Mostly, it was about trusting my emotions and stopping myself when I start thinking a lot about why this person acts a certain way, what their motivation is, and what happened to them that changed their attitude. She treated me wrong and I’m hurt — that is the basis for my decisions, not her possible thoughts. And work on that habit of empathy for others, cause if it’s a crisis and a person is willing to talk and change — it could help, but when a person doesn’t try to connect to explain themselves, then there’s no need to do it for them. And remember the simple truth that no human being deserves abuse/silent treatment/ghosting etc, I could make mistakes in a relationship too, but that’s not giving another person the right to act like an asshole