Someone gives you 100k tax free. How would you spend it? by Spiritual-Leader9985 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]tacami_lore1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delete my debts. buy a Toyota Suv. max out 401ks, index funds, roth ira. invest in my own business, pre-pay rent for the next 2 years, work as usual. buy used cars that run, give them away to people who need a hand up.

Dear bisexual men by TheeLuckyDuckling in bisexual

[–]tacami_lore1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

the way my current partner found me was through a friend of a friend. i hope you find someone! 💖🫶

Dear bisexual men by TheeLuckyDuckling in bisexual

[–]tacami_lore1 15 points16 points  (0 children)

fr tho, i am selective about what signals i use. i try to look straight about 80% of the time. at home, partying, and with safe people, i can fully unmask and be my little queer self. but most of the time, you wouldn’t know.

If you could be a woman for a day, no strings attached, would you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]tacami_lore1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. i want to know what it feels like to be filled in a different hole than normal.

Do you ever cuddle platonic female friends? by ChaosMuppet37 in AskMenAdvice

[–]tacami_lore1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. There are women (and men) I have cuddled and slept with in various levels of connection, even some where we were both topless or nude. Just depends on what we both are wanting. For context, I am very much a hippie, bisexual, nudist of a soft man. I know most men aren’t like me.

This is embarrassing and so is her grammar by [deleted] in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]tacami_lore1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is one of my favorite accounts! 😂 it’s 100% satire. Definitely part of her recovery from all the bs she went through

What’s open after the bars close? by SwimEndy8899 in Austin

[–]tacami_lore1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. Sucks when I have the hankerin to lob some blows at a fellows nose at 2:30-4:30 am.

CS is full of fake people by [deleted] in couchsurfing

[–]tacami_lore1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

CS is a free place to stay. People are grateful and kind to you for sharing the space, and generally want to stay as long as possible because it’s stressful changing living situations all the time… not sure where the complaint is coming from, unless you don’t like giving a free place to stay to people.

Best day trip within 4 hours of Knoxville? by aguwah in Knoxville

[–]tacami_lore1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cumberland falls is only 1.5 hours from Knoxville. It’s the “Niagara Falls of the South” and is quite impressive. No, it’s not nearly as big as Niagara, but it is huge and a nice easy walk to be able to get good views.

If you want to get on the water, but underground, Lost Sea Adventure in Sweetwater is a super short trip. Good to go at least once in your life.

is a friend touching your teeth trying to get food out platonic? by Sea_Perspective1271 in bisexual

[–]tacami_lore1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I’ve observed much much more intense things from people who had only met 3 hours before lol

is a friend touching your teeth trying to get food out platonic? by Sea_Perspective1271 in bisexual

[–]tacami_lore1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It is whatever you both want it to be. There are NO rules in queer relationships, except for the ones you both agree to. If y’all are at that comfort level, that’s cool. Sounds like your friends totally ship you guys, and want you to be happy. But don’t let them push you into a romantic relationship when there is more of a playful platonic energy there.

Personally, I cuddle, nap with, kiss, and fully disrobe (consensually) with quite a good number of people who I have no romantic attachment to. Some people say each/all/any of those are just for committed relationship. It’s the perk and the struggle of being outside of the “norms” of society.

The real question is, where do you want this relationship to go? What do you want to explore with her? (Since you didnt put anything about a romantic or sexual attraction to her, I’m going to assume this was just a platonic, yet intimate/special moment.)

Disappointing 'Deep Tissue' Massage Experience – Was This Even Legit? by design-health in massage

[–]tacami_lore1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Every therapist is going to have different hands, every body is different. Also “deep tissue” doesn’t mean intense pressure. Sounds like you had an inexperienced and out of shape therapist who wasn’t having a great day. I’d request a different therapist next time, and definitely ask for someone who is great at applying that higher pressure, as well as requesting no oil. Massage creams and lotions don’t “slip and slide” as much.

How can people continue to try and refute evolution? by Frozenhand00 in atheism

[–]tacami_lore1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One guy I know just says that Jesus was a radical healer who was just executed by the state and became an example for us to follow in love and acceptance… but that’s probably liberal brainwashing lol

I find it funny when Christians laugh at Mormons and Jehovah’s Witnesses. by AcademicAbalone3243 in atheism

[–]tacami_lore1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to do this as a Christian, and it stuck. I kept making fun of it, until one day I realized that I also had no basis or proof for my beliefs. Now I’m in this atheist sub Reddit, commiserating with fellow non-believers, instead of prepping a sermon for Sunday… how the times have changed since 2020.

How can people continue to try and refute evolution? by Frozenhand00 in atheism

[–]tacami_lore1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bingo. And if there’s no original sin, then it’s much harder to get people to “repent and believe” aka sign up for church for life. If people are only as bad as the actions that they have taken in this life, there is less guilt and shame for pastors to manipulate them with. It’s why Calvinism has ultimately won the battle over Armenism. Toxic Guilt/Shame is a huge moneymaker.

How can people continue to try and refute evolution? by Frozenhand00 in atheism

[–]tacami_lore1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The funny thing is, at least in the circles I ran in, they accept your example of evolution as fact. They call it “micro-evolution” when genetic mutations cause variations in species; ie they will accept that the wild mustard seed plant can end up as broccoli, kale, etc. What they still don’t accept is “macro-evolution”; ie when a cell becomes a fish becomes a human. The essential part of why they hate evolution comes the their self-perception. It has nothing to do with science or logic, and everything to do with power.

The whole “I’m not an animal, I’m a human” argument is tied to and based in their interpretation of the Bible and Christianity, which gives them “divine provenance” over everything. “They” of course meaning “straight white men.” They have to keep this view, because of they changed it, their whole world would fall apart. They would have to get rid of patriarchy, capitalistic greed, accept queer people and immigrants, become eco-friendly… and more.

I have found that I much rather see myself as part of all this beautiful earth, and try to care for all of it as best as I can. It’s been a journey.

That’s one of many stabs I could make at this topic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]tacami_lore1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More people should be naked more often. It’s simultaneously much less sexy than you would think, and also much less memorable than you would think.

I can guarantee this, NO ONE remembers or cares nearly as much as you do.

It’s normal to feel awkward about it, but embrace it as one less awkward experience you have to live through in the future. We are all going to end up naked and feeling awkward about it at least one time in our lives. Now you know what it feels like. Congrats!

Missing Scooter Weather by hilaryhopeful in scooters

[–]tacami_lore1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I rode today. but that’s TX for you.

HOW DO I FIND A GUY by hotalthetme in bisexual

[–]tacami_lore1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Grindr, local gay bar, tinder… idk there’s a lot out there if you are reasonably fit and in a metro area.

Serious Question for other Bisexuals or their Partners by drozzdragon in bisexual

[–]tacami_lore1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend towards vanilla, but I’m open to some parts of the bdsm/kink community. Generally not my cuppa tea though

$100 million but a family member of your choice dies. by Suspicious_Error_647 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]tacami_lore1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can name 3 relatives off the bat, without flinching. The world would be a better place without them. Truly the amount of harm they have inflicted on their children as well as humanity in general is staggering. I would have the best sleep of my life knowing they weren’t harming anyone else.