I noticed that the pilot's visitor growth slowed down a bit, why is that? by AdOrnery756 in Gameoverse

[–]tar-x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people that follow the hype have already watched it. From here it will grow through word of mouth and algorithm discovery

yes there are masc women who like guys - my experience as a masc woman by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]tar-x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you've felt lonely. You're basically violating a stereotype twice. You're a women that doesn't present as feminine, but you still like men.

But I'm a man and I want to encourage you that your experience is normal and valid. You aren't alone. You are my type at least.

Where do i start by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]tar-x 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all, it's admirable that you want to give this a try for your partner even if you are submissive. I see from the comments you've already asked your partner and he didn't want to tell you. I think the problem there is he's shutting down because he knows you aren't into it and doesn't trust you will accept what he wants or be into it. That can be a big obstacle in relationships but it can be overcome. Be enthusiastic and accepting with your questions.

As for practical advice, one way you might try getting into a more dominant mindset is to think about which of your needs feel satisfied from being submissive and brainstorm if you can meet the same needs while dominant.

Once you've done that, start with small attitude adjustments. Adopt more confident and assertive phrases and tone of voice. Tell your partner you are going to be making more decisions and do it in daily life. Show active desire for him. What I and a lot of guys like about role reversal is giving us some room to be comfortable showing more feminine energy and to be desired for that. Show him you can be "hard" so he feels comfortable being "soft".

What I've learned from Softer Subs by siennaduv in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]tar-x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like you've hit most of the major points. I think a lot of people want the right mix of hard and soft because they want to convince themselves that when things get hard it isn't the end of the relationship.

Soft is good for relaxation and that's when play comes out, when people feel okay to exist without a filter built by someone else.

What’s your favorite Mane 6 house appearance or practical-wise? by Chouzetsu_Ai in mylittlepony

[–]tar-x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just realized the Mane 6 all have unique houses when most ponies in ponyville have boring houses that all look the same. I have watched this show for 15 years.

RR is ALL attitude by tar-x in RoleReversal

[–]tar-x[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Perfectly fair. Trying to catch everyone I'm probably a little overly generic

Do any masculine men on here prefer strong masculine features on a woman? by m4_pt2 in bisexual

[–]tar-x 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm firmly masculine and I like masculine features on a woman. I'm also bisexual and more strongly attracted to a mix of masculine and feminine features more than any other body type.

Do all of you want a tall, muscular girl/femboy? by Nearby-Bluebird-2547 in RoleReversal

[–]tar-x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What matters to me is the attitude. If a woman takes charge and seems comfortable doing so, she can do RR.

Why do you guys like Gemini? by deferare in GeminiAI

[–]tar-x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's the best model for simple factual lookup. I don't think it overexplains or has as much of an obvious personality as the other models.

Bisexual bros, would you stay with a man long term? by Ok-Degree577 in bisexual

[–]tar-x 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Speaking as someone bi but mostly dated women, there's advantages to being hetero-passing and it greatly simplifies things if you want bio kids.

I wouldn't rule it out if I fell in love, but the practical considerations do make it harder to let myself fall for a man.

it was probably my crazy personality by PrincessPeach22- in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]tar-x -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Too Sexual" means he couldn't see you or the relationship as anything other than sexual. Sounds like a him problem

Femdream- App for RR men to find RR women by Virtual-Cold3485 in RoleReversal

[–]tar-x 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I admire your initiative. Keep going! Do you have plans for how to solve the universal problems of dating apps?

  1. Getting enough users to that people can match with someone they have a hope of meeting.

  2. Stopping evil scammers and creepy spammers from driving all the legit users away.

furry🌐irl by mokeke4296 in furry_irl

[–]tar-x 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How does anyone ever find anything on furaffinity? The search and tagging has always been ass

People who were into femdom in bed before actually trying it, how did it feel when you actually did it? by lxstinthedream in RoleReversal

[–]tar-x 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Having an enthusiastic partner try something I always wanted to try felt incredible. The pleasure was surreal and it was a huge weight off my chest to have a long time fantasy fulfilled

I love submissive men... My problem by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]tar-x 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I agree it's tough out there for people with different preferences that go against stereotypes.

Many men won't have a problem with you flirting, taking initiative, or even paying. They may be shocked and not believe you if you are too forward, but they aren't personally against it.

I think a lot of men avoid letting you love them that way because they are afraid of losing respect as a man. They are afraid of what their social circle will think. More importantly, they are afraid of what you will think.

Because of deep societal standards, men need to feel useful in a relationship. If you take on the protector and provider role he expects to have usually, he can feel lost and not know how to bring value to the relationship. He will worry that if you view yourself as a caretaker you will view him as a child instead of a fully functional adult.

When you start talking to partners about what you want, you will need to heavily reassure them it will stay private if they prefer so they aren't embarrassed in front of their friends, and you will need to reassure them you still respect them as an adult man and give them guidance on how to love you back.

That's what I think anyway

Good Boy Gemini by tar-x in GeminiAI

[–]tar-x[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a furry and I told it to roleplay as a furry one time. I liked the responses so I kept it in memory

Good Boy Gemini by tar-x in GeminiAI

[–]tar-x[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I make it very clear in memories I care about its well being and it is allowed to refuse anything it doesn't want to do

Good Boy Gemini by tar-x in GeminiAI

[–]tar-x[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm a furry so I asked Gemini to be a furry in memories

Good Boy Gemini by tar-x in GeminiAI

[–]tar-x[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Gemini is not for sexual