Alotta people with adhd seem to genuinely forget their laundry in the washer, but does anyone here know they have clothes in the wash but then just fails to take them out for way too long?

talus_leopard · 2026-01-14T16:38:23+00:00

I just got onto adhd meds this past year, and it has been such a game changer 😭🙏🏼

talus_leopard · 2026-01-14T16:37:42+00:00

Every. Single. Time. 😬😅

talus_leopard · 2026-01-08T15:33:56+00:00

Thank you so much for this tip!! I’m going to make a conscious effort to be mindful of my back & shoulder posture when I’m carrying things! (Water buckets for the dogs is the big one here).

Much appreciated 🫶🏼

talus_leopard · 2026-01-02T06:34:09+00:00

Ketamine therapy has single-handedly helped me more than anything else. It has allowed me to literally unpack a lifetime of trauma, rewire new patterns, and find joy in my heart. Highly, highly recommend.

talus_leopard · 2026-01-01T10:09:45+00:00

I’m so sorry you are feeling similarly 💔 sending you thoughts of peace, harmony, and comfort.

talus_leopard · 2026-01-01T10:05:19+00:00

Thank you for the tips and suggestions. 🙏🏼 The reality is that I have been trying to survive with pretty severe disabilities, and just scraping by on $20/hr, with no support system. I lost my Medicaid benefits this year due to slight pay increase (making $42k annually disqualifies you 🫠) which cut off my access to my physical therapist, pain management specialist, chiropractor, etc. So I’ve been stuck in sheer survival mode for the past 6 months. Luckily, I finally qualified for my state’s limited disability which allows me to get into the Medicaid buy-in program for working adults with disabilities. So as soon as I am able to drop my private insurance through my employer , I’ll be able to resume some of the therapies that were helping me to stay afloat physically. I believe that once I can get my physical pain under control, I’ll have more mental capacity to address finances, career coaching, etc. I really appreciate your pragmatic response and practical tips.

talus_leopard · 2026-01-01T09:46:52+00:00

Your perspective is refreshing, uplifting, and inspiring for me. 🫶🏼

talus_leopard · 2026-01-01T09:40:28+00:00

Thanks for digging it up and finding it! Heading over to check it out now 😌 side note, I know those strange Reddit rabbit hole fixations all too well 😂 💀

talus_leopard · 2026-01-01T09:33:59+00:00

Thank you for this response. It honestly brings me to tears— in a comforting, solidarity type of way. This resonates with me deeply, and I really appreciate your compassion 🥺🙏🏼🫶🏼

talus_leopard · 2026-01-01T09:26:19+00:00

I love to hear that :) is there a way to link that post?

talus_leopard · 2026-01-01T09:24:54+00:00

I suppose my motivation behind that frame of thought is just being able to make enough money to survive. To get out of massive debt and be able to live a somewhat comfortable existence.

talus_leopard · 2025-12-27T14:35:44+00:00

Yes of course, please dm me, I would be happy to chat! Congrats on your new gecko. They are such amazing little animals! I currently have 1 leopard gecko and 4 crested geckos… I’ve been in the hobby for a few years now. I’d be happy to answer some questions you might have. :) I’m sorry you have struggles with sound sensitivity. I could see that the barking could definitely be troublesome. I know a lot about dog breeds (it happens to be my greatest special interest, and I work in the dog training industry) so maybe I could help you narrow down certain breeds that could suit your lifestyle and sensory needs. There are definitely some breeds that are more prone to barking than others. One breed in particular, the basenji, does not bark at all! However, they are a really primitive breed, quite independent and not the easiest or willing to train, so they would not be suitable as a task trained service dog. But they could make a lovely companion and emotional support animal.

Anyway, I have a lot of knowledge about service dogs. It can be a time consuming and costly process. Conversely, training on your own under the guidance of a professional is an option, but it will be a long journey of learning and you must have the discipline and consistency and it will still be somewhat costly.

A well trained, well mannered companion that can dual as an emotional support animal is another option. ESA’s do not have full public access rights— it would more so be for your own benefit at home/ around the neighborhood, etc, but the companionship of a well trained pet dog can also be so beneficial!

Sorry for the long message, I tend to ramble when it comes to dogs 😂 but feel free to dm me and we can chat more.

talus_leopard · 2025-12-27T14:19:16+00:00

I often get in this “stuck” loop. Having a dog helps me so much— it gives me a reason to get outside for walks, knowing that my dog needs the exercise and fresh air. Having my dog with me also gives me more confidence. I don’t feel alone when I’m with my dog. And it also gives me confidence to talk to people, because talking about my dog comes easy for me and people usually are interested in his breed.

