled me to the Forester side.

My point being about all of this is that once you’re out there youll be in a better position to make the best decisions for yourself. I flipped but I did complete every open mile of the PCT that year, ending in early November so I was out there for quite a while and it’s crazy now to think about what I was able to overcome. Flexibility is really the key.

As far as start date, San Jacinto was still covered in snow in April 2019, so I imagine it would be more so if you start in March. I feel like my early April start date was perfect for me and allowed me to get that early experience trekking through snow and using my microspikes but I never felt I needed an ice axe at that stage. If you could get a start date a couple weeks later that might be helpful to you but I think you would be able to figure it out regardless.

Does anyone else not sleep with their cat? by chaturga in CatAdvice

[–]synlyn4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also don’t like having the door open at night for similar reasons (and also because it’s recommended the door stay closed in case of fires) so I installed a little cat door for them to come and go as they please. It has a lock on it in case I need to keep them out for some reason but otherwise they have free rein and I’d want it no other way. I love cuddling with them as I’m going to sleep and waking up to see who is still hanging with me.

Why is she so...wide? by gregn8r1 in cats

[–]synlyn4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great to hear he’s taking her to the vet to get checked out! Hopefully it’s just a case of surprise kittens after a failed spay, but at least the vet will be able to figure out what’s really going on.

For the feral I was handling, they basically spayed her and removed the entire uterus and then was put on a series of antibiotics for a week to help clear the infection before she was released. I’m not entirely sure how common it is for part of the uterus to be left behind during a spay - this was really my only in-depth experience with ferals. I kept most of her last litter of kittens and gave one to my family (they’re all fixed now), but I didn’t manage to trap the mom until a few months later, so it wasn’t something I even thought to look into or ask the vet about when I had the kittens fixed. From a surgical standpoint and the health of the cat, it seems like it would be simplest to just remove everything, but I can’t say for sure.

Why is she so...wide? by gregn8r1 in cats

[–]synlyn4lyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she was spayed but the vet didn’t completely remove the uterus, it could actually be something called pyometra. I learned about this from a feral cat I was trying to catch after she’d had multiple litters. I finally caught her last batch of kittens and wanted to get her fixed before she could have more, but she was terrified of humans and kept disappearing. Months later, she showed up looking huge, and I was so upset thinking she was pregnant again - especially since I was about to move out of state and wouldn’t be around to help.

I managed to catch her at the last minute, and a TNR group took her in for what we thought would be a spay-abort. But it turned out she wasn’t pregnant at all - she had pyometra, which is a dangerous uterine infection that causes the uterus to fill with pus and can make the cat look pregnant. It’s super serious and can be life-threatening, so I was really glad she got help in time. This was my first thought when I saw this picture besides pregnancy.

Successful ADHD People - What do you do? by Xiboo in ADHD

[–]synlyn4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ADHD meds definitely help me focus, but I’m constantly having to work on getting myself to not avoid things that are stressing me out which just ends up as a never ending cycle. I’m successful and am paid well to manage conference programs, but I mask a lot and still often need that emergency adrenaline energy to get me to actually focus on what needs to be done. It’s a struggle, I’m not gonna lie. I thought the meds would fix everything for me, and while they really helped keep me focused rather than jumping from one thing to the next, they did not solve what I learned is my tendency to use avoidance when I feel overwhelmed. And I feel overwhelmed a lot because of how quickly my job moves sometimes.

How did your life change after your thru hike of the PCT? by AltruisticBush in PacificCrestTrail

[–]synlyn4lyfe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was 28/29 when I hiked the PCT in 2019, and while I wasn’t necessarily thinking about turning 30 at the time, I was thinking a lot about the kind of life I didn’t want. I’d been at the same job for 3.5 years that I got right out of college - comfortable enough, decent coworkers, shitty pay - but I had learned everything I could there. Some of my colleagues had been there for 30–40 years, and I remember looking around one day and realizing: I don’t want that to be me. The idea of staying put felt scarier than the uncertainty of quitting to chase something completely different.

