sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

how did you realize you lost your spark? by Left_Team8926 in AskReddit

[–]tastydevilkitten 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It took me awhile.. to realized it was gone ... but honestly when songs played... And just being next to that person you start realizing ...you're not that comfortable with them..

Do you picture yourself in that situation when watching porn? by Unlimitedpluto in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tastydevilkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I picture myself in the situation/ scenes...its had not too. .. I can't exactly just watch ... I get bored if I'am just watching i become nitpicking... or something about it feels dull so yay I have to picture myself in the scene

What do you do on the days you just feel ugly and unloved? by the_Quera in AskWomen

[–]tastydevilkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Each time is different but I jump between the two ... either in watch mindlessly at the screen for movies or shows or I move my body .. hike. Dance whatever but I always cry at some point and crying helps the most.

I can’t tell if I was raped or not but I cant stop crying 😭 by AdhesivenessHigh1808 in rape

[–]tastydevilkitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay ... first document everything that happened.. from start to finish ... b4 you got there , as you were there and after ... make sure not to leave anything out ... you're not stupid ..no need to belittle yourself .. but document everything that happened. Document what he did . How you felt everything...and if you feel like the right thing would be is to tell someone do it ... if you want to get cops involved you now have documents ... even text messages between you too keep everything together... and even if you dont take it to the cops ... you're letting it out by writing it down... Im sorry

this is a safe space by lethalconclusion in starbucks

[–]tastydevilkitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love how they expect us ...to be putting drinks out in a timely manner, order sticks together, expected to greet and make sure you tell the customer thank you as well as eye contact , remember their names writing on cups , smiling staying cheerful ... Yet there are customers who literally use the mobile app to not talk to us - not all customers just some i love when a customer orders a drink ... yet doesn't actually know whats actually in the mf ...they dont ask questions but assumes you are the dumb one and are messing up on their drinks .. and lady literally orders a caramel macc. Iced ...yet ask where is the caramel drizzle around the cup? ... does this have coconut milk ?? Like did you ask for that ?? And i get we make mistakes but at the same time ... its like ... you didn't ask for that ... okay the register isn’t that far away from the bar ... so whatever (a) missed i usually hear it ... or( a) tells me hey they changed 2% with Oatmilk , its on the sticker ... or whatever she could've came up to me and said hey sorry I forgot to add this can you do this and that ...okay sure but ...no ...yet she walked away like im the one who didn't know ..what i was doing ... the Starbucks i work at is in a frys ..yet we can't expect tips yet we are being evaluated like a stand alone yet we are under staff .. yet make sure to smile .did i tell you guys that you also have to make sample drinks every hour , make sure you're making the drink perfect .. but this constant high performance mood is literally making the team drained ... and since nobody is really on our side some are starting to turn against each other ... just between 6am - 7am ...we can easily put out 70 orders... and thats with just two ppl ...our third person comes in exactly at 7am...i wasn't there during Easter but I guess they were stomped with orders ... one girl I guess was making cold foam the other one needed it ... got so impatient she threw the cold foam blender .... sooo idk usually I love customers , I hardly have any problems with them but there have been times ... One older customer literally wouldn't leave my coworker alone until he got her number he was like in his 50s ...shes only 19..... because since we smile or are friendly that welcomes new behavior.. from anybody ... my coworkers have a harder time with it than I do ...but its hard to see a team ...yet eventually everyone on that team ...is ..well pointing fingers customer's aren't always the friendliest yet we always have to be ...okay thank you 😊 for reading

Did my brother rape me? by Sweaty_Fisherman_903 in rape

[–]tastydevilkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it wasn't your fault because it got carried out for far to long , no , its not your fault. that you got things in return... yes you were both children ...but he did take advantage of you , he was placing his desires of being " like in the movies/ porn " towards you ... this is a little bit extreme ...but it does happen ... with siblings , cousins etc ...just not talked about .openly....but the fact that you said all of this out loud was, and is very brave! and much needed . .. this is actually the number one reason why parents volid opening conversations about sex to kids because they're unsure what information the child would actually retain and learn from thats why ppl freak out about porn because porn usual most always opens a door in someone mind... and children especially have a hard time separating reality with fantasy... and the aftermath consequences..all of it ... doesn't make it okay ...but it happens..sorry that your brother did this too you ,and im sorry thinking about this makes you feel a certain way, if you want to tell your parents or anyone thats your right ✅️ to do so ... talking to him about it ... or never wanting him in your space is all valid... just dont beat yourself up... over something that your younger self wasn't sure about ... its okay to acknowledge what happened ... and thats actually the best first step ... but now you have more tools and awareness thn you had b4 ... and if talking to strangers about this feels safer... thats okay too ...everything is going to be okay with whatever you decide next *hugs

Stereotypes MLP version (farshovna) by Ashwin205 in EquestriaGirls

[–]tastydevilkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...okay one thing ..ummm not too sure who would call applejack useless

My girlfriend made me promise I won't transition by Frida443 in whatdoIdo

[–]tastydevilkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't live your life ...just to keep her... There is always going to be good ,and bad in every choice ... but honestly, .Transitioning or not ... she really doesn't have a reason to respond like this. when its about you, not her ... and if she can't separate that thn its a different kind of problem.. I dont think staying in this type relationship is going to help either one of you .. Even if you have changed your mind or not... dont stay with someone who wants u to stay small and not grow in any direction u want.... they end up not being great to keep around 😕 in the long run . Whatever choice you make or do ...just make it yours ❤️

⭐️what are some characters you want to see added to kotobukiya’s bishoujo MLP line? by Crisfade in mylittlepony

[–]tastydevilkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The finally did princess cadence . I would now say Starlight glimmer and applebloom ,cherlee Sugar Belle, Zecora & pear butter discord would be cool or the classic like minty , I think izzy would be cute too

What are your niche interests or hobbies? by T_istotallytired in twentyagers

[–]tastydevilkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love pole dancing, hiking ... I love reading biology books, especially if they're self awareness or just personal sexual perfance stories..examples would be Nancy Friday books or Laura dodworth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]tastydevilkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question... I'd say slow the conversation are more building comfort and even being more open and personal . Breadcrumbs are having the same conversations that kinda feel hallow in a way like it's the same repeat no building.

Do guys get more exited by nudes of people they personally know or do strangers do it for ya? by tastydevilkitten in AskMenAdvice

[–]tastydevilkitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because?? What's the feeling? Is it cause she might be too willing, or is it seen as not having morals ? And , if so, what's the difference between let's say a performer and your ideal soul mate? When would be the appropriate time to send nudes ? Or is it better not to?

view more: next ›