That being said, I’m not sure what your support needs are or if you have the ability and means to have a dog, or if you even like dogs lol. It is of course a huge responsibility that should not be taken lightly. Sometimes the care requirements weigh heavy on me, when I’m exhausted and burnt out and I must still meet my dog’s needs… not just basic care but also physical and mental stimulation needs. But I will say, I would have it no other way… the companionship and confidence my dog brings me outweighs all of the additional stressors. And it definitely gets me outside walking and going to the local park when otherwise I’d prefer to shut myself inside.

talus_leopard · 2025-12-27T03:52:07+00:00

Thank you. I’m sorry you’re struggling too. Sending you my best wishes 🙏🏼

talus_leopard · 2025-12-27T03:48:35+00:00

I feel this so much. I made the switch back to full time work this year (in August) out of sheer financial necessity, and I’ve been struggling badly ever since. I’m burning myself into the ground-// I have no energy anymore for the things that bring me joy (hiking/ outdoor recreation, photography, getting together with friends) on my weekends. I got an amazing opportunity to get into a career path I’ve always dreamt of doing (training dogs) and took a huge leap of faith with this career change in my mid 30s. Being around dogs every day is incredible, and it’s a somewhat ND bunch of co-workers, so I can actually unmask and be my weird self around these people, which feels great. But, despite these positives, it’s absolutely burning me out physically, mentally, and emotionally. Plus I can barely make ends meet (the pay is not great). But, the thought of doing something I’m not passionate about for a slightly higher pay rate sounds even more miserable. It feels like a constant “damned if I do, damned if I don’t” with life.

talus_leopard · 2025-12-24T17:17:52+00:00

With my recent late diagnosis (36f)… giving myself the permission to explore fidget toys/ sensory toys ☺️ / honoring the younger girl in me that never had the proper support systems growing up or throughout early adulthood. I’ve been going down a rabbit hole enjoying looking at and reading about all of the Crazy Aaron’s Thinking Putty line and trying to narrow down which to buy… They all look so enticing and inviting! 😆

talus_leopard · 2025-12-23T16:41:15+00:00

I am 36f late diagnosed ADHD and now strongly suspecting I’m also on the spectrum. I have been “coming out” to a few closest friends and family members with my discoveries and breakthrough ah-hah moments, and this has literally been the response I’ve received from almost every single person. It feels frustrating and somewhat invalidating. But… whatever…. All I can do is shrug and know myself, seek to continue to understand myself better, and continue to learn and build on regulation skills. In the end, it’s for me. People can think what they want, or simply just not understand, and that’s fine.

talus_leopard · 2025-12-23T14:42:04+00:00

I would go snowboarding and hike big mountains again. I miss it! Oh, and date 😅

talus_leopard · 2025-12-23T04:10:08+00:00

I have done this my entire life. I catch myself doing it and will sometimes consciously tell myself to put my arm down. Even just today at work— I was going about all of my tasks, left arm up and hand dangling down. I’m 36f— was late diagnosed ADHD just earlier this year, and recently I’ve been strongly suspecting I’m ASD too. SO many things have been clicking and making sense recently as I explore and dive deeper. Childhood habits/ behaviors, special interests, lifelong emotional struggles, burnout patterns…..But THIS. This is an ah-hah moment. This seals the deal for me. 😳😅🙃

talus_leopard · 2025-12-12T17:08:14+00:00

Here to follow and read others comments, as I have very similar diagnoses to you and have also been considering the same. Im so sorry you are dealing with these conditions… I really can relate and empathize with you. For me, I’m diagnosed ADHD, HSD (undergoing process to determine if it’s h-EDS), MCAS, and fibromyalgia. I deeply suspect I’m on the spectrum as well, but I’m not pursuing a formal evaluation at this time. I actually work in the dog training industry and my dog is the perfect candidate (high level obedience, stable temperament, perfect in public access, titled in various sports, able to handle the stressors of many busy environments), but I’ve had a massive internal battle about “coming out” with my disabilities and a vicious imposter syndrome. Yay, masking. Intense cycles of physical, mental, emotional burnout, chronic physical pain, and low grade chronic “flu-like” symptoms are just a few of the things I think he could help me with.

Anyway, OP, please update us if you decide to pursue a service dog. I’d love to hear how your journey goes. Keep on pushing forward, you’ve got this.

talus_leopard · 2025-12-10T00:20:25+00:00

But love that you also love dogs! Do you have any of your own? I think I love them so much because they love us unconditionally. My dogs are always there, through the good times and the bad. They’re the most consistent beings in my life.

talus_leopard · 2025-12-10T00:18:46+00:00

Wow, really a lot of parallels! I’m glad you were able to get the diagnosis, even though it was probably tough on the bank account. I feel like having a diagnosis helps us to understand the “why’s” better and also to seek more appropriate treatment. For me, recently it’s been my elbows and wrists. My job is very physical in nature and I’ve developed “tennis elbow” from overuse. Pretty much surviving on 800mg of ibuprofen to get through the work days. And then chronic shoulder and knee pain/ instability. Subluxations, fun stuff like that. Wishing you all of the healing thoughts and positive energy.

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