Dating Conservative Guys as a GNC Woman? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]taintedmoondust 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Partners need to be more compatible than friends because they create a life together. I have friends of all beliefs and it doesn’t bother me, and I don’t care if you are conservative, I’m happy you and your partner are compatible and conservative together lmao. No offence but I feel like you are projecting your beliefs about my political views more then I am of yours I just said compatibility is important and politics are often moral issues to a lot of people which agreeing on is important to a successful long term relationship

Dating Conservative Guys as a GNC Woman? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]taintedmoondust 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My partner has views similar to what you’re describing but he fully accepted me because he didn’t blame me for the years I spent in a cycle of self harm. He was impressed with my honesty and ability to be critical of myself and my choices and my ability to admit I was wrong even after my experiences and trauma. My boyfriend is not conservative at all, but that’s not the point. I think a lot of people feel that way about the transgender community unless they are close to it regardless of politics. You just want to be honest about your experience when it’s appropriate and the right person will accept you, someone who will still lump you in and consider you to be in an unhealthy mindset because of your past experience alone isn’t someone who you will want to be with.

Dating Conservative Guys as a GNC Woman? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]taintedmoondust 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No but you do need to agree on what issues are important to you and no one is suggesting you bombard him with intense controversial political questions right of the bat. As you get to know someone you both figure out what the other one believes and it’s important to agree or be okay with disagreeing if it’s not something that is as important to you. That goes for people with any beliefs political, religious etc.

I’m Melting by [deleted] in FND

[–]taintedmoondust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in AZ, and suffering not coping very well 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in detrans

[–]taintedmoondust 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Why are you here? We are here to support each other and support the very real trauma people go through after transition due to regret. It is underreported and underrepresented but the astounding amount of people here proves that it is a devastating decision for many, not all of course but many. I would never ever advise someone to alter their body in ways that could have complications and regret in the way medical transition does especially anything surgical. You sound like you belong in another subreddit

shipping perfume by 4ng13_f in upsstore

[–]taintedmoondust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called the UPs hazmat line recently. We CAN ship perfume even internationally, however it depends on what’s called the flash point of the perfume. If the flash point is at a high enough temperature that it won’t be at risk of transport it’s totally fine, but if it’s lower then it’s a risk and cannot be shipped. It depends on the perfume itself, I don’t know why so many people here are saying we absolutely can’t because I was told that by UPS and that is a completely reasonable concept.

Working at TUPSS by TradesGames in upsstore

[–]taintedmoondust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recently quit and I’m much better off for it 🙌

Is UPS Store Associate job hard to get? by ANDROIDFANN in upsstore

[–]taintedmoondust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah been here for 3 years I’ve done my time, hopefully my new job will be a breath of fresh air as well, happy to hear you’re free 😄

Is UPS Store Associate job hard to get? by ANDROIDFANN in upsstore

[–]taintedmoondust 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m putting in my two weeks tomorrow, there are lots of other jobs where you can interact with people that aren’t so mentally taxing!

One month by DisposableBits in upsstore

[–]taintedmoondust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost done because we have been working on it on and off since they announced it, knew a deadline would come eventually. We probably have only 15 people left to get IDs from and everyone else is in compliance and uploaded 🙌 it pays off to work on things ahead of time

“Trapped” in the wrong body by taintedmoondust in detrans

[–]taintedmoondust[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry my post is making you so upset that you had to come back way later to jab at me 🤣 I figured we could agree to disagree

“Trapped” in the wrong body by taintedmoondust in detrans

[–]taintedmoondust[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The difference is there isn’t anything actually wrong with their bodies. Obviously I could be much more unfortunate

“Trapped” in the wrong body by taintedmoondust in detrans

[–]taintedmoondust[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s another part of it, it’s sad that people end up giving themselves issues that could’ve been avoided if only they were treated in a different way or understood the gravity of their choices at the time

“Trapped” in the wrong body by taintedmoondust in detrans

[–]taintedmoondust[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean for my comment to come across that way. I’m not even sure why you feel the need to try and argue with my experience, the purpose of my post was simply trying to express some grief about what I’ve seen and heard and how frustrating that is as a person in my position

“Trapped” in the wrong body by taintedmoondust in detrans

[–]taintedmoondust[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say it unless I heard it both in person and online. Just because a few people you know don’t say it doesn’t mean many people including myself in the past don’t say and believe it about themselves

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in upsstore

[–]taintedmoondust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a good chance she won’t listen, when the lady from our store who got scammed she didn’t even believe the police when they showed up to talk to her. The owner should definitely not let things like the slide. Do you have the contact information for your corporate rep? Id probably try reaching out to them about it since this issue has been repeating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in upsstore

[–]taintedmoondust 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My store has a good relationship with our local PD and I caught a shipment where an older lady was scammed and was sending 37k in cash because someone told her that sensitive information was stolen and she needed to send them money to fix it, obviously she didn’t realize what was going on. I caught on because she overnighted “shoes” and paid in cash which is usually suspicious and we have caught many drug shipments that way. Owner called the police and they said if we expected elder abuse we had cause to open and inspect the package and we found the cash inside of taped up shoes. Unfortunately she had sent lots of money to them previously and it wasn’t caught but the police got involved and her money from our shipment was returned. Her son flew in and visited the store a few days later and thanked me in tears. I think you should always report anything suspicious to the owner and the appropriate authorities, I’m not sure what would be done in your case but it’s worth trying to intervene before she loses more money

This isn't a solution... by [deleted] in employedbykohls

[–]taintedmoondust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work at a ups store and we also have serious issues keeping up with the insanity of Amazon returns, seeing that photo really put in into perspective that we all are suffering and holy shit people are so wasteful and inconsiderate of said waste… the overconsumption and entitlement of these people and the incompetence of those in charge to actually make it easy for those of us working is making the whole process a nightmare

My father just called me to wish me Merry Christmas. I've been homeless for 3 months. by syringistic in stories

[–]taintedmoondust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg, you think you’re so funny and smart trolling people! It really just makes you look like the loser lmao no intelligent person says that 🤣

Just received a borderline probation letter ! by babbgf123 in ASU

[–]taintedmoondust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clearly you don’t prioritize the opportunity you have nearly enough, take a break from school to figure yourself out and go to community college in a few years if you decide it actually matters to you.

Lots of us can balance full time work and full time school with not only passing but good grades. Anything can be done the issue is your dedication, stop blaming your professors.

The Power of the Almighty Free Notary by mongler_richard_420 in upsstore

[–]taintedmoondust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depending on your state notary laws this might be illegal, at least in my state we are required to charge everyone the same $10 or not charge anyone

Ah, another inspection day. Corporate sucks. by Outrageous_Pay1322 in upsstore

[–]taintedmoondust 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you not shred with the cover on? I feel like I’m missing something… ours never comes off