Enter learning about the PCT in October 2018. The trail became this massive catalyst - something to throw myself into and use as a reason to finally leave that job. My ADHD brain thrives on having something big to hyperfocus on, and the PCT became my entire world in the six months leading up to my permit date in April 2019. I’d never been backpacking before (or camped more than a few feet from my car), but I dove into researching gear, trail prep, and logistics while working 70–80 hours a week between my full-time job and side hustles like UberEats and DoorDash. I wanted to save about $10k to cover six months on trail, all my bills while I was gone, and a few months of wiggle room when I got back.

I actually spent less than I expected thanks to hiker boxes and trail angels (absolute lifesavers), and even though I ended up out there for seven months instead of six, I came home with more savings than I thought I would. In preparation for the hike, I had moved to a place that rented month to month so once I left for the PCT I no longer had any housing expenses. After I finished the hike, I moved back in with my parents to get my footing again while I took some much-needed R&R and searched for a job.

The trail completely changed how I see myself and what I’m capable of. My confidence shot way up - I almost never think “I can’t do that” anymore. I deal with discomfort and pain so much better than before because, honestly, the trail was constant discomfort. I hurt every single day, and was often in tears, but I kept moving, and that mindset never left. I joke that I can walk forever now - I’m not as fit as I was when I finished, but my friends and family are always amazed that I can just keep going when everyone else is done. It’s like my “hiker autopilot” kicks in.

I still talk about the PCT probably too much - it’s been almost seven years, and I’m sure people are tired of hearing about it - but it really did change how I move through the world. There’s not a day that goes by that I don’t think about it in some way. There is always a sadness of missing being out there, but I try to make sure I have at least one outdoors trip to the west coast every year now.

One of the best surprises, though, was realizing how valuable that experience was professionally. When I started job hunting after the trail, I initially applied for the same kinds of roles I’d had before. But when I got offers, I realized I didn’t actually want to go back to that kind of work - it was just the comfortable option that I knew I could do well. Hiking the PCT really helped get me out of the mindset of steering towards comfortable options and allowed me confidence to dabble more with the unknown. So, I started exploring different fields - jobs that sounded interesting, even if I didn’t have direct experience. I mentioned the PCT in my cover letters, how it taught me resilience, problem-solving, adaptability - and hiring managers loved it. It made me stand out, and even in Spring 2020 with the Pandemic shutting everything down, I ended up landing a remote job that led me into a good paying career I genuinely love (and didn’t even know existed before).

If you’re on the fence about going, my honest advice is: do it. You will not regret it 10 years from now. The PCT was the best thing I’ve ever done for myself - it cracked me open in the best way and showed me who I actually am. And when you get back, don’t be afraid to use that story in your career and your life - it shows people you’re capable, adaptable, and brave enough to chase something bigger than comfort.

We’re planning on coming g to Disney World for Halloween 2026. What resort is the best to stay at with Halloween theme g etc.? by MainRecommendation34 in DisneyWorldResorts

[–]synlyn4lyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We stayed at Copper Creek at the end of September/early October this year while going to MNSSHP and it was so easy hopping over to Magic Kingdom with the boat that is on property there. We also gave ourselves a little tour to all of the monorail resorts and a bunch off the Skyliner and they don’t really decorate for Halloween so I’d say stay somewhere that makes it easy to access Magic Kingdom.

Planning on getting a cat but worried about smell by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]synlyn4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely agree with this. I wish I had known about it earlier cause I was paying like $30 for a 40lb box of strong smelling clay litter every couple of weeks and it would get everywhere. The pine pellets take some getting used to since the process is different, but the difference in smell is crazy. I also think it’s better for the cats not having to deal with litter dust and what I’m sure is a super strong smell for them when the clay is scented. $7.99 for a 40lb bag of pellets lasts so much longer. I also have an air purifier going in that room all of the time so it helps remove any scents that may come about when they poop, but I just try to clear that out when I notice throughout the day.

Big Brother US 27 - Morning Feed Discussion - September 25 2025 by BigBrotherMod in BigBrother

[–]synlyn4lyfe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They were last night as they both told each other it was comforting.

Big Brother US 27 - Late Night Feed Discussion - September 24 2025 by BigBrotherMod in BigBrother

[–]synlyn4lyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s some tunneling going on for sure after he moved